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Can anyone give me any tips on flirting but nothing too bold because I am quite shy.
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first since you are so shy, you have to figure out how to break out of your shell. like everyday smile or say hi to someone new.
comliment a lot, slide your hand on their arm while you are talking, smile and laugh a lot, and have eye contact.. that is very important.
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Can a person be in love in 8th grade? Or is it just bogus? I do believe I'm in love and I wondering if it really is love. All of my friends alkways say I'm in love with this boy and I have been for a while. Thanks! (link)
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If someone says that you cannot be inlove in the 8th grade, then how old do you have to be? you know? I really do not think there is a certain age when someone is "allowed" to be inlove. It all depends on how you feel yourself.Just listen to your heart.
I dont even understand the true meaning of love for someone myself.. but I saw this and I thought it was a good understanding:
"Love is choosing to do what is best for another person. Love is an action, not a feeling. (Though feelings are often a byproduct. Why do we feel so great when we are dating? Because we are making every effort to do nice things for the other person. We choose to treat the other person well.) We are acting in a way that shows love.
So love is helping others, meeting their needs, putting their well being first. If you love some one you will not , cheat on them, lie to them, steal from them, etc"
Uh.. hahah sorry this was really long. Just hope I helped :D
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Ok there is this guy that I am friends with, and I found out that he likes me. Good right? No you see I am friends with his ex and she says she still loves him. he never talks to her or anything. he says that she couldn't handle just being friends and that he only treats her like that because she acts like that. I don't want him to treat me like that if we were to go out and break up, he says that he wouldn't,but I don't know if I believe him. And there is one more thing I have a boyfriend. we don't go to the same school and I was thinking about dumping him anyway,but I just dont know what to do. So should I dump my boyfriend for my friend?
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He likes you.. but do you like him?
I dont think that it would be a good idea to go out with your friend just yet, if you are friends with his ex..and if she isnt quite over him. If you really want to go out with him then you should wait a little while to let her feelings change, let her move on; you know?
You shouldnt give up on your boyfriend too easily also if you still really like him. If you dont have feelings for him, because like you said you were going to break up with him anyway, then i mean.. dont lead him on.
Sometimes long distance relationships are good, you dont get to see him all the time but when you do.. it makes it ten times better. Theres also disatvantages of long distance relationships, like the situation you have now. Imagine yourself in your boyfriends shoes, what if some girl liked him? and he was going to dump you for her?
(Even if you dont live that far away, schools are some distance--through the weeks)
Manda
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okay so she says she likes this guy, we'll call him Dave. but she knows his older brother (Clark) much better, and he is a HUGE flirt. She says that she doesnt like him, but every time she sees him she can't say no to him (even though he has a girlfriend), and so last night she was fooling around with Clark and she doesn't know what to do and I don't know what to tell her, she thinks she's screwed up her chances with Dave and I was wondering if there was any advice you could give me about what she could do about Clark and Dave.... so I could tell her, cause I don't know how to help. TY so much and I'm sry if this is long (link)
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You really have to get it in her head to say NO. It seems like your friend is a peoplepleaser, but im not putting her down or anything. I guess if I put myself in her shoes, then I would be able to understand the situation of being alone, with a boy that she probably does trust very much. Just make sure that she doesnt fool around with him anymore..because that wouldnt be any better :D
As long as Mr. Dave doesnt find out right now about what she has done with Clark, then just let her get to know, and become closer to Dave. But eventually if her and Dave start dating, it would be good for her to come clean.. but at a point where she can comfertably come out.
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