Hello, I am a 14 year old female that lives in central illinois. i would love to help anyone out there with any problems that they might have. i have over 300 pets and am an only child. i love animals and want to be a vet someday. i also wish for world peace. i am a freshman and have a lot of really close friends that i can depend on, but it wasn't always like that. before i moved i never had a friend to confide in or get help, which is why i am doing this because i want to help ne1 out there like me!!
Gender: Female
Location: central, IL
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: Boycrazmnk
Member Since: December 29, 2004
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well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything? (link)
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i have this same problem with my boyfriend. if he is getting mad about it then talk to him and tell him that you are out of things to talk about and have him try and think of something. or just tell him you have to get off of the phone and talk to him later. hope i helped/
**SpAz**
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Alright, this might take a minute, I have this really good friend Jake. He tells me he's "in love with me", and is planning on asking me out this friday. We have went out once before for a short time, and broke up because I had alot going on and didnt really want to deal with a boyfriend. He got really upset and hurt himself. He knows that I'm not so sure if i want to go out with him or not, but still, his hopes are high. I do like him sometimes, but it's weird and when i'm in certain moods i just dont like him like that at all.
Then, I really really like this other friend (Nick) of mine. He is alot older than me, and at our age difference right now nothing would happen. But I still do like him and he's one of my good friends. I have no idea if he likes me like that, but sometimes he does give me weird signals.
Anyway, I am not sure if I want to go out with Jake or not. I am in a few classes where there is Nick and Jake and (they are friends, but nobody knows I like Nick except my best friend.) I know that it would be weird, Nick wouldnt say anything but I know he would be kind of disappointed in me. Either way, if i say yes or no, i know that I am going to be unhappy with my answer. if i say yes i'll wish i said no and if i say no i'll wish i said yes. I don't really know what Im getting at, but this is my problem and i need to know soon.
Thanks for the help. (link)
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you know what you should do? tell Jake that you aren't sure at the moment if you are reall into dating him or anyone else for that matter. your not saying yes and your not saying no. and then no one's feelings are hurt. hope i helped
**SpAz**
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MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do?? (link)
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if you get along with your cousin well DO NOT try and get with **** friendships last longer that relationships normally. my advice go out and find an even cuter boy to feast ur eyes on.
*spaz*
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i'm in 8th grade and i liked this guy since like.. grade 5 or 6.. sumwhere there.. i was pretty stupid then.. i'd do these stupid pranks on him and i feel really shitty about it and all.. hes acts like a shithead to me and i no that thats my fault but i wanna know wut i can do about it now.. i can't seem to get over him but i want him and me to be friends again.. i cud tell him i'm sorry or w/e but he seems like a really. uh... u no.. like unforgiving kinda guy or w/e i'm totally freaking out! plz help! thx (link)
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my advice write him a letter telling him that when you used to be mean to him you were young and inmature and that you are very sorry and promise to behave better he'll get the drift if he doesn't then he is no friend of yours nor do you want him to be. hope i helped
**SpAz**
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