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my friend (we'll call her B) really likes this boy (we'll call him C) but he doesn't like her. like at all. B hasn't exactly been the best friend in the world right now (quite frankly she's been a total bitch) and she's backstabbed me before. the other day she used one of her s/n's to try to get C's out of one of his friends. the bad part of this: she said she was ME. without my permission. i, naturally, got totally pissed off && wanted to punch her in the face. now, i kinda sorta like C. so, should i date him if he were to ask me? not as payback at B but b/c i actually like the kid. he's funny, who wouldn't? so, the question is, should i date him and watch B crash && burn (and quite frankly not care at all) or let her go on trying to get him when he doesn't like her && let her find that out for herself. please help! (link)
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If i where you I would defintaly date him and you can see your friend crash and burn and get the guy you want. you get two things at once!
~Shellaria*~
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hey. i have a bit of an interesting situation going on. i hadn't heard from my boyfriend in a couple of days, so i was a little worried. but, he texted me saying that he was very sorry, it was just that his grandmother was in the hospital and he was having a hard time and kind of went into a coop, which is something he tends to do when he worries, he hides in his shell. but, just yesturday, i was in the hospital, and i had spent the night before there with the IV, and I was feeling so bad because I hadn't heard from him and I didn't want to call him crying about me being there either. but, i don't want to sound greedy by telling him that he has to communicate with me, because he didn't know that I was in the hospital too, and I felt really bad in that hospital, not having heard from him, or him having been there, you know what I mean? but, i feel really bad for the grandmother, because she's so sweet, and I don't want to sound greedy, like I'm the only one who should have his attention. I just feel like I was put to the side, which I know he didn't mean to do, I really don't want a lecture on that right now. but, i know how he gets with this. he doesn't deal with these types of things well. i'm even thinking it's better if he were to find out through someone else about the hospital, instead of me, you know? can anyone give me some advice here? (link)
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I dont think he should hear from someone else.Its better if he hears it from you cuz if he hears it from someone else then he'll get mad at you for not telling him but you dont also want to call him right away. wait tell he calls you so you know he has been feeling better about his grandmother. Then after small talk say "I have to tell you something, but i dont want to put pressure on you or anything" and he'll say something and then you tell him. then tell him to not worry about you. Dont put so much pressure on him. Hope i helped
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~*Shellaria*~
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