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hey im a girl
i just wnana kno
why guys do this

1:they like ignore you for a day and then the next they start talkin to you

2:they are so confusin sometiems uthink they like you beccacuse of thyre smile or something
and you neverrealy now
why do they give mixed signals??

Haha
thats all really
:P thanks
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for #1. There are a couple possibilities as to why guys act like that. One, it might be because he likes you and is a little nervous, so that's why he doesn't talk to you All the time. Two, and this is the painful truth... you might be dressed differently than you usually are. See, if a girl is wearing a t-shirt on the rgular basis, and than all of a sudden, puts a little makeup on, or wears a tighter shirt and jeans, yeah the gu is gonna notice you.

for #2. It's always easier to tell if a boy likes you, than it is for a boy to tell if a girl likes him. Believe it or not, it's pretty easy to tell if a guy likes you, usually. If a guy is smiling EVERY time he talks to you. Yeah he is thinking about you in a good way. If you see him tryna find something to talk about with you, he's interested. If he plays around with you, teases you, he wants you. But the most OBVIOUS thing that happens if a guy likes you...is the smile*. A guy CANNOT refuse to smile if he is looking at you and definitely talking to you. I'm telling you all of this happens 90% of the time. Boys are horrible when it comes to hiddin their thoughts about you.
Hope this helps.


ok i need a guy to tell me what guys really look for in a girl. (link)
ok, sry I'm a girl, but you don't want a guy to answer this question because guys don't even know what they want. Basically & honestly, what a guy notices first about you is your chest & butt then face. Sadly, yes they do look at those parts first. And next (this is key!) Guys ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO LOUD GIRLS! If it happens it is very rare. Bieng loud is intimidating, and annoying. But bieng too quiet is not good either but it's better than bieng loud. Guys love attention but not the stalker type. They do not like too much makeup. Tried it, crashed and burned. Guys don't like girls who don't take care of themselves, (hygiene). And Guys are not too fond of a girl who doesn't have a little tomboy in them, but if your a total tomboy, this might be tough for you because boys do not like a girl that is stronger than them! (it's a guy ego thing, can't be helped it's in their DNA) That's basically it. Hope this helps.


omggg i really like this guy alott!! and its werid cus his two friends like me, and i could easily have them...but for some reason i want him, maybe because he dusnt act really flirty..i duno. hes like super shy, so i cant tell if he likes me or not, and its killling me!! cus i dont want to 'bug' him if he dusnt like me the least way...ive tried snooping, but got nothing....anyone know how to tell if a shy guy likes you?

(and its not as easy as "hes shy around you so he likes you" cus hes shy around all girls)


thanks in advance :] (link)
Best thing to do when you want to know if he likes you, get to know him. Always smile when he does. Be patient. As you get to know him, if he starts to steal glance at you, if it's for more than than a second, he's definitly thinking of you. Don't ask him out until you get to know him. Figure out what he likes, his intrests, his hobbies. Be yourself. And it is a definite good thing if his friends like you. Because if his friends like you, they will always say GOOD things about you to him. Just make sure you are not to flirty, but kind of let him know you are there for him. Friends turning into bf & gf is better than Strangers turning into bf & gf. Hope this helps.


hey
15/f
I wanna start off by saying that I dont want to sound stuck up or into myself or anything.
Anyway, I havnt had my first kiss yet. Im not prude. Alot of guys like me and think im hot, something just usually goes wrong before I kiss them. I've done other stuff, just not kissing. Is this really lame?

Also
When I do have my first kiss, I want it to seem like I know what im doing. Can I do this through just being confident or should I practice or something....? Also are first kisses really that important? Or should I just get it over with so I have some experience for someone I do really really like


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It's perfectly fine if you havn't had your first kiss yet. Try not to force your first kiss on anyone, kind of just let it happen. When it happens it will happen. If you have doubts on how to kiss, here's an idea. It's kind of like eating icecream, (don't laugh, lol) When you put your whole mouth on the icecream, you stroke your tongue up and down. A kiss is usually slow and steady. Hope this helps.


Okay. I like this guy, he works at the movies. We're in a class at school together and we talk from time to time. This may sound selfish, but I want him to like me, like perhaps take our friendship to another level, above acquaintances. I guess I want to be more of a flirt, I'm usually good at this, but I guess I just need some help. I'm a freshman and he's a senior. Any advice?
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Step it up a bit. Every time your around him, make sure your hair isn't messy, don't put on too much make up (if you wear any). And mostly be yourself. Talk to him more. Guys love attention but not too much like stalker type. Ask him about himself, sports, interests. And always smile when he looks at you. But don't stare the man down. Don't act too needy. Kind of let him know that you like him, but try not to creep him out, you know? Compliment him often. Don't ask him out unless you feel you are good friends. Kind of invite him to an event but don't make it seem like it's a date. Hope this helps...




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