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Q: How do ask someone out? o and im very sure he likes me

Well you just call him up and ask him out. Or you can have a friend ask him for you.

Q: alrighty...my boyfriend is like too clingy and he alwasy wants me to have his jacket when i look cold or like buys me things but i hate that! what should i do?

Well just tell him that. Tell him you need space. That you don't need him all up in your grill. Tell him you still love him and all but just not to be clingy

Q: Alright so i am going out with this guy and i ask him what he wants for X-mas and he says nothing i want to get him somehting but i dont know what.And i dont have alot of money?What should i buy him?

_Kate

Well I don't really know anything about guys. Maybe you should get him like a hat from Lids.
My friend Alec says get him porn but he's joking. Maybe like a shirt from his favorite store.

Q: i don't think my girl friend trusts me... what should i do.

Well maybe you should just make sure she does. If she said she does then believe her. Just make her trust you. Like don't lie about anything. Don't tell her friends ur gunna makeout with them.

Q: hey lauren! ok i really like this guy and were goin out and everything and we seem to be doin REALLY REALLY good lately, but he tlks to my best friend on the phone CONSTANTLY. and talks about her every once in a while and she and her bf just broke up like a week ago and she cried to him on the fone instead of me. and i felt kinda shitty after that idk why. and i dont wanna talk to either one of them about it cuz i dont wana lose either of them. what do i do?? and on top of this i have started cutting myself and not eating that much. and my life is startin to get real stressfull.

Okay for one. Don't start cutting or not eatting. it doesn't help anything. I thought that it would make things better for me and it didn't. I got trused to the hostpitle once cause I cut to deep. The Guy isn't worth it. Your friend mite just be better friends with him then you. It's not a big deal. Dump the guy.

Q: omg LO! k so i like this guy... but he has a girlfriend... she found out that i liked him! and this guy is my friend and he keeps asking me about it and she does too so i leied but idk what do do help!

Well maybe you should just tell them both the truth. I mean it can't hrut anyone. She needs toget over that gurls will like thire Boy Friends.
xo Lo ox

Q: i have a boyfriend and hes the sweetest but i have no idea what to get him for chirstmas and he likes kateboarding help me lo!

Your bffae you know me!

Buy some stuff. Go to PAC SUN or HOT TOPIC. Maybe I will go with you so you don't have to be scared!

Q: ok dis real bad i been going with this grl for awhile but i think i still really like my old gf b4 a lot more what should i do?

Well if your old gf likes you maybe you should go back with her.
If she doesn't like you then stay with your gf right now.
xo Lauren ox

Q: OKay i have a boy friend and we see each other every day basicly but we really never talk.But my frieds Freind likes me i have neevr meet him only talked on line and on the phone with him.But i like him.He asked me out what do u think i should do?

Well maybe since you talk to this guy more then your boyfriend maybe you should go out with him. I don't know that's just my oppntion.
xo Lauren ox

Q: Ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for a month.And i am very nervous around him..I dont know what to talk about when there is an ackward Silence what should i do?Also we havnt kissed yet becasue hes to shy but we both want to..how should i approch to kiss him?

Ask your self. Do I really like him. I know you probly wanna kiss him. When you hugging just Kiss him. He should Kiss Back.
Lauren

Q: Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would talk to your dad about it. I would evan talk to his mom too. Maybe you should talk to the guy first and have him talk to his mom too. You guys should all get together and talk about it. Mostly just talk to your dad.
Hope I helped
Lauren

Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong?

Hey I would dump your boyfriend. I mean if he never or still doesn't trust you then that isn't very good. You never know. I owuld go out with the girl you used to like. If you feel good with her then you guys mite been ment to be. You never know.
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Q: okayy theres this guy. cody. well ive liked cody since this summer. well he's more or less kind of dragged me along since august. sayin he likes me and then not doing anything about it. so 2 weeks ago he asked me out .. i was so happy! it wasn't even funny. and then 5 days later he dumped me sayin he liked someone else. me and him talked last night and we straightened it all out. he said he doesnt like the other girl anymore, she has a boyfriend. and he says he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
i know thats probably not the best way for him to do things .. making me a second choice. if she's not available he'd have stayed with me. but anyways .. i want MORE than anything just to be back with him .. but he said he didnt like anyone .. but when we dated, not even 3 weeks ago 'he loved me'. i wanna talk to him about it .. but what if he gets mad, or just gets annoyed. i dont want to bother him .. i just want to be with him .. should i just let it go?? helpp ..

I wouldn't go with him. I've been in this before. My friend Mike said he loved me and then he dumps me for another gurl(on my 16th birthday party witch was on my birthday)and he said he liked another gurl. He found the gurl never liked him and asked me back out. I said yes and he ended up cheating on me with the other gurl.
If I was you I would just try and find another guy and save you the heart break.

Q: So a girl i really like(im a boy 14 year she is 14 too) has her birthday in 2 weeks and i don't know what to give her...PLEASE VERY PLEASE HELP!ALL 5

she likes rock music the most guitar and stuff...also she likes pets like dogs and cats.

Maybe you can burn her a CD of all her fav songs. Buy her some nice punk earrings.
Hope I helped

Q: K I really need girl help. I changed schools a few weeks ago because I was doing really bad at my old on. THere was this girl there that I really liked. I went to the homecoming dance with her and we talked on AIM a lot. After I left I told her how much I loved her and she was all "aw that's the sweetest thing ever" and stuff like that. We've been TXTing a lot and she even called me on my birhtday last week. I was even suppost to see Harry Potter with her and some of her friends but then I got sick. I'm falling even more in love with her every day even though I don't get to see her because we go to different schools now. I really wanna ask her to go out with me but I have two problems.

1. I have no idea how to do it.
2. Is it weird to go out with a girl from a prep school when you're going to a public school.

I really need help! x.x

Just tell her how you feel. Or just ask her out. It not weird going out with a prep school kid. I got to West(public school) and I dated a guy from accention(prep school)and it worked out fine. We went out for a year and still going out. Well Hope I helped

Q: ok i s0o0o0o0o0o need help
ok so nathan brown has been buggiing me for like the longest time and its been SOOOOOOOO annoying right and then 2day was like worst and he was bugging me in the hall and sean got him 2 stop and i said thanks and then Hillary asked him if he liked me and he said YES!!!! (and he tried 2 hug me) ok so how do i get him 2 leave me alone?
-me

Okay just yell at him and be like nathan I don't like you! Go away please. I have a boyfriend(if u don't lie)

Q: omg... ok.. i relly need help.. ok... i am going out with someone but i like my other friend alot more... and i still have feeling for this guy im going out with... wat should i do?

Okay well maybe you should stay with the guy your with right now. Maybe you should keep him. I liked my friend and let my bf go and I made a BIG mistake. Now my ex bf hates me becuase of it. he's toltaly changed so just stay with him.

Q: ok so there r some guys (bob, fred, and ted) ok she all 3 of them but me all the time right and like fred it just mean and he will be all BOO! and scare me and then try 2 slam my locker when i and putting my books away. then ted is all annoting and trys 2 shut my locker on me like every day and scares me in the hall and bugs me about point less things. then there is bob and she buggs me about ponit less things and scares me all the time and pushes me but hes nice 2 me at times. so do any of them like me? and wut do i do about it?
- me me me

Well yeah. They mite like you. That's a form of flirting kinda.

Q: OK soo theres this guy and hes my bf and i really like him a lot!!! but then like somethimes its like he kinda annoying and i dont wanna b around him but then other times i get really jealous bc he sometimes flurts with other ppl!!! and then other times it like theres this other guy that likes me and hes soo hot and nice!! but other times im like wow i love this kid!! my bf! wat should i do?!??

Okay. Maybe you should stay with your boy friend for a while. If these things keep coming in your mind then just break up with him.

Q: ok so im going out with this guy adn we kinda just met also we talked for a while on the phone then saw each other and was kinda nervous around each other but then he called me later and said we rushed into things and wants to get to know me better. well that was like a week ago and he hasnt called. But I really really like him. what should i do?!?!?!

Call him. Talk to him for hours. Then say got to go. Call me later in like 10. See if he does. If he doesn't then IDK.

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Okay well my name is Lauren. I give great advice to all my friends. Sometimes even parents will e-mail me and ask me. So... if u have any thing just ask me.