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E-mail: diplomat_misses@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 18
Member Since: October 11, 2006
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I have just recently had feelings for my guy friend who I've known for quite awhile now. Even when I was with my boyfriend my mind tended to think about him instead. My dilemma is to reveal my feelings to him or not. Typically, the answer seems so obvious, but there are a few circumstances. You see, my guy friend, he does not have the personality I look for in a guy. Granted he is funny and great, and I'm not picky when it comes to guys I date, but he isn't the committed type nor is he dating material...and right now I'm looking for a long-term relationship, while he is not. I guess you could call this a crush, but do I reveal my feelings and risk awkwardness in our frienship? Or do I keep the feelings to myself since I'm not interested in dating him? (link)
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I think its best if you let him know how you feel. Our feelings werent made to be kept bottled up. You'll feel better once you tell him. Im not sure how it will affect youre friendship with him because I dont know how he would react. But if you let him know that you arent interested in dating him, who knows maybe he likes you and he just might change for you. But if he doesnt like you, by you letting him know that you dont want to date him, it draws that line which makes you and him still on a friendship level and wont cause as much awkwardness.
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I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions. (link)
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Girl, stop worrying about what other people say. I know its easier said than done, but trust me. If you really like him, dont let other people's thoughts contradict how you feel and what you do. And as far as you being too old for him...NO, youre not too old for him. If you are an 8th grader and he is a 6th grader then you two are not too far apart in age. But I see where youre coming from. If being with him makes you happy, then go for it.
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Hey!
Like a month ago, my friend Paul told me he thought my friend Victoria was just a little hot. I said, oh, but I like him. Seriously, I love him I think. I am 13, but I do. I have had many boyfriends, but somethings special about him.
At this dance Friday, Paul was like I am going to ask Victoria to dance. Victoria is like my best friend too. I pretended I told victoria but I didnt, then I told Paul she was like "Eww."
So now apperently he really likes her. I have been preteneding to try and hook them up, just to talk to Paul. Paul and I talk on the phone, but it is always about Victoria! I get in troble in english and math, always because I am showing off for Paul.
I try and show off, like I say, "Paul you might now like Victoria, she hasnt kissed anyone." Then he said, Dont worry, she will get kissed if you get her to go out with me.
Victoria doesnt really like him. She might go out with him, because I think she knows I like him. Victoria and I are friends and all, almost best friends, but we try to be better then one another.
Im not sure what to do. Should I keep talking bad about Victoria? I rather Paul then Victoria though, because Vicotoria and I are that great of friends! (link)
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NO, you shouldnt keep talking bad about Victoria. Yea, you two might be really good friends and this might not change your relationship with her, but when will this stop? It will break your friendship up sooner or later and it will be ugly. If you continue to do what youre doing, the only thing that is going to happen is he is going to give up trying to get with Victoria and youre going to try to get him to see that you like him and he isnt going to have it. In other words he is not going to want you back. You are going to be hurt and left looking stupid. So if you tell him now that you like him and stop lying on Victoria, your chance is better because he will see how nice and honest you are; rather than him catching you in your lies.
And maybe you should stop trying to show off for Paul, I know you really like him but just be yourself and trust me, if he doesnt like you for you, then he isnt worth it. Being 13 is a young age and you have a long time to find a guy to love and to love you back.
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