Ok i have a problem there is this girl that i like well i should say that i basically fell for and shes going out with someone already. She still treats me as a very good friend and everything and we are kinda close but it just sucks cause she has a boyfriend and she doesnt realize that he does things to annoy her and a lot of other things that make her mad but she doesnt want to accept it. Im not sure if it is just me talking or what but i need to ask am i just jealous of the guy or am i looking out for her? and also what should i do about this?
Well sir, since im assuming you are one, if this guy doesnt treat her the wya you think he should, try having a casual convo with her, ask her how thbings are going, and if they are doing ok, and if she likes the way thinkgs are working out, and ask her questions liek what makes her really happy, to me it sounds liek your doing the BBIG BROTHER/I-REALLY-LIKE-YOU-GOOD-FREIND-THING beczu you said you like her and that you feel like you my just be looking out for her, but also be careful at what you say, us girls take things the wronf way sometimes, so be gentle, if you want to win her over, or w/e you have to make sure your only looking out for her, adn not trying to take her away, if she is truly happym then you should be happy for her, but in the end ofg there relationship you gotta be there, us girls are vulnerable, and im not saying to take advantage of that in any way, im just saying that if your there when she needs you, then maybe she will see what great of a a guy you, which i am also asumming you are, so be gentle, adn open, and careing! thats all we want form you guys! feel free to let me know how things turned out, i like hearing about it! Hope i helped!
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I really like this one guy but we don't even talk. I know he use to know I like him but I don't know if he knows anymore. Online I talk to him but I don't know what to talk about and offline like in person I don't even say hi to him. He is one grade ahead of me. What should I do to become at least friends??? Because I'm like in *lOvE* with him. I know he likes someone but I don't know who and I know it's not me. *****tears*****
Ok first off... being friends is a great way to start, make your online convos more intresting like talk about more personal thigns, but dont rush it, but you want him to gain some trust in you, you know, so you can confide in eachotehr, then like all relationships build from there, but dont automatically blurt out that you have feelings for him mkae him come to you, dont let him know you liek him, we all know guys want what they cant have, so make him want you, be flirty, adn you need alot of self confidence, and you want to look like you know what your doing! Have fun, and let me know what happens!
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This has probably been asked soo much, but here goes..
There's these two guys, one, we'll call him Jim. & the other we'll call Bob. Well, i met Jim thru a mutual friend. And ever since i met him i thought he was soo hot, i got to know him, and have liked him ever since.. he's also said he's interested in me, but some other girls as well.. Where as Bob, well.. it's complicated. But i think i love him. i'm not IN love with him.. but i have liked him for soo long.. its almost crossed the 'like' line, you know? :S I went out with him in like.. grade 6 (i'm in the 10th grade now! :P) but it was just one of those middle school things, you know? So i've been good friends with Bob since i was 8, but have only known Jim for 6 months or so, and also i don't get to see him that often, because he doesn't go to my school. I like them both, but i think most of my feelings for Jim are because he's soo eye catching, as shallow as that sounds. And Bob, well like i said.. i love him, and we're so close, which is why i think we could have something great.. but i'm worried to ask him out, because i wouldnt want to screw up what we have now, and plus, i'm almost positive he doesn't feel the same way about me. I am soo lost. Please help. I'll rate good :)
Well lets see, so 'Bob' you have known for lets say ever, adn you love him adn i get what you are saying and all but you arent sure if he feels teat way about you, soo maybe you should tlak to him and find out what could possible become of you to, and I also have been in a situation where you are worried about losing your friendship or having it change, adn relaly its a 50/50 deal, becuz it all depends on how much effort you put in it, and if you are willing to risk that for the chance at something more then a friendship, and as for 'Jim' its kinda hard to go out with someone when they are liken other girls, so if you were to start somehting with him, make sure there is nothing between him and other girls. Well thats all i can relaly tell ya for now, but let me know how everything works out, you can always e-mail me!
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