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Location: michigan
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Age: 13
Member Since: July 10, 2005
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Hi me and my boyfriend are together but now we have ti keep it a secret cause his parents say im to young for him but i dont want to keep it a secret anymore but everytime i try to call him he never pick up cause i wan to tell him im not going to do this anymore. But now i grew to be very attracted to his friend and i want to go out with him but he says he will not go out with anyone my age and were only 2 years a part wahta shoudl i do to get rid of my ex and go out with the new kid i like. (link)
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I think that your boyfriend and his friends are immature for saying that your to young and only 2 years apart .. look at some of the celebritys there was like 13 years apart! and these boys wont even go out with you when your only 2 years? Maybe going out with this new kid is a good idea .. you shouldnt keep your relationships a secrect if you dont want to and you shouldnt have to.. you will probably have a better time and a relationship with the new guy
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Ok, me and my boyfriend Cory have been going out for 9 months. Well, there is this girl named Stephanie who has been hitting and flirting with my boyfriend ever since we started going out. I have always hated this girl, so it makes the situation worse. She'd do it in my face, wherever.. she doesnt care. Once, i saw her, her friend, and Cory at this baseball field playing baseball with some younger kids and i got pretty mad about it. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. He always compares me with her, like ill do something, and hell say, "Stephanie wouldnt do that!" then i get pissy, and he goes im sorry baby, im sorry blah blah blah... well, yesterday he was here, and i havent seen him for about a week, so i was talkin 2 him and he jus wanted to watch tv. Then left 20 minutes after he got here because I was being annoying. Well, now, i just learned that him, Stephanie, another girl, and another boy are at this other boys house. It really pisses me off because he is controlling, and I wasnt allowed to go to my friends house (a boys house), because he doesnt like the boy. So i said fine, i wont go. I really think hes cheating because he lets her flirt in my face and hes been acting really strange around me. So, do you think hes cheating? SHould i give him another chance? Should i call him? idk what to do because i dont want to overreact and i dont want to throw away a 9 month relationship! I would want to sit and talk with him but im scared he will hurt me physically and i dont want to lose him, im 14 and hes 15... what should i do?? (link)
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its grat that you dont want to lose a 9 month relationship but your better off dumping him!! look at the way he is treating you .. dump im and get it over with
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Well okay, I've seen my boyfriend twice in my whole life. I met him like 2-3 weeks ago. And then we met up again at some fireworks like a week ago. He asked me out there. I didn't wanna say no though because like I was like hmm what the heck, Ill give him a chance. So the day after he asked me out. He went away for two weeks*he comes back this coming Sunday* and he calls like 3 times a day. He kinda gets annoying though and everyboy that knows him thinks he's annoying too. Also he is a jerk at times. Like he'll make fun of me and my music and stuff. But i noticed he has a really sweet side underneath it all. No one else knows about this sweet side of his. So when I tell them, they think im crazy. Another thing is that he cant even say "I love you!" When he says it, it just doesn't sound like he means it. Well.. i guess I love him, but it's just hard ya know? I have no clue what to do. So please help.
P.s. To add on to this all, he's friends with my x-bf and my x-bf wants us all to hang out but whenever me and my x are together we're all like close and kinda act like we're goin out. because I love him still *he broke up with me because I kinda cut because of him* and he apologized for it and said it was a mistake. But it's kinda late now.. i dont knwow.... we're all gonna hang out when my bf comes back. But im afraid its gonna be weird. Please help me.
Sorry this is sooo effin' longg. (link)
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Looks to me like your better going out with your ex boyfriend .. ask your self .. who has a boyfriend that you only see 2-3 time ever!!? even though he is sweet and calls you, you still get annoyed by it .. being in a relationship means you see eachother and you love being together .. seems to me you have better luck with you ec boyfrind honey
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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP. (link)
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have you ever seen the series "made" on mtv? your question is the exact same one as a girl who got made into becoming a girly girl. Sense you dont want to change i think you should go up to you guy friends and ask them hey what do you like in a girl and stuff and if you hear something maybe you can do to maybe attract your self to boys you should do it .. try and get advice from the guys you hang out with and you should be fine
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