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Well, on Valentine's Day my school had these little valentine's cards you could send to your crush. I sent one to this guy I like, but I don't think he's knows it was from me and I'm tired of waiting on him. I never get to talk to him, so I don't know what to do. How do I let him know in a round-about way that I like him?
Thanks!
You should have one of your friends go up to him and say something like "why didn't you respond to _______ 's (your name) valentine's day card?" Then he'll probably say "i didn't know it was from her" and he might send a message back to you through your friend. Hope i helped.
Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please!
Personally, i think u should tell Justin the truth. You should ask him to keep quiet about it, but nevertheless, u should tell him. If u were my g/f, i'd want u to be honest with me and he would probably want that too. It might even bring the two of u closer together. Good luck and hope i helped! If u have anymore questions, just ask me on my advice column or on AIM (NbaSplashman)
Any guys out there want to tell me what they like about girls? Its so hard to figure out them. Tell me what you guys like to hear from girls as far as flirting n other stuff. Thnx!
Guys like girls that are funny, friendly, and have a great personality (being good looking helps too). As far as flirting, guys like to hear that they are cute or hott. At least, that's the way it is for me. If someone says that to me, i'll probably remember that for a while and think about that person every now and then, if not more often. Hope i helped.
i am bummed. all my friends have boyfriends except for me. they are always talking about them and it makes me feel like shit....how can i get a bf? im pretty enough and im not fat (lol if u were wondering)(not conceited either...this is just quoting from some guy friends)...so yeah. any ideas?
OK let me first say thx for coming back to me for more advice lol.
I can't tell u exactly how to get a bf becuz different guys like different things. For example, i like girls that aren't always loud and don't always get emotional about everything. Other guys might like loud girls or girls that are really flirty. First, u have to find out wut kind of girl the guy u want likes. If he likes flirty girls, then flirt. If he likes quiet girls, then be quiet but try to stay near him. The one thing i have to say though is that u cannot change urself alot. Just be urself and try to flirt alot. If he doesn't buy into the flirting, just try to start liking someone else and get their attention. Hope I helped. If u have time, let me know how it all works out.
I'm 14 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 months ago, because we never talked or were able to see each other.Now that were broken up I see him more and more. We started hanging out. Well the other day he told me he still loved me and still wanted to be with me,but I didn't tell him it back because I didn't want to get hurt again.After that we started walkin with his friend and I had a stupid moment and kissed his friend (I've liked his friend for like ever),but I never stopped loving my ex.. Should I feel bad for what I did?
You shouldn't feel to bad about it. I mean, u made a mistake. We all make mistakes. If i were u, i'd tell ur ex that u made a mistake kissing his friend and u still love him. If u think u are going to see him and talk to him more often and u want to go back out with him, u should ask him out. I hope I helped. Feel free to ask me more questions and i'll do my best to help.
Umm do you think its alright for your BOYFRIEND or girlfriend to be hanging out with bunches of different GIRLS or guys when you arent around? It kinda bothers me because i dont know what is going on.. i trust him but it still worries me.
Personally, i don't think its alright for that to happen if ur not in that group. However, it happens. My ex-girlfriend used to do that (btw, that's not why we broke up). I wish i had told her that it bothered me, maybe she would've stopped. I would suggest telling him that u trust him and everything but it kinda bothers u. Also, I would ask him if he would just invite u to hang out with him when he is with these other people. That's the best advice i have for u. I hope i helped! Feel free to come back to me with any other questions. I'll help if i can.
ok so i like this guy and he likes me but we arent going out. so he tells me he loves me and i say it back, and it becomes a regular thing. so then today, hes leaving and i say i love you and he doesnt say it back. i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to come right out and say why didnt you say i love you too like you always do...any ideas to hint to him?
thanks
i wouldn't take it too seriously. i'm thinking that maybe he had something on his mind and he forgot. i wouldn't worry that much about it if i were u.
ok - i've on-and-off-again liked this kid chris since like grammer school (now i'm a freshman) and i just started talking to him again. we both said we miss each other alot and wanna plan something to get together - it's just that i don't wanna ruin our friendship by saying that i love him - how do i tell him?! i want him to know! *i rate* =)
I think maybe u should have one of ur friends go up to him and say something like "****** really likes u. do u like her?" but have them do it in a casual way so that chris doesn't know u told them to say that.