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Ok me and my boyfriend have bene dating 3 weeks and we hug intimately and stuff and I lvoe him..adn I get urges to kiss him..I really want to..but the teachers cant see...cause my parents will know..and only my mom knows about the guy and my dad is not clued in at all...and i really love him and i want to kiss him..but im also afraid..i mean im a very pessimistic, paranoid, frightened, depressed type person...i know he wants to kiss me..so what should we do (link)
Kiss him somewhere other than school so the teachers dont see you.. It's just a kiss, it's not like you are planning on having sex.. and just something you should hear but shouldnt take offense too, that you can't exactly LOVE someone after 3 weeks of going out, and you havent even kissed him. How old are you? 12, 13? But yeah just kiss him someone other than school...


Here is the thing, yesterday I took one of my friends to see her boyfriend and she wanted me to stay with her so i did. And her bf(we'll call him steve) had one of his friends over(we'll call him rick), well i was talking to rick for awhile and I think i am starting to like him but I have no way of talking to him except through steve which is also one of my friends but how can i get steve to ask rick if in anyway he would like me or how can i just be able to see him with out sounding desperate to steve? I was thinking something like a double date? HELP please anything will help!!! thanks alot (link)
A double date sounds like a perfect solution to this problem. After the date just talk to your friend about you liking "Rick" have your friend talk to steve and have her just be like "does rick like my friend because it kind of seemed like he did on the double date" It will most likely turn out that "steve" will talk to "rick" and then steve will tell your friend how rick feels then she can tell you.. It's an easier way to solve everything without making you look desperate or anything like that.. Good Luck




i've been going out with this boy for like 6 months now, but my friends want me to stop going out with him and they the ones who wanted me to go out with him in the first place.they say i'm spending to much time with him and i hardly get to see him.

I need advice (link)
Don't dump him because your friends tell him too. If your friends feel like you arent spending enough time with them, make sure you set time aside to be with your friends, but boyfriends are just as important, so make sure you have plenty of time to hang out with him too. Just make sure you have time for friends and boyfriends or things tend to mess up pretty easily. Good Luck





Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.

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Aww.. i still remember the first time i ever made out with a guy. I was sooo nervous and so scared i wouldnt know how to do it or what to do. I think 14 is a good time for a first kiss. Making out comes naturally, i know its hard to believe i never believe it when peopletoldme it. But your boyfriend will start it, and you just kinda follow. It's seriously not hard at all, dont think to hard and get too worked up about it before it happens, because i assure you everything will be absolutely positively fine. you'll get the hang of it right away. It's normal to be scared since you have never made out. But it's actually kinda fun once you start.. Hope i helped


Why do boyz always tickle their girlfriends???? I know it's stupid. But Idk (link)
It's just a way of flirting, and showing affection, it could be a way to make their girlfriends just laugh and smile. It's just a way to play around


well tomorrow is me n my bfs one year..well me and him have had some problems but we hve gotten thru all of them..the problem i hve is..all my guy friends tell me to brk up wit him and its soo annoyin bc i like him ALOT! and then all my girl friends r like yea tlkin bout him alot..but then everytime me and my bf hve broken up they all start flirtin with him!! it doesnt make since! what does this mean..is everyone jus jealous?
signed-confused (link)
It sounds to me that the girls are jealous of you because you and him are together.and it sounds like the guys are jealous of him because he has you.. Don't break up with him if you like him that much, and a year is a long time to be going out, dont ruin it over jealousy of your friends, they need to get over it :-p Good luck





ok i have to tell you the first part of the stroy...my best friend and her boyfriend hooked me up with his best friend Blake well me and Blake talked for awhile and he was suppose to ask me out on V-day well the saturday he went back to his ex...and we have no idea why...
well last night Steve called me again with another guy...which happens to live up the street from me and happens to be another best friend (there like a crue of 4guys) well i was like ok i'll give this one a shot...my best friend things he will be better than Blake was and that i should go for it...i'm kind of scared of getting screwed over again...but the other guy Steve and my best friend they all said that everything will be ok...
do you think i should believe them and give this guy a shot? (link)
Although some guys can be jerks, not all are. Even though they are friends, they are probably not exactly alike, i think you should give him a shot. You never know unless you try.. Good Luck with it though :-) I hope everything works out for you






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