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Hi, My real name is Christian. I'm 15 going on sixteen in march. I have problems like anyone else here which is why I try to help you guys. Because I know that like me all you guys need is some advice hence the site lol:]. You can contact me on my AIM or MSN just specify yourself don't say "OH I'm that guy you helped out.", Like if your name is John say "I'm John.", :D. I don't expect to make friends out of this but if you want to be friends I'll give you my Myspace. Anyways...Goodbye.
E-mail: Fallen313@live.com
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Occupation: Freshmen at a highschool
Age: 15
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Member Since: December 15, 2009
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Joe is the type of boy thats wants nothing more then sex. He did so much wrong things to me for instince hit me call me alot of names to make me feel like im nothing, he got me prego then told me to kill it because he refuse to have a baby by a hoe. He does so much to me but i still cant leave him alone. And his sex isnt even that good so what can it really be (link)
Wow.. seems like he isn't that swell of a guy.

Well.. was he your first guy? like having sex with?


Im 17 f. So theres this guy, lets call him joe. joe and i was having sex since november. we both are in a relationship with some one else. Even though i know that joe is a dog and is only using me for sex i cant leave him alone. I hate that i keep having sex with him, i really want to stop. I know im not insecure so what could be the reason why i allow this boy to treat me like im nothing? (link)
Maybe you just have a physical attraction to him? I mean you didn't really give any more info on how you feel about him specifically so I can't really give an honest answer. But if you feel like you can't get his body out of your own head then maybe you have a attraction to his body or maybe he is a good fuck(lol sorry for the profanity)... but yeah. I mean you can message me for more advice but please give good info.

- Castro


Okay... This guy asked me out yesterday... But he is a Coulerd and i am white. I really like him alot but he broke my heart a few months ago. He aked me out and then told me 3 days later he has a gf. There have been other Boys but none of them took his place and as soon as they said they loved me i backed out. I am 14 and he is 16 and i know my parents wont be okay with it if they found out(the skincolour). No one knows about it yet but soon they will start finding out. I dont know what to do now. Last time the whole school was gossiping about me and i sort of got a bad name. My best friend is black and worried i get hurt again. We always have to be on the lookout but he doesnt care who knows or finds out and i do but im to scared to tell him that... i like him but i am not so sure i love him. He said that he lovez me. Sumhow i trust him but i saw some of the letters him and one of my friends wrote to each other and he said he likes me... alot and i have a talanted body. i Dont understand or really know him and he thinks im really shy but he doesnt even look at me when he talks to me. i like him but i dont love him but i dont think i wanna lose him without even trying to make it all work. I dunno what to do... i am a 14 year old girl from South Africa. HELP!!! (link)
Well, you need to talk to your parent or they will never trust you in relationships. Also if he treated you like that...he ain't really worth it.
You need to think for yourself. There are tons of guys in this world. :D


ahhh that suks..so i guess am just going to stay here..idk am really confused.because i do wanna live with my dad overthere. (link)
woah..i am confused..what we're we talking about? Im so sorry but i was with my family overseas :(


hey! what does partially taken means? (link)
Sorry for late reply...family things.
And it means they are in the process of getting with someone but they are still thinking if its right.


ok i had sex with like only 4 guys would you be able to tell. i mean would i be super loose or no if so is there anything icould do to make myself tighter again (link)
I think after time your "body part" tightens by itself..like how when woman have babies it grows and gets back to normal size. I just asked my sister since i am not a woman. She said it comes back to normal.


I am 25 and have been in a relationship for two and half years. I recently told my girlfriend that I would be leaving for a week on a trip with my parents. She has a big test to give while I'm gone. This has led to her getting very upset with me and I believe she is now deciding on whether she wants to continue a relationship with me or not. I feel sad/awful/confused. I don't know what to do... (link)
Ok..Well you guys have been together for a while. And she is just stressin over the test and you leaving doesn't help but I honestly don't believe she would leave you over that. That would be a ridiculous reason to break up with you. So don't worry. Just call her and make her know you love her everyday, And maybe do something sweet like buy her some stuff from the trip. Just letting you know you love her is enough :]


(boyfriend is 20 soon to be 21)
We've been dating for about a month, we plan on a long future, we're in a 'serious' relationship, and have sex.

As everyone knows christmas is coming up, I need ideas for a gift.
I know I'm definately getting him a ring pop & a pack of gummy bears. (Inside joke between him & I.) I was wondering if it'd be okay just to do like a little box of candies/desserts. Like get a small cute little box, put a bunch of candy and homemade cookies and brownies, etc in the box and wrap it, and get him like a gift card to go with it? Does that sound like too little? Any ideas of what kind of candy, or desserts? (And on sort of a limited budget.)
Thanks! (link)
Well he is going to be 21. So maybe some liquor if YOU are old enough lol make the Christmas "FUN". But yeah the cute little box with homemade stuff sounds sweet and caring of you. So i am sure he will love that. Also Mike and ike's are delicious and maybe some skittles.


say you've dated someone for 1 year and 6 months...can love just fade? (link)
Love can come and go. But make a good decision because you might feel you still love them in the end.


18/f

I just turned eighteen. I have never had a boyfriend before my current one and am very inexperienced. He isn't very experienced either, but he is starting to want to do more than just kiss. I am ready too, I just don't know how to do anything. Can anyone give me advice as to how to go about this? thanks. I really appreciate it. (link)
Ummmm I didnt mean to sound rude before the guy above me is right. You just need to experience it together. Sorry if I offended you.


Okay so I'm a freshman girl. And okay I know I'm pretty attractive but one thing that really bothers me is that I'm like 5'6/5'7... and I'm a lot taller than all the other girls. Like, Ive always wanted to be a cute little petite girl. LIke I am already really skinny, I just want to be... not so tall. like I still wanna be skinny but haha, like I don't know. Luckily my boyfriend is like six foot but still. My height really bothers me. So my question is, guys? do you have a problem with tall girls? Is 5'6/'7 that tall for a girl? Just wondering. (link)
Well I'm 5'11 and my girlfriend is 5'2 and we are perfect in my eyes. But yeah it sounds like your almost a head shorter than your boyfriend and that is the way most guys like! Because you can look up in our eyes and we have that sense of dominance over you >:D But yeah and as for you feeling tall, At least your not 5'11 or something your a good height. I think a girl between 5'0 and '5'8 are the perfect girls for average guys (5'9 to 6'2) so yeah be comfortable with who you are!




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