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Age: 21
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Im in this relationship with this guy that i've liked for a few years now. AT first he was only my bestfriend but then it got more when i told him i liked him. We went out once for about 3weeks and then i broke it off. About 2-3months later we got back together. Anyways its been a year now, and this guy, well he's the type of person that girls will be bestfriends with. Our relationship is great, and im crazy for this guy. Its just, i dont want to be. I hate that i care, and i hate that with him i get jealous. I dont want to care for anyone this much, this young. Ive tried not talking to him, ive tried ignoring him. Iv tried to tell myself, remind myself thats its only a crush. That it will end soon, but im lying to myself. But somehow, he always has me answering the phones, he has me waiting for his phones calls, i dont want to be tied down this young. But i cant help it. He just makes me smile everyday, he just makes life better. How do i STOP caring about this guy? (link)
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I know how you feel. But you cant just stop caring about someone overnight. Try taking things back to when you guys were best friends. focus on your life and be there for him when he needs you. There are alot things that you can get yourself into that could help you through this. You jsut gotta find out what it is. Just dont let go of the friendship you guys used to have. I really hope this helps and i hope you get through this in the best way.
Good Luck,
Manny
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Hi! Im a 15 year old girl. And my boyfriend is 14 years old. I just to shy to kiss him. Everyone wants us to kiss and i know that he is ready. Homecoming is coming up. How do i kiss him there in front of everyone? What do i do? (link)
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Well, you could kiss him and get it over with. Or you can wait until you both feel that its a good time to do so. Its mainly up to you. Just don't let peer pressure get to you. Hope this helps.
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My boyfriend and I just got over a huge fight we had today.
It started when my boyfriend texted me. He said he was looking at other girls breasts. I got really upset. He jokes a lot, and I am kinda sensitive, but I have learned to accept his playful attitude. However, when I told him I was upset and he knows saying that is hurtful, he said he didn't know what I was talking about. I told him it was extremely hurtful, and even though I know I should trust him, my insecurities get to me. He didn't answer for about an hour and we got in a huge fight. He was upset that I didn't trust him and he told me he couldn't believe the way I was acting. I was rather hurt too. I told him I didn't mean to overreact and I wanted to stay together. So we both worked it out and decided to only learn from it and become closer.
I'm happy we worked it out. But while we were texting I felt on edge and like we weren't going to work out. I have second thoughts because I caused such a hard time. I feel like he deserves better than insecure, crazy me. But at the same time I know he wouldn't ever hurt me. I want us to be back to normal before I made a mistake.
Help? (link)
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You guys did good by working it out. Always remember that conflicts only let you learn about one another. Don't worry about what you caused. What matters is that you two are still together. After all its about how you feel about him right? Dont worry about how you are. You're not going to be like that with him all the time and you know that. Dont think about it. And dont worry. Things will be fine. :)
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i like my best friend and i mean i really really like him hes my beat friend i just never told him that but hes told me so i want to tell him how i feel but before i do i have a issue im kinda on the big side im not huge but im big its never been an issuse but know i think it is today this girl asked him hey where those guys cute and he told the girl no hommo but they where fat and laughed so does that mean he has something against big people because now im second guessing myself and i dont want to get hurt (link)
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There comes a time where, when you really want to know something, you may have to risk being hurt. Ive done it plenty of times. So here's my advice. Tell him how you feel. And if things dont turn out good then he cannot accept you for who you are. However, dont worry about the worst. Be prepared for it but also be prepared to fight for what you believe in. I hope this helps and wish you good luck. If you have any problems just let me know and ill try to help you out.
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Yesterday as I was getting ready to leave the gym, I saw a note sitting on my car window. It read "Hey, saw you going into the gym as I was leaving. You are beautiful! Life is too short to miss an oppurtunity. If you are available or interested shoot me a text: (phone number). Have a great evening- (His name). " Obviously, I was/am flattered! There are 2 ways to take that though, it can either be really creepy or really nice. I am debating wether to text him or not. If I do, when should I? Wait a few days or now? Don't want to seem desperate. But also don't want him to think I'm not interested. (link)
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i agree with oliepath. you should wait abit. but keep in mind, friendship before love. Meaning gain the bond before you go into a relationship.
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19 f & hes 20 m
my boyfriend and i want to go to the movies. he told me to pick a movie and i want to see something that hes gonna wanna watch too. i was thinking just go with it but is that too girlie? does anyone have any suggestions? thanks. (link)
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To be honest, I'd go with it. Don't fret about whether its girlie or not. Its about being with each other right? Don't worry about a thing.
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We've all heard about Love and Respect in relationships and how women desire love and men need respect. Well, I've been thinking about this a lot. The man I love lives a 24 hour drive away from me, so we never see each other. We text, use instant messaging, e-mail, and we video chat over skype. I've been wondering how am I supposed to demonstrate and communicate my respect for him, and of course my love for him, when our relationship is carried out via texting and internet technology? I can say I love him and say I respect him, but how do I "show" him I respect him? (link)
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Granted, respect is best shown in person. However, if you have his mailing address you may want to try and send him something that may show your respect for him. For example, a letter or an item that may be valued by him. If that does not work, i would suggest discussing it with him to let him know that you love him enough to want to show him that respect. I'm sure you guys may work it out.
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Although happily married to a man, for 5 years, I find myself increasingly more attracted to women. How do I find out for sure without conducting an "experiment"?
thanks,
Karen (link)
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Well it could be that you are subconsciously looking at other options in your life or probably admiring other women. I think you may want to try mental scenarios. Think of how you would act with a woman you have seen and then try the same thing with your husband.
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