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Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 16
AIM: pengie san
Member Since: March 18, 2005
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Last Update: March 19, 2005
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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!

Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
Well, there probably isn't that much you can do to change his mind, except to be there for him and make sure he knows that you care. If he is only 15, you still have a year to make sure he knows how much you'd miss him!


So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
I think you should remain friends with him awhile longer. Maybe the longer you're friends, the more you will grow to like him, and the problems you have with his race will fade away. Let it be known that a romantic relationship will NOT work if you aren't physically attracted to the person. Also, the more you get to know him, you may find he is not as perfect as you really think. Good luck!




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