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I love music, some of my favorite bands are Taking Back Sunday, Brand new, Juliette and the licks, From Autumn to Ashes, Fallout Boy, Dashboard Confessional, The Used, Coheed and Cambria, 18 Visions, Death Cab for Cutie, Thursday, And such... I love giving advice, I'm always trying to help my friends over-come obstacles, and I'll be pretty openly opinionated on just about everything you will ask me. I always look at both sides of every situation.. so you can almost garuntee you'll get a great answer to every question you ask.
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okay ive been going out with this guy for about 2 or 3 weeks and he finally kissed me. i really like him but i dont like the way he kisses....he leaves bite marks on my mouth because i dunno its weird but how do i tell him without hurting him? (link)
My GOD my boyfriend does the same thing and i HATE it!! But the thing is, he knows I hate it and does it to bug me. The other day he bit me so hard my lip started bleeding. God it's annoying! Well, does he do it on purpose or does he just have a biting fetish?? Because, if he just randomly does it without question when you're kissing, ask him about it, but not too demanding.. Just flirtly ask him, why do you like to bite so much when you kiss? And smile about it, like you like it, but then after he answers be like, well it hurts my mouth when you do it.. so from now on, can we just kiss regularly?? It shouldn't hurt his feelings too much, and if he really likes you, he would do it because it would make you more comfortable, or happy.


Ok, shee, i have thish littow pwobwem, i think i have lishe, but i'm not sure, caushe my leshbian lova told me show... (link)
Get a box of RID, comb it though ur hair, and hopefully you'll be lishe free by morning ;-)


Dear Ashley,
the reason I keep asking stupid questions on this advice site is because I have a real question I need your help with and it is hard to say..Enough beating around the bush! I am homosexual... but I am afraid to let everyone know. I just wanted to know in your opinion how I should break it to all of my friends and when is the perfect time to tell them. I really dont want them to freak out.

-Kirby Naasz

Cheers Queers! (link)
Well Kirby, I should have known this from the start from all of your homophobic remarks you make, and the way you eye mitchell when he walks down the hall or brushes against you. It's okay to be gay. We are all a little gay at heart ;-) But just make sure you're sure of your sexuality, and dump ur gf, then spread the word. Everyone will accept you for who you are.. well.. maybe not because all of ur friends are kinda jerks when it comes to the whole homosexual bit. Lets just say.. you're fucked dude. Up the butt.. no pun intended ;-)
HOPE I HELPED!


Ok...I've been going out with this girl for about a year, I really like her alot, but lately she's been giving me a bunch of weird excuses whenever I ask her to go anywhere...i'll ask her if she wants to go out to eat, and she'll say she can't because she has to wash the dogs or something...or that she's visiting her friend who has cancer. I dunno, when I'm with her it feels different, but she blows me off to wash her dogs? Or to visit her friend with cancer? What the shit is that? I mean if it was Lung Cancer or something I would understand..but it's Testicular Cancer, I mean...shit, MY testicles are fine, why doesn't she pay attention to me? Anyways, I dunno if I should break it off with her or keep putting up with her having to babysit her little sisters, which is THE PERFECT time for me to come over cause I could totally bone her, but she won't let me...I'm totally lost on like this whole like...situation, I dunno I'd figure I couldn't talk to my friends about it cuz they know her and stuff, what do you think?

- Oh yeah, and this actually a serious question. (link)
Hmmm.. Talk to her about it. That's all I can say because I dunno if this is Kirby, or if this is a really serious question.. cuz it sounds kinda fishy to me.


haha, man its funny how you answer those CrAzY questions that people ask!! how do you think of what to write back to them??? (link)
They're just my jack-ass friends from school who like to play around with me, so I just give them stupid answers back :)


Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:

I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
Let me start off by saying, no girl deserves to be treated like that. You were right for sending him a letter saying what you did, it was definatly the right thing to do. As for trying to make you two work out, don't do it. I am sure you're beautiful, but you just get stuck on guys you know you could never have, just because of the way they act, like this guy. I've been dating the same guy for 6 months now, and he treats me like his everything, and that's how every girl deserves to be treated. When you told him not to talk to you ever again, that was right of you to do, he doesn't deserve to talk to you! How long has it been since you gave him the letter? Because every heart needs time to heal, and yours will heal in no time. Don't try to directly jump into a diffrent relationship, or get stuck on another guy, just put yourself out there and let guys know you're single. If you find a guy that sparks your intrest, get to know him, and try him out for a change. You'll be over that jerk in no time.




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