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heyy i'm brittany. i'm 13 years old and going into the 8th grade. i live in southern indiana, close to louisville,kentucky. i don't have a boyfriend.. but i've been in many bad relationships. i used to cut myself, i was suicidal, so i can help you with that. i do competitvie cheerleading, club volleyball, and golf. if you need fast advice just I.M. me at sixmilestogox or oxobroxo (both AIM). i'm normally online everyday. i guess that's all

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Okay, my best friend in the whole wide world is moving. And I have no idea what to say to him. He's only going like 30 minutes away, but he's my best friend! And I don't know how to deal with this anymore. I'll miss him to much. How can I get over this?

that bites. just think that it's not the end. you all can try go get together every weekend or so if you all both drive like 15 minutes. yeah i know how you feel, 30 minutes just seems so far away. but just pretend like its not the end and everything will still be the same. best wishes.

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I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do?

yeah that situation sucks. my sister went to college last year in California, and i'm in Indiana, and so is her boyfriend. i would take the shot to go to Philly and play basketball because that's what you want to do and that's what you love. if you guys love each other as much as you say you do, then nothing should happen. you can just learn to trust her. you all could call each other everyday, you can bring her up every other weekend, and so on. it'll work. trust her, she'll make it work. things won't change. if you see that things start to change, you might want to talk to her about it. well idk if that helped.. but good luck!

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Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing.

i was in the same situation not to long ago. the "silence" should not affect you all. it may seem a little akward talking to her once you all do get to talk a little bit. but if you like her as much as you say you do, and she likes you as much as she says she does, it won't affect you.

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