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okay, so theres this guy, lets call him.. well, lets just call him boy. so last year, by friend really liked boy, and i thought he was adorable as well, cuz well, he`s the cutest thing ever, but i didnt know him. he was in high school, and me and my friend that liked him were in middle school. so my friend moved about half an hour away, so she goes to a different high school and doesnt talk to him. at the beginning of this year, we started talking and we hung out a bit. then he snuck me out, just the two of us, and he kissed me. but at this time, he liked another girl. like, really really liked this other girl, but that other girl went to a different school, so they didnt talk much besides online. the next day, after the kiss, i asked him what it was all about. he said it was just spur of the moment and stuff, but i really liked him. after that we kinda stopped talking. now hes trying to get over the other girl, and were talking again and stuff. today, when we were walking, he grabbed my hand and now im so confused and i dont know what to do. (link)
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I think that 'Boy' does like you and if he isn't going out with the other girl then ask him if he would like to go out with you. If he says he doesn't just say you wanna be friends and that you accept the fact that he doesn't like you
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Ill tell you my story kinda.
Theres this boy ,i'll call him Dave.
Well me and Dave used to be really good friends for about 3 years, maybe a little less.
That led to us doing "stuff" [if you know what i mean]
After that , we were still friends and all until everyone found out and he hated me so much
for a long period of time.
I still liked him , through all of it.
Just recently, maybe 4 days ago he talked to me,
told me he doesnt hate me and said he liked me as a friend and he was being nice about it.
It made me more happy than ever,we talked for a long time too.
He told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend and he did.
He said he likes another girl [michelle], i know her a little bit.
I thought nothing of it becuase they never talk.
Until , i did something really really stupid.
My friend made a fake screename to IM him,a long time ago before we became friends again.
She picked someone random and she picked a girl name Carleen, who just happens to be best friends with michelle.
When "Carleen" was talking to Dave on the fake screename, he seemed to like her and stuff and he talked to "Carleen" for like hours and hours for 3 nights.
After those 3 nights, we stopped.
Apparently, Dave must have told his best friend [jimmy]about Carleen so jimmy decided to talk to carleen.
Now , im pretty sure Jimmy and Carleen like eachother and now Dave and Michelle dont really talk but Jimmy and Carleen are going to try and get them to be better friends and Carleen thinks Michelle is gonna like Dave,who im in love with!
What makes me the most mad, is that we just became friends again and becuase of this, he isnt gonna talk to me as much as he would without Carleen and Michelle, and I think its all me and my friends fault .
Oh and my best friend who made the fake screename, likes Jimmy.
So, what should we honestly do?
I know this was realli realli long,plz help!!!!
15/f
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It's not your fault. I think you and your friend should tell Dave and Jimmy how you really feel but son't come across as desperate for them to feel the same way. I f they don't tell them that you respect that and tell them you still want to be friends
best of luck!
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