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The one person I have ever loved, who I lost my virginity to (huge mistake), bared my soul to, shared my future goals and dreams with, and who I planned my entire future with, doesn't want me anymore. He broke up with me today after 3 years of dating. I really thought we were going to get married and have a good future life together. This completely came out of the blue. Just yesterday we went out on a little dinner date and he bought me flowers. Today he told me that he's thought about things and just doesn't want me any more. I didn't see this coming. How can I cope? I feel like my entire world has been destroyed.
How can I get through this pain? He told me he doesn't need time to think about it or anything. He is very certain that this is the best decision. I can't stop thinking of what we had together and what we have gone through. I keep thinking about how STUPID I was for losing my virginity to him and trusting him with every ounce of myself. I am so lost. Please help me figure this all out! (link)
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Ok first of all he did you a favor. Get up and go look in the mirror and tell yourself I will not cry over this asshole(even if hes not one) he doesnt deserve a single tear of mine. Do you think he is crying or sititng around being depressed about you, i doubt it! Time is presious & you should not waste it being sad about some guy. Friends are very important & will be key to helping you through this. Do a girls nite out & get lots of phone numbers (not that you should call any back but it will make you feel better. As far as the virginity thing goes, it sounds like the 2 of u had a good relationship & so you shouldnt really regret loosing it to him. And the thing about having regret is you cant change so past so why spend any time wishing you could. My best advice that doesnt just apply to breakups is EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, this guy was clearly not your soul mate, as much as he made you happy there is someone out there that will make you happier! Lastly, when you meet that guy that just sweeps you off your feet, who calls you a princess, whose life revolvs around you & your needs, the guy who you literally could not live without...you will realize that everything does happen for a reason (if you dont already)! Also, after being in a 3yr relationship soudns like you could use some serious single lady time to find yourself & redefine new goals for you & only you!
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