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(I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..
I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him
Any advice would be lovely, and I rate =) (link)
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It seems like you and your boyfriend have a really strong relationship and he really likes you. He is making the wrong decision but if he never told you to smoke or drink or if he doesnt preasure you, you would make the wrong decision braking up with him since he seems like he cares. But if you do decide to dump him don't do it because you know its bad for you that he's da once smoking but break up wit him because he needs to learn that smoking is good for him or anyone around him.
Good luck on making the right decision :)
YouRZ tRuLLy ~ ADvIICe ChIIckA~
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I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know
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i don think u should tell ur parents that ur Bi until ur a little older they dont need to know now
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