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my boyfriend of 2 months is leaving after college starts August 25th for me. I want to give him a gift but I dont know what to give him. It can be either I give it to him before he leaves or put it in his stuff when he leaves that way when he gets to his outta state college he will see/ find it. which sounds like a sweet and good idea.
i already wrote him a note that I will put in his stuff. I have only been with him for 2 months, so scrapbook isn't a good idea because we don't have many pictures taken together. he has pictures on his camera, of me and us.
i've already wrote him poems for our one month. I was thinking about cd, of love songs which I have been working on but I'd like to do more because he will be gone for about a whole year, but we will see each other twice a month and on breaks (christmas/spring)
btw he's 20 im 18.
thank you for all your help everyone! (link)
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It is such a good idea to put his gift in his things! You probably have some inside joke things that only you two could possibly understand, it would be fun to get something that ties in with that. You could also tape a video message that he can watch when he misses you. Make his gift like a basket of things, not just one. It doesn't have to be expensive, just put a lot of thought into it. On the breaks where you see him, put in another basket of gifts. Be creative and make sure the gift is something that will remind him of you when he is gone. Good Luck, Have Fun and hope to hear from you later.
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So, I met this guy J last month. He liked me, but I didn't like him like that.
Keep in mind, that although he's only 18, he's been forced to grow up alot. Well, he started dating this girl a few weeks ago. She's 25, and has a 2 year old child, and they're engaged. I'm 17, by the way, if that helps.
Well, he's been calling me every single day for three days in a row. He's going through alot right now, and his family has just pretty much disowned him for reasons that he doesn't even know. He needs his fiancee to keep a roof over his head, or else he's out on the street.
I feel like I can tell him anything, and me and him can talk for hours on end.
To top things off, my parents have already judged him, and they don't like him because of the situation that's going on right now.
I can see the downside to what's going to happen, and I can't do anything to stop it. Someone's going to get hurt.
There's another guy in my life. But, I'm not having much luck with him at all. I'm so afraid to call him, because last time I called him he got so high, and didn't even remember me.
Please, don't tell me to push J away. What do I do? I'm so confused. (link)
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Right now you need to help J. You know how to talk to J and that is why he calls you. Talk to him about the situation and give him some advice. He has to like his fiance for who she is, not that she gives him a place to live. He shouldn't marry her just for the house, he has to find out if he really loves her. Incourage J to talk with his family seriously. His family could realize that he needs them and they could find a way to work through this. For the other guy in your life, talk to him like you talk to J. He may realize how much you mean to him and stop whatever is making you upset with him. With your parents, explain to them that J needs you and that they need to except the fact that you can help him get through the situation he is in. Whatever you do, don't leave either of the men in your life, they both need you. Good Luck and I look forward to hearing about the turnout.
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i have known this kid for most of my life. he has a brother my age and another brother who plays sports with my younger brother. my whole life he has kinda just been there and i guess i would consiter him an acquaintance. but now that i'm older, i started to realise that i really like this boy a lot and i have for a long time. my problem is thats he is 18 and i am 15. so i dont really know how to appproach him. usually i have no problem approaching boys but generally i go for the rocker guy. this boy is a full on athlete. so i dont know how to really make small talk with him. i also tend to get really shy around him for some reason. i really want to at least go on one date with him but i'm not sure how to ask out a guy who is older than me that i dont know all that well... help me! (link)
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This is one thing that every girl goes through. I have felt this and I know what worked for me. If you don't think you have anything in common with this guy, start hanging out with him as if he were a close friend. You may find somethings in common. If you find that you really do like him, start to flirt a little and see if there is a change in the way he acts. If he flirts a little back, he likes you too. Become more flirty until you feel super comfortable around him. You will know what to do next, you can ask him out or he will ask you out. Good Luck and tell me how everything works out!
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