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Hey Its Brina, or Bree as some of my friends call me, I havent been on this site in ages, and, not really going to give advice on here anymore, but, feel free to leave questions in my inbox and i might get to it

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My boyfriends birthday is November 28th. We haven't even been dating for a month, but obviously i must do something for his birthday. I'm 15 and he will be turning 17, but he already has a car and like gas money and such. He is pretty big in sports, but not really one sport in particular. I want to do something cute, but not over the top due to the fact we haven't been dating for a while. Any ideas, sites, previous presents, or anything would be helpful. I just need somewhere to start! Please and thanks! (If it matters, we live in Michigan).

I like the advicer belows me suggestion, but heres a couple other things. Plan a picnic, or get him a giftcard to a sportings store, make him a CD of his favorite bands/singers if you know them. Just simple stuff that lets him know you care. Hope I helped!

-Brina

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Ok so there is this boy lets say bob, and i for some reason feel really attached to this kid but i dont know him that well ive only known him for maybe 4 months, and he's all i can think about, and i dont even feel like i like him as if its involentary and ive tried to like other people but he always comes right back up, hes my brother's friend and if i got together with bob my brother would be pissed. i know that doesnt matter but my brothers approvel matters to me a lot. anyway bob is an ok kid, i guess, he flirts with me sometimes, well i think? I get confused on how you can tell if someone is flirting with you haha. anyway any advice hear? what shold i do? do i really like him? am i tricking myself? what? HELP! thanks :]

It seems like you do like him, but with all of the other things going on {worrying about your brother} it makes it difficult for you to even think about it. Figure out if you truly have feelings for this guy. After that, try talking to your brother about it, get his point of view and make sure he'd be ok with it, because honestly, who wants their sister dating there friend, it happens yes, but, not all brothers will admit that they dont like that. After you do that, then talk to this guy about hanging out sometime. Hope I helped! Good Luck!

-Brina

P.S -1st Question!

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