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okay, my first love, diego, and i were in love for about a year and a half. we always were together, but we never went farther than kissing.
we have both moved on now, and we havent really thought of eachother as more than best friends for about 6 months..
im now with a new guy named sam. sam and i are really close, but everytime i tell him i love him, diegos face comes to my mind, but i dont know why. diego and i were talking last night, and we were flirting a lot.
now, looking back, i feel REALLY bad, and i dont know if i should tell sam or not. i know its not like i went off and did stuff with diego, but im still not sure if its concidered cheating or not...is it?!
what do you think i should do!?
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what you are doing isnt necessarily considered cheating but it was still pretty messed up if your with sam you shouldnt want to flirt with anyone other than sam. as for the whole telling sam you love him and diego pops up in your mind it could be that a small part of you still likes him. becuz if you really truly loved sumone and you break up you may have moved on but a small part of you will still always love them. after all like you said he was your first love. but dont worry too much your not really cheating but it's still bad to flirt with another guy if you have a boyfriend especially flirting with an ex!
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(16/f) I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really do love him. Its just that he doesnt trust me at all. Just because of things people tell him. People dont like the fact that we're going out because we're in an inter-racial relationship. So they make things up to try to get us to break up. I know that they're lying but he doesnt. He just doesnt trust me and I'm constantly telling him not to believe them and " No I didnt flirt with so-and-so today." Im so sick of trying to get him to believe me. He also makes me feel guilty for things I did before we started going out. Im tired of it and I try telling him this but he just doesnt stop. It's getting to the point where we're fighting most of the time instead of getting along. I love him so much and I dont want to have to break up but I want to be happy instead of being sad all the time now. I just dont know if its at the point where I should end it or not. Please help me out I dont know what to do... thanks in advance. (link)
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I completely understand how your feeling you see i was in a relationship and all of his friendz hated the fact that he waz going out with me so they started making up rumors about me flirting with all these other guys at skewl (he was home skewled at the time so he got his friends to tell him wat i did) and hr didnt believe anything i ever said i mean he told me he trusted me but he doubted everything i had to say ... but bak to you soooo... that relationship didnt work out and your relationship kinda sounds lyke mine and you have to face the fact that your only confusing yourself even more by not dumping him if you dont do it eventually he will.
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I wrote a prob earlier, because I like this boy but I'm too shy to actually do anything. People said they think he likes me too. They also told me "be yourself". Thing is, I'm really shy + boring, I hardly ever go out (long story.. moved house, new friends bullied me, were really immature and bossed me around every time i went out with them so i stopped). Please can you give me some flirting tips for shy people? Because when he looks at me I look away in case I start blushing and I'm ignoring him even though I like him.. silly thing to do I guess, but I can't help it. Thanks =] (link)
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Wat you should do is lyke your friendz said is to be yourself but kinda... how do i put this... at the same time be sum1 different lyke dare yourself to do things you normally were too afraid to do dont be worried about wat they mite think about you juss have fun and if they see your having fun they'll see that your the type of gurl that can have fun and that's a good thing becuz they may start asking you to hang out with them eventually.
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