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I just wanted to relay part of a conversation I had with a close male friend of mine on MSN the other day. I knew him before he moved away and I know he has feelings for me. Well I was telling him about a wedding I went to last weekend. I told him that I caught the bridal bouquet. He wanted to know what that meant so I told him it means I'm supposed to be the next to get married. Then he said "so what happens now"? I said" good question". Then he said "hopefully no one from (the city I live in)." My question is because he lives out of town and he said he hopes I don't end up marrying someone from where I live; do you think it means he is interested in being with me? (link)
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it could mean he is interested in you or it could mean he doesnt think very highly of the guys in your town.
Next time you see him on you should bring up the subject again and if he says something like that ask him what he means.
Good luck
Sassie
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I'm in tears right now. Okay, well I'm going out with joe, matt and bob are friends. Carlo is someone else who told be this:
Violin Rehearsal (5/8/06) "Joe says 2 [Bob] "Guess what, i got a gf." Joey says "Thats cool, is she a lunatic too? Joe says "Uh..Carlo do u think [me]'s a lunatic?" I say "Um..Sorta," Joe says "I no..(chuckles) shes also a f**n s**t that doesnt kiss anyone..(chuckles) Matt first says "Oo Joe, why do you say that about your gf?" I say " Yea Joe, what if i tell her?" Joe says"I was just being sarcastic, plus she wouldnt believe you.."
& I don't think he would say something like that, I know he likes me. No doubt, hes been at me since the first day of school. And its tearing me up. Even if he WAS sarcastic, that was pretty mean.
He's broken up with me 3 times before and he KNOWS that if he broke up with me again, that we're not getting back together.
What should I do?
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Do you really want to be with someone who could say things like that behind your back? I mean yeah my hubby and I say mean things to each other but we dont talk bad about the other one behind each others backs. If i say something about him to anyone I tell him what I say and he does the same.
If you really want to know what he thinks just ask him. Get it out of the way. Otherwise if you dont ask it will bug you for a long time. And if he admits it to your face then you can decide if you really want to stay with him and try to work it out or if you just want to give up and move on to hopefully someone who will treat you with more respect.
In my opinion he doesnt sound like he is treating you very good. And I wouldnt want to be with someone who didnt respect me. I really hope you find it in yourself to make the best decision for you. There are plenty of great guys out there and sometimes it takes a while to find the right one. Dont just settle for anyone.
Good luck,
Sassie
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Hello, I just turned 24 years old 2 weeks ago. You think I would be happy but I am not. I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I have never recieved and gifts from a man or even been out on a date. I have never even kissed a man. i remember when i was 16 my friends would laugh and me because i had not done ane anything yet. I thought i was a loser back then but now that I am 24 I don't think i am in the loser catergory any more. could it be that no one pays attention to me because I am over weight? (size 16) If that is true then why do I see girls who are way bigger than me with a boyfriends. Is there something wrong with me? Or am I just a loser? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you and you are most certainly not a loser. Size really does not matter. It is all about personality. You need to find your good qualities and that will give confidence. And when you find confidence in yourself other people will notice you.
I had a major weight problem in high school. I lost some weight but i never really noticed. I still thought i was fat. So I gave up. I realized I am a good person. I have a lot to offer. I try to help ppl when I can. I may not look like the models in the magazines but I realized I didn't need to.
Trust me it will get better. Have some faith in yourself. It will take you far.
Best wishes and good luck
Sassie
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I'm 16/f and my bf is 17/m. Sometimes he acts soooo immature and after a while it gets annoying.
The other day I was at his house and he was acting like a little kid making random noises, talking about burping, jumping around like his house was a trampoline, and making stupid comments about everything.
So I said, "Stop acting like a five year old and grow up. I swear you act like my little brother"
I guess that kind of upset him because he didn't really talk to me after that. And today, he had an away message up that said "'acting like a 5-year-old' with Mike hit the cell"
I don't know if I should apologize or what because I know I might have hurt his feelings but I feel like he needs to know that he can't act like that all the time. What should I do?
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Let me tell you when I first go with my now hubby, I was 15 and he was 17. And he was totally addicted to video games. Ok he still is. But when he plays he turns into a total kid. We have been together for 10 years and I still cannot get used to it. Guys just tend to do that. I have a saying though "I only grow up when I need to". Some days its okay to just let go and be yourself. And let go of the whole "what will people think of me if I.....". Because every now and again its nice to act like a little kid. Not to mention fun and relaxing.
And yes I agree with the appology thing.
All I can really say is try to be understanding.
Good luck with him.
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usually i always like somebody that never likes me back or they do but i dont find out until i stop liking them so ive pretty much had a bad love life and i thought it was crazy that any girl could get butterflies just thinking about somebody until it happened.... i really like him and i dream about him a lot and they're sexual dreams and i dont know what to do about it cus i heard some stuff about him like he gives head to hoes and he gets into too much shit w/ older dudes so i was like im not into that stuff but i keep on having dreams and i be real happy when i see him and i think he got a little tenderoni on the side and he dont wanna let me kno about it but we not really talkin but i wanna but i dont know if he feels the same way too cus he might have mixed feelings for me and i dont kno if i should tell him and look stupid or keep it to myself and just not let him kno and let it follow me for the rest of my life cus i neva got butterflies before... (link)
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Sounds like you are only interested in him because he is a "rebel" so to speak. You want to be with him because you think his life is fascinating. It might only be a crush. But he doesn't sound like he is really your type.
Sit down and think about all the qualities you are looking for in "Mr. Right" and write them down.
Then write down this guys good qualities and the bad ones too.
You might also want to know what the true deal is with this guy. It might not be what you truly want for yourself
Good luck
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i'm a 10th grader who's never had a gf before (pretty pathetic, but whatever). im really bad with asking girls out and whatnot. anyhoo, im really really good friends with this girl, shes a year younger than me, and we both tell each other everything. ive liked her for a little while, maybe a few weeks, but she tells me that she likes a senior in our school. now idk if she actually does like him, or if she's just saying that to cover up that she likes me, but we always hang out, we've never gotten mad at each other, we know everything about neach other, and we never get tired of hanging out (we've actually pissed her friends off once or twice cuz we hang out so much). anyway, what do i do? thanks (link)
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Ok get someone to be a go between and ask her if she would like to go out with you. That way if she just wants to be friends you will know for sure.
Or you could write it down and give it to her. And see what she thinks.
Good luck
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Well i am a f/13 and i like this boy and i think he likes me too. We nonstop flirt and we always talk. Even one time we both left the classroom just so we can talk. Well i think that it is the cutest thing every time we talk and there are people around us he always wispers in my ear and tells me. He gets so close that my chest and his chest touch and he doesnt move he just stays there with our chests touching. I think it is so cute how he wants to get so close and wispers in my ear. So just to flirt with him and make him enjoy being around me I wisper back into his ear and push my chest up against his and get as close as i can and we just stare into each others eyes. it is so romantic. Doesnt that sound sweet? Then i dont understand why he wont ask my to be his girlfriend? Please dont tell me to ask him out because i never will? Please go it to details, thanks in advance. remeber i rate 5s for good advice,
j. (link)
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Maybe he feels the same way you do but he is too afraid to ask you out. Maybe you can get someone to be a go between and ask him if he wants you to be his girlfriend.
Good luck
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