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hey! well im 15/f
and allright so ive been having boy troubles lately..i was kinda crushin a little bit on this guy and we were flirtin alot until i find out he just got a girlfriend so that went down then drain and now i feel like i cant flirt with him anymore. so i just sit there but he kinda still flirts with me! i mean i spilt somethin on my shorts lol and so i was changin into my boxer shorts in my friends room and i guess he told my friends sister to open the door and pull down the towel i had because supposively he wanted to see my ass and i dont know i didnt start flirting with him because i backed off since i found out he had a girlfriend but he still kinda flirts with me! he is so adorable and sweet and we can have such good talks and i was talkin to him on AIM and hes like jokin around sayin ohh didnt this boy look sexy today and i was like haha real funny! and hes like just kidding but we'll find you a boy dont worry. hes just sooo sweet!! but he really likes this girl and i guess has liked her for awhile but then why does he do this with me?! and like for stuff on AIM or whatever hes always like i love you lindsey?!
soo im just so confused...

I say let him know stop playing with my emotions. Be the aggresser, remind him he has a girlfriend. Tell him your not going to be the other chick. If he likes her tell him to stop flirting with you because thats not helping the situation of you having feelngs for him.

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okay so theres this boy and i REALLY LOVE him..im only 13 and people tell me i dont really know what love is but like love isnt a maybe thing right..? yeah.. you know if you love someone and i do love him but he used to act like he liked me but now he doesnt anymore it it makes me really sad..i feel like im not good enough but all my friends tell me im to good for him..( but hey their suppose to right? ) i think another part is hes 2 grades ahead of me..but he also is my neighbor and were kinda friends i guess but i want to tell him hwo i feel but i dont know if he will feel the same and it would make things akward..so what should i do? please help

I know what your going through, I went through the same thing. I had it set in my mind that I really did love this boy, because your going through the I think about him all the time when he comes around I get butterflies, I get all warm inside, but thats only part of love. Your young you'll fall in "love" millions of times. But if you want to know whats going on with him, as hard as it maybe go over to his house sit on his porch with him and be real. tell him how you feeling, and how you think he knows because he started changing.Let him know that its alright if he doesnt feel the same way, yall can just be friends. It worked out for me.

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