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Hey you guys. My name is Christina. I give pretty good advice. I give it to my friends all the time and it usually works//helps them out. Yes, I am preppy. I LOVE stores like Abercrombie and Fitch, Hollister, American Eagle and more, but those are my top 3 favorite stores. =D I love playing sports too, I'm very athletic. I love going online, talking to friends, helping people, hanging out with my friends,*&& hugging! I love looking for hot guys =] (I already love you if you give me a big hug! =D ) And more stuff. So ask away!

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OKay soo i really liike this guy at my school and i wanna do something cute for christmas but i want my name to be anonymous. So i was wondering if i sould burn a CD with the only song on it being "All I want for Christmas is you" and decorate it and like write inside it "To the world you may be one person, bu to one person you may be the world" and just leave it on his locker without a name. What do you guys think? should i do this, or something else, or nothing at all?
thank you !

ok...
if you think it's a good idea yes. if your actually going to go through this then yes.
get to know him maybe a little more. like ask him stupid questions like even if you have a pen "hey. could i borrow a pen?" or something totally random like that.
ask him what he likes too. ask him a question that you think no one would ask him and maybe put a picture of it on the cover or something.
ask what kind of music he's into and maybe put a couple of their songs onto it.
or you could just do the "all i want for christmas" one
if you decorate it nicely then yehup i would go with it.

i would recommend like getting a hall pass to "go to the bathroom" but sneak it into his locker, so he could get it the day before christmas break

remember also you have to do this, you can't chicken out, because if you don't do anything then absolutely nothing will happen. don't you want to take a chance and see if he likes you back or wants to get to know you better? i think so.

good luck & if you have anymore questions inbox me :]

editt;;; i have a headache

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i want to know if im considered a racist. i can be friends with black people, i have 3 black friends but i can never picture myself dating or having sex/children/marrying a black guy. is this racism or just prefrences?

no it's not
it's like having a best guy friend but never picture dating them
it's not racism at all.

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when you kiss where do you put yours hands ive heard hip, hands, below the ear, where it fees comfortable

Well, I put my hands by the guys shoulders, but everone has their own style of kissing. When you start kissing, it's like an automatic response [[atleast to me!]] on where to put your hands. Just make shure that your comfortable!

Hope i helped!
♥ Christina

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i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?

It is COMPLETELY normal!
I think that your first kiss should be romantic,I mean it's your first kiss!
If someone's pressuring you into something you don't want to do, don't do it.
Some of the prettiest girls I know didn't want to kiss their boyfriend until they were like 16.
It is normal!

Hope I helped. NEed More on this topic? Inbox me.

♥ Christina

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I've been going out with my boyfriend on and off for about a month. Usually when we spend time together it's going out to eat or watching movies which leads to nothing but making out. It seems like the majority of the time we're together, we are making out.. which is fine with me. But I'd like to do other things to build a stronger relationship with him. He's coming over to my place tonight to watch another movie. What are some other things at our houses that we can do that's non-sexual? I never had problems finding things to do with my other boyfriends. It just seems like we need to work on our emotional connection in this relationship. Thank you.

Sorry to break it to you but he might just be in it for the "making-out" if you guys are on-again-off-again.
When you guys get back together, do you go to making out right away?
Well, I might talk to him about it I would say," You know, relationships aren't all about getting physical." or if there's a silence start talking about a movie or something.
Get to know each other more talk about your favorite movies [[if you don't know]] or what you would like to know about him.
Around when you guys usually start making out, do something so you won't have to. Unless you really want to at the moment, then go for it.
Play a video game or a board game maybe. Sometimes you get so into it, you forget about making out/

Sorry If I really didnt help =/
♥Christina

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Christina,
I've liked the same guy for a few years now. And he keeps looking at me and dong nice things.Shouls i go for it and ask him out or wait???

OK hun, well, it seems that he likes you! Congratulations! Well, if your 100% sure, you should go for it, most guys like it when girls ask them out. [[Lot of stress off of them]] But to make sure, give him your best smile and if he smiles back big, he likes you.

Hope I Helped!
♥ Christina

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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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Dump him.
He's doing a really bad thing and he won't break up with the other girl.
If he really loved you [[I know he does]] but he wouldn't cheat on you
You deserve someone WAY better.
What if you want to get married? Are you guys still going to share him and live in the same house?
If it were me in this situation, I would've dumped him at the second.
If your going to break up, afterwards, go spend some time with your friends to get your mind off of things, friends can really help, and you will find someone much better

Hope I helped and Good Luck!
♥ Christina

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16/f

tomarrow im supposed to hang out with a boy i really like. but i dont know what to talk about with him. i know he likes me too, and we are on the verge of going out..but i dont want there to be an awkward silence or anything..i know his favorite sports and everything..so idk.. what strikes up a good conversation and how can i get him to ask me out soon??

thanks in advance

OMGSH, first of all I just want to tell you that I'm so happy for you!

Well, maybe get to know him even better, ask questions about him.

You could talk about: TV Shows, Music, Summer, etc. If there is an awkward silence [[what I do when theres an awkward silence]] I either laugh and they'll ask why [[guys love it when you smile]] and like, remember a funny remember. Remember the good times.
Hope I helped *&& GOOD LUCK!

♥ Christina

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!

However you think of it.
Love has a different definition to everyone.
I think that love is..

Love is seeing him how no one else does
Love is when you know hes not perfect but you see him perfectly
Love is thinking about him day & night
Love is when he means the world to you
Love is when no one else knows how you feel
Love is the best feeling you can feel

just some of that love is the closest thing to magic.

♥ ~*Christina*~

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i haven't made out with anyone, and i feel so alone. I feel like i'm ugly and no one likes me because guys make out with girls that i'm prettier and nicer than. how come no one likes me?

Awww! Don't think that!
Nobody is ugly.
Everybody get's prude once in a while, but after you kiss, it's like, I was scared to do that?
But everyone has somebody out there!
They must just missing out on a lot.
Have one of your friends hook you up with one of their friends that would be your type, so you might not be as nervious around them.
Don't change for ANYONE!!! Always be yourself NO MATTER WHAT.


Hope I Helped!
xO ~*Christina*~

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Hi Christina!
Well I really like this guy in my grade. He seems everything to me but i honestly am getting mixed signals.Its really confusing me ALOT!!! All my friends say that he likes me but i am not shure...I need to get him alone somehow and i read those signs for that other persons question and i really dont see any of those signs...well i have no clue what to do!!! i need help!!!! and fast the skool year is almost over!!! lol
-confused dilema

Well, listen to your gut//heart.
What do you think about this?
Is your instinct telling you he likes you (well re-look them and carefully evaluate each question, think hard and long - not too long! ha - and still see if you may have one
of those signs)
If your friends say it then it may be true, they usually don't lie, (well atleast the trust-worthy ones)
Like I said.
Have a group of people && invite him go somewhere. (Bowling, the movies, etc.)
Then just talk to him alone and get to know him better
And if it was meant to be, it'll come naturally.

Hope I could help
xO ~*Christina*~

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Hey Crissy-Tina!!!
I know you ....hehe
well there is this guy that i really like and i dont know if he likes me or not.How could i tell??? and how do i ask him to hang out???

Hey!
Uhm, I think I have a feeling who it is, so haha I (think) Iknow you too.
Ohkay well first think about it.
Does your gut tell you that he does?
Listen to your gut, if you think he does then go for it? Honestly, what do you have to lose?
It's better to know that you went for something instead of regretting it 5 years later, wondering what would have happened if you haven't.

Some signs that he may like you are:
~He could start talking loudly when you're by him
~He could become shy (yes, every guy becomes shy at one point or another even if they're the most populaur guy out there)
~You could barely hear him when he talks to you (He mumbles)
~His friends may be looking at you-watching what you do-when he's not there
~He smiles when talking to you//Looks into your eyes for a long time
~Flirts with you
~Hangs out with you when you're with a group of people

If you have any of these signs but your not 110% shure he likes you. Smile (try your best one, but don't act like nervous - you shouldn't get nervous around guys, there like you, sept not in some ways.Ha.) and see if he smiles back

EDiiT: If you want to ask him to hang out. Just do it. If he does it'll just come to you naturally. Get a group of people to go with you guys then talk to him privately. Ask him how basketball is and stuff. Or what he likes to do in his spare time.

I hope I could have helped

xO ~*Christina*~

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