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okay, so i reallly like this kid mike, and the other night we were hanging out with a group of people but me & him flirted like a lottt, and went away from everyone else a few times. i thought it went well..then my friend talked to him and he like said i acted really shyy and that i was quiet//not really into himm but that he liked me..now i'm mad at myself and i dont know what to do. i've hooked up w. guys before i just get really nervous around him. i feel like i've just ruined everything :( should i do anything or just try to act better the next time we hang out? (link)
yea you should maybe you should talk more to him and dont be afraid to let yourself go if u really him like you say you do and he really likes you like your friend said he does dont be afraid to get out there and have some fun im not saying get crazy and go all out im just saying be care free and dont care about other people think thats probably you was a little shy go for it and tell him how you feel


okay,first of all i'm a 14 year old female. sorry if this is long, but let me try to explain my situation:

to start out, i didn't really like this guy (lets just call him Sam, that really isn't his name, but thats what i'll refer to him as for this). but then one day during music class, we both volunteered to demonstrate something for the entire class. after we finished two girls (who happened to be both of his ex-girlfriends) came up to me and asked me if i liked sam. i told them no (which was the truth then..we were really just friends). Then they told me that they think we would make a really cute couple. So that got me thinking. Then that same day one of my best friends asked me if i liked sam because i was talking to him. I told her the same thing i told the first two girls, no. Once i started talking to him more i started to think that he liked me, so i started liking him too. like this one time on the bus (we ride the same bus to and from school) i came on the bus and just kidding told him that he was sitting in my seat. he realized that i was kidding but said sorry and said that i could sit next to him in the seat. i thought he was joking and laughed and said that's ok. but then he felt bad and got up so i could sit there, but then this other kid quickly took sam's old seat. so sam ended up sitting in the seat next to mine. did he really want me to sit next to him? and does that mean that he likes me? then one night when i was out to the movies with my friend he came to my house with 3 other guys friends to see if i could hang out, but my dad told him that i was out. sorry this is so long, but i'm almost finished. then last night my school had a school dance. it was the last slow song of the night and he asked this other girl to dance, but the girl didn't really want to dance with him so she told me to dance with him. i danced with him for a little bit. but for some reason he thought it would be funny to dance with like 5 girls in one song. so he danced with me for like 20 secs, then another girl, then another girl, then back to me for like another 20 secs. Then before the song even ended his friend ran over to him and told him he had to dance with this other girl from 7th grade. so he just stopped dancing with me to dance with this other girl. i thought he was being rude at the time, but maybe he just felt bad for the other girl.

so my final question: does he like me?

thanks!

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well its not thay he doesnt like you as girlfriend material i think he likes you enough to be friends with you maybe you think you like him because your friends were talking alot about him made you think you liked him but you really didnt




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