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Okay, so theres this guy that i really really like, we talk on the phone every night & he likes me too. The problem is that i just broke up with my ex bf almost 2 weeks ago now & im working on a friendship with him..and i dont want this to ruin it. plus my ex knows that i was talking to this guy on the phone while we were dating, but it was just to help me through a difficult time & i told him that now & he heard that i did like him before. So im worried that we wont be able to be friends now if i end up dating this guy & i really want to do both. i dont want to hurt my ex anymore than i already have but i really really like this guy, hes nothing like any other guy ive dated. we are planning on hanging out on spring break but not saying anything so my ex dosnt find out, atleast not yet. Also theres another little problem, one of my best friends liked the guy i like a few months ago i told her and she said she dosnt care but i dont know if shes lying or not cuz i asked another friend about it& they told me that she is kinda upset about it & i completely understand how she could be a little mad but she has been ignoring me lately & i just dont know what to tell her, she kind of hides her emotions from people, then she started telling me not to like him because he lied to her, but no one knows for sure if he did or not. but that dosnt change the fact that i really like him. So what do i do about my ex & my friend? When do i tell them that we are hanging out now? My other best friend knows everything about this, but she wasnt sure what to tell me about this. So please help!

you shouldnt have to hide this from your ex. but if you also just dont want him finding out.. just dont talk about this new person. if things do get serious between you two then go for it. if you and your ex boyfriend are really over and done with he should still be your friend. as for your friend you need to sit her down and tell her straight out that you want the truth about him .. ask her questions. if shes bothered by it give it a little while.. if she says shes fine with it and she doesnt like him anymore then go for him. if shes upset about it later, thats her fault not yours.

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Alright...Im a 15/f
I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months now. and known eachother since 7th grade.
I love him....
i just dont know if i like him.
When i talk to him....Sometimes i get pissed off and he hasnt really even done anything im just sick of talking to him. and then theres times where he deserves me to be mad at him and i just cant be.

I have no idea what to do!!!
Break up or not?

If you say you love him as a friend thats different then loving him like a relationship. You need to think of things before you make up your mind. try answering these questions:

-Would it bother you seeing him with some other girl?
-If you broke up would you regret it?
-Do you infact still love him?

if you answered yes to any of these then id say stick with him.

if he really is pissing you off to the point where you cant handle it try talking to him before you break up with him. hes going to get you mad thats just what guys do but if its something that really bothers you, you need to let him know.

dont breakk u p with him just yet. wait it out and deffinetly talk to him first.

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Ok, well a couple years back I met this guy over the internet. He lives in Egypt and I live in Canada. We've been on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures weekly. Is it possible that after all this that he is a fake? Because I'm really starting to get attached to him and for our school trip we're going to cairo and we were going to meet then. Should I go through with it or what. I'm really confused by it all. Sometimes, well alot we talk about our problems and well we help eachother out, I'm just scared that I'm going to get my heart broken and never be able to trust anybody anymore. What can I do about all this?

it is possible for him to be a fake with all the technology we have these days. but its not likely if youve talked to him on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures. if he looks the same in all the pictures as he does on the webcam its likely hes not a fake. dont get your hopes up to high if he isnt as perfect as he seems. dont forgegt you can make yourself look better on computers with picture editors. also i wouldnt go alone to meet him make sure at least one other person is with you incase thigns do go wrong. but do go for it. it will be fun even if you dont exactly like him that much. he seems like a person you can trust and talk to.

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