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ok i like this boy and i have an idea that hes knw that i like him just by the way he acts around me i mean we flirt like all the time at skool everytime we see each other but my problem is .. he has a G/F he told me just a couple of dayz ago he was breakin up wit her for me... and that same afternoon my whole crew was talkin bout the arguement between him and his G/F not trying to b mean i was kinda happy about that lol newayz when i was leaving skool that day he pulled me to the side and got down on his knees and told me he loved me (which we've known each other for like ever) i kinda brush'd him off .. so then after the bell rings we talk some more but now were on a break for 5 dayz and today i started to think bout him and it brought tears to my eyez girls ur advice shud i tell him i love him or up my flirting game????**

Well, if you love the kid, then let him know but don't say it if you don't mean it. Those words w. no meaning could seriously hurt someone badly. So just follow your heart on this one. If you need anything else just leave one in my inbox.Happy to help
Ciara

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In order to understand this question you need to know a little background:
This guy lived two rooms down from me on a co-ed, all-feshman dorm floor and I never really talked to him before. But at my school (college) there was a big drinking fest and everyone is out drinking and socializing with people. I was standing in a large group of people outside, talking and drinking, with all the same age, and he comes to me and asks me if I could get him in to the dorm because he 'lost' or forgot his key. So a couple of people I was with, me and the guy, (lets call him P) walked back to the dorm. We hung out in the lobby for awhile and we all talked. The night is kinda hazy for me, but I remember most parts. ANYWAYS, later on, somehow the conversation lead to P staying with me in my room that night. So it happened, he spent the night and everything in my dorm room. Obviously it was hours after we had been drinking. But we did stuff. The next day he talked to me as if nothing happened. Now this school year started and I rarely see him. We both live off campus and when I do see him, we say hi, how are ya and everything but never a complete conversation. I don't want to keep him from class. But after I see him I just wanna grab him and kiss him like that night we spent together.

Now my question is, From all this background info, do you think he actually likes me, or do you think he was trying to get in my pants that night. BUT lately, he says hi, even if I dont see him walk past or something he makes sure I see him. Should I just stop him and make him late to his class and talk to him, see if he wants to get together some time. I dont have a clue at all. I really like the guy but I'm confused on what I should do.. If anyone could help me, that would be awesome!!


I'm really sorry this is long...

If he's going out of his way to say hello then he definitely wasn't just trying to get into your pants. I definitely think that he has a thing for you. So just pull him aside (he'll live if hes late just this once) get a number and make some plans! see where that takes you my dear! Hope I helped!
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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.

I think you really need to tell him. Relationships are suppossed to be honest. Yes he is going to be hurt by this but its better you tell him then your ex. and plus, if you don't you're going to be carrying all the guilt around with you. So get it off your chest and just try to work things out with your boyfriend. Hope I helped!
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my bf just recently got AIM to talk to me more since we go to diff skools...well he made a myspace (myspace.com) and on his where it says "Who Id Like To Meet" he put "A gurl with a nice body and who is not afraid to try new things" and where it says Status he put single...im soo hurt over it he sent me the link 2 it and he was like look i made a myspace...and idk if i shuld get mad @ this or birng it up? am i over exaggurating? how would i bring it up??? ugh....btw we been goin out 4 6 months and everything so far has been gr8...=\

um you definitely gotta bring it up to him. 6 months is a pretty long relationship so I dont know what going on in this boys head for him to do that? So u have to ask him what that is all about. If he acts like a jerk and doesnt have an answer(although I dont think there could be an answer for that) then I'd break it off..bcuz if thats the case then apparently he thinks he could just use you..Good Luck! Hope I helped!
Ciara

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15/m
I feel really gay having to ask a girl about this but I just have to know. I really like this girl that I am good friends with but I don't know if she feels the same way. Like when we hang out with the rest of our friends she seems to give me more attention then the rest of the guys but what if I am just imagining things? what should i do? help!

Well it sounds like she may have a crush on you. To know for sure why dont you try to have some alone time with her. Just hang out alone without the rest of the gang. I'm sure you'll know in no time then go for it and ask her out! good luck! Hope I helped!
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ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort!

Alright..well I think he does bcuz he liked you last year so there is a very good chance that he still does..so just go for it. Hope I helped
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hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!

Alrighty, well you have to do some evaluating. Apparently you and your ex broke up for a reason. Maybe its for the best if you just stay away. And you also just said yes to Eric. And if you knew that your ex was coming down maybe you shouldve held off on your new relationship until your ex left so that anything that may happen won't matter;). So what I'm saying is that you really want to avoid hurting Eric but you also have to be happy at the same time. So just think which boy means more to you and then talk to the other about it. If you cant make the choice maybe you're not quite ready for a relationship?
Hope I helped!

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I started dating this really great guy... but he is really sensitive. He broke up with me and lied to me about why. We got back togethre and he did it again. This time i got upset with him. He was being a complete jerk. I dont want our freindship to be wasted but i feel all weird around him and he is getting on my nerves. Should i forgive him and try to forget about feeling weird or should i leave him alone?

Well this is something that you really have to ask yourself. Do you cherish the friendship so much that you are willing to put the past..well in the past or do you just want to completely move on and never talk to him again? Whatever your decision is, it would only be fair to talk to him about it to and see what he has to say. Hope I helped!
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me and mai bf of 6th months r reallie close n we barely ever fight but we got into this fight (which was my fault) about a week ago and i apologized n erything and he forgave me and it felt like everything was back to normal..(we go to diff skools) and hes off this whole week and i hav skool till wednesday but hes been like blowing me off...we wer suposed to do something saturday...and i called and he wasnt home all day and then sunday he was "too busy cleaning his room" i was like wtf he has all week and then so i havent seen him all weekend...not even friday bc he went somewhere with his friends....idk wats goin on with him...should i call him tonite n ask him is he mad @ me n tell him how i feel? or do i wait for him 2 call me?

yea..i would definitely call him..sometimes if you want something down you just have to do it yourself. He may be the type that has something to say but just doesnt know how to say it..so call him up and pull it out of him. If you don't you may be waiting forever for that phone to ring.
Hope I helped!
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