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Okay, I am a girl and 14, so I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was amazing the first two months. But then he started to really annoy me no matter what the last two months and I was never intown to hang out with him or anything. I was always told that he was cheating on me with other girls while I was away, but i just didn't think he was like that. I don't think that i loved the guy but I think I was close to a feeling like that even though he still annoyed me constantly, he would still put a smile on my face. But when we broke up, it wasn't a nice break up. I told him to never talk to me again, because it really hurt me, even though it was what I wanted. We didn't talk for about a month but I still knew I had feelings for him and the next time we talked it ended in a huge fight with me crying (and I don't normally cry). And now we are really good friends and I hang out with him from time to time, but I really want to date him again, but he says that he could never date me ever again, and it really hurts my feelings. I want him to like me like that again, but he always has other girls on his mind. I just want him to be mine again. Helppp! (link)
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Being a teenager and having lost a boyfriend can suck on so many levels. But he's not what you need right now. It's obvious that he hurt you, and he probably got hurt as well. And even though it may not seem like it, it could be to hard for him to go back out with you, or he may just not be ready yet.
It's said a thousand times "Girls mature faster than boys" And it's true. He doesn't sound like he is mature enough to handle a real relationship yet. For now you both need to move on, even though you may not want to. It doesn't have to be the end though. Later down the road things might work out for you two, but now just isn't the time.
Hope this helps
-Ms. Love
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so me and this guy i'm talking to are going to college 3.5 hours away from each other. we really like each other but we're afraid that if we date we wouldn't get to see each other. so i'm just wondering how many relationships actually work out when you only get to see them like once or twice a month? i reallyyy like him. (link)
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Long distance relationships are hard work. But they do sometimes work out. You two need to be committed to each other and be understanding.
I wouldn't suggest it if either of you have trust issues because that is a big problem with long distance. You must trust the other to be faithful.
Good luck!
-Ms. Love
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Hey guys!! I'm in major need of advice right now!! My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months this Saturday. This school year I will be a freshman in high school and he will be a junior. I found out recently that my best guy friend was going to ask me out the same night my boyfriend did!! Everyone except two of my best friends want me to break up with my current boyfriend.. I know that I love my boyfriend with ALL my heart!! But when I'm with my best guy friend, I don't think about my boyfriend.. But when I'm with my boyfriend, I don't think about my best friend.. It is the HARDEST situation I have EVER been through!! Because I I break up with my boyfriend, I will always wonder what couldve been?! But if I do continue to date my current boyfriend.. I will always wonder what couldve been with the other!! I need some help!! Please!!
-Bri2313
Age:14
Gender:Female (link)
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Make a pros and cons list! Sounds cheesy - yes. But think about how much you know about the other, how long you've known them. Has there always be a spark? Or is it just because you found out he was going to ask you out?
Or
You could always continue going out with your current boyfriend. See where it goes. If the other guy is truly a best friend, then he'll still be there for you.
-Ms. Love
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what are some sexy new things to try while making out? like new kisses to try, or new places to kiss? things that will make my boy really want me. or like cute little things to whisper in his ear? (link)
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Here are a few new ways to kiss:
Cold kissing - suck on something cold i.e an ice cube (without his knowing) before you kiss.
Morse Code kissing - send messages to your partner by using long and short kisses.
Nibble on your partners lower lip while kissing
Nibble on their ear
Buy a bag of "pop rocks" and have some sizzling fun while kissing
Lady and the Tramp kissing - I'm sure you'll know what to do(;
Doggy Style - rub noses together and give a quick lick!
Hope this helps!
-Ms. Love
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