about

About me*

Name: Luly
Age:13
Maritial Status: single
Best friends: Molly, Gabby, and Hannah
Occupation: Student at SmS
Music: Rock
Movies:Scary
Colors: Pink and Black
Candy: Peanut mms
Band: Green Day
Book: Harry Potter Series
Shows: The OC, Lost, Degrassi, 7th Heaven
Grade: 8th
Pet: Dog
Siblings: 2 sisters, 1 brother
Food: anything thats tastes good haha, gabby bread wink

i love helping people. seeing that i made a difference is great. i love giving advice. i dont know if im good at it but i still like to help people out. tell my opinion on situations.

advice

Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do?

go up to him in person and tell him that its not true. that he should be able to believe you. if not then maybe you werent as close as you thought you were with him. hope i helped
Luly*

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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...

IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?

Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!

hes not gay if thats what your thinking. hes still straight. if he kissed another guy then that would make him gay. he was probably trying to have fun. hope i helped
Luly*

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thats not very helpful. doctors turn me down and therapists say im crazy. i curse you sk8terbabe019. i'll try again however. but yet, i fear that i will be sent away.

Sarah

and you wonder why they turn you down and therapists think im crazy. haha

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i broke up with my ex about a month ago and i've gotten over him and i like this boy in my gym class but hes white and one of my friends say dont do it but shes white to. i dont really konw how to ask him Because im not that thin so how do i go about askin him out

You not being thin shouldnt be a problem with him. if he dates girls based on weight then maybe you should forget him. Being white shouldnt matter either. You should go for it. Just go up to him and be like hey do u wanna go to the movies this weekend. or if you mean by going out as in bf and gf then be like hey i like you and i was wondering if you would like to go out w/ me. dont worry if hes a great guy he will say yes
hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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I sent you a message the other day and have not got advice yet. My situation has gotten worse. Last night i streaked through the mall parking lot yelling im a man! im a man!
wut do i do?


Sarah

Im sorry i cant help you. You seriously need medical help. Maybe your sick and you need to go to a pyhsco ward. Hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do?

She was probably scared of u saying u loved her. Maybe she is scared to be in a relationship. Just tell her that u were only trying to be nice that u didnt mean for her to get all freaked out. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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i went to the movies with my girlfriend and she started makin out with a chic.
what do i do?
confused

Dear Confused,

thats just not right. If she could make out w/ a chick then maybe shes going lesbian. You should talk to her about it. Maybe she was only doing it for the fun of it. But she did kinda cheat on you. because making out with a girl is the same thing as making out with a guy. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019**

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I like my X, but he doesn't like me back? What do I do?? help?

Find a way to get him bak! Talk to him more. Become best friends with him because you would have a better chance if you knew him very very well. and could talk to him about anything. Cuz then you will be more comfortable around him. He liked you once, he can like you again. Plus since i know who this is...i know for a fact you have a chance w/ him haha! lol lov ya hope i helped !
Sk8terbabe019*

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OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.

If you know you wouldnt do anything to hurt your bf maybe he should just trust you. If he does he shouldnt worry about what will happen between you and the other guys. Plus what could happen? If you love your boyfriend so much then you know you wont make out w/ anybody or anything like that. Just tell him he should trust you more and not to worry about it.
*sk8terbabe019*

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I am in love with this guy i used to be dating. him and my best friend are really tight. sumtimes i think too tight. I got dumped for her, but they never went out again. when they first were together Marie cheated on Logan. but Marie (my friend) and Logan (my X) are still very tight. I love marie to death but all she does is talk about Logan. she got dumped 3 weeks ago by her boyfriend she was with for 9 months. i know she loves him and only loves logan as a friend. but sumtimez i cant help but be jealous. Im not positive if Logan still like marie. But when i think of how hurt i was when i got dumped i cant help but blame marie too!! i feel like a bad friend that and i really want Logan back... please help me!!

You should forget about Logan, hes obviously not worth it if he just dumped you for someone else. Its not your friends fault that logan likes her. She did nothing wrong. If you think they are too tight then maybe you should tell your friend how you feel. Tell her that it makes you feel bad when they are all over each other and are real close. She will understand because she knows you like this guy. hope i helped
*sk8terbabe019*

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hey okay so i have a question. okay so i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. i was a bit drunk, he was a little drunk, and we ended up hooking up- only made out. i said to him at the time, okay so is this going to be a random hook up or are you actually going to call me and he said no im going to call you i really am. so skip some a week later he calls me and says he do you want to hang out. of course i did but i couldnt. so yah. so we have been talking and stuff but im worried he is just looking for a hook up.. and that isnt wat im looking for. we are hanging out next weekend and just watching scary movies and stuff- should i just wait till then to figure it out...? he is just so hard to read i cant tell!

Dear hes way hard to read,
You should ask this guy if hes really looking for a good long relationship or whatever you want or is he just fooling around. You should tell him how you feel because your never going to find out just by sitting there wondering. Everytime you guys hook up do you guys end up making out or anything? does he suggest you guys make out? because if he is then he just might be hanging with you to get some. If you guys actually talk and hang out them maybe he really wants to be with you. hope i helped
*sk8terbabe019*

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hey, theres this guy at school right.. hes in 11th grade and im in 9th.. i see him like almost EVERY minute of the day, after classes...everything. and i think hes really cute. and he looks @ me sometimes, but i know hes not shy or anything, because hes obviously asked out alot of girls before, i mean hes not just gonna like come up to me and ask me out. cuz that will be kinda weird.. lol but i mean i wanna get to know him but i dont know how to TALK to him. help me !

So obviously you like this guy alot. Before you plan to go talk to him you should write down a bunch of stuff you guys could talk about. You could go up with a bunch of friends. Ask him a question and then just start a conversation. Make up something like "im from yearbook and i want u to take a survey." lol. He would probably say yes then after he takes ur "survey" then just start talking to him. Another thing you can do is act really stupid and get urself really hyper. See when i get hyper i talk to people i wouldnt normally talk to. It helps to get all hyped up. lol. Other than what i just told you...all you can really do is talk to him. Dont be scared, be THE MAN! lol. hope i helped

*sk8terbabe019

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