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Hey guys. my names ashley and im from new jersey. my friends are my life ♥ i think i give really good advice because ive been through i lot of things and i can relate to most people. so if you have any concerns or questions. make sure you ask! i hope i can help!
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ok so i have this guy friend and i sort of like him and he used to like me, only a few weeks ago, and i think my friends scared him away because they said i was a fake bitch around guys (and i dont' think i am but obiviously some of my friends do) and i dont' think he likes me anymore :(....its just that i don't want a boyfriend RIGHT NOW, is my chance over or should i just play it cool for now?
i would just play it cool for now and see what happens. maybe you won't end up going out, but you can still be friends. you didnt "scare" him away, maybe your friends were just bothering him. talk to him about it and see if he likes you still.. and maybe sparks will fly and you'll end up going out. but i would play it cool. theres always a chance. right? ♥ ashley
Well, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were in love and we still like eachother ALOT but he has another girlfriend and i like this guy (Adam) but i feel like i am cheating on Ryan(my ex) because i like Adam but i still spend alot of time with Ryan and hang out with him and we act like we're going out but he has a girlfriend i like this guy named Adam but i dont know i feel like i am cheating on Ryan what should i do even though we're not going out!! I rate high!
If you guys arent going out, but you like eachother, then why did u two break up in the first place? i would talk to this guy adam, cause ryan has another girlfriend! he got over you, and is dating another girl, so you should be able to date another guy. You are not cheating on him, dont worry. hope i helped.
ok, i'm not going out with this guy....but i know he likes me and i think i like him, and people keep pushing us too hook up, and i would and i know he would....but is that slutish that we would and we're not going out?
if you both like eachother, it doesnt matter. i have plenty of friends who are not going out and have hooked up. its so fine.. its not slutty or whatever, its what you choose to do, and your friends should be fine with that. anyway, theyre the ones who are pushing you to hook-up! ♥ ashley
ok, so there is a guy that i no, (im a girl by the way) and he likes me, and i really like him too. and i gave him a note that said that i liked him and gave it to him and he replied with a note asking me out, and so i gave him another note that said i dont now becuz i mean i really like him a lot, but hes a really GOOD friend of mine and i dont want to ruin it by dating him
nd everyday i like him more and more and we talk on the fone forever and hang at school and stuff and hes so funny and hes way shprter than e, but i dont even care cuz hes so sweet and funny....
and so my question is
what should i do???
i know what your going through.. i would go out with him because you obviously like eachother. but make sure that you both are clear, that no matter what happens, you will still be friends and that your friendship will reamin the same. OR, you can just be friends.. (hang out, movies, phone) all the same stuff boyfriend and girlfriends do, except no strings attached. you can still see other people. thats basicaly the only difference between you too. hope i helped.. and good luck. i hate when that happens to me =]
♥ ashley
hey. my bf intimidates me cus hes a sk8r nd i love sk8r boys and hes in a grade up then me and there are these 2 girls that hate us going out cus he dumped thier friend (his ex) for me. what should i do???
--kimberly ♥--
i think you should talk to those 2 girls and say he dumped you, not me-- dont take your anger out on me, becuase it was not my fault. i dont want to fight with you. and if your boyfriend intimidates you, then why are you going out with him! i would speak to your boyfriend and tell him about the girls, and ask him to be nice to them and whatever so your all on good terms. --ashley ♥
heyyy....
i like someone, but i know he likes someone else. i told him i liked him, but now what?
keep talking to him and try to be flirty and nice and stuff, dont change who you are, just talk to him and become his friend. being there friend is always better than not being friends at all. you cant change who someone likes- but you can become better friends and get closer. ♥ ashley
Ashley.. Well I like this guy but hes like not friends with my friend and he like talks to me in some places but not in others usally in only one place but in other places he ignores me.Like I need help now.
it doesnt matter who hes friends with- personality/ not popularity. if he only talks to you in some places, and not others. maybe hes uncomfortable talking to you infront of poeple, but he likes talking to you alone. i dont really know what your asking me. but i would suggest talking to him more, and if he ignores you, then ask him why he talks to you in one place, but not the other. hope i helped
♥ ashley
ok so me and my bf have been going out for like 4 months now.. but his exgirlfriend has still liked him the whole time.. she still flirts with him and he doesn't do anything to stop her, i don't even think he notices that she does it. i've tried talking to her but she just denies everything.. help!
instead of talking to his ex-girlfriend. try talking to him! say to him- your my boyfriend and i feel really uncomftorable when _______ flirts with you. then hell be like "i dont like her, i like you" then you know he likes you. You dont need to worry about it. they broke up .. remember? i think your overreacting. i dont think anything is wrong. dont worry. ♥ ashley
So we went out with people and the guy that i like was going too. Me and my freind showed up eairly than the other girls and the guy i likelove was there too, so we were hanging out n stuff and he was being sooo cute to me. Then he saw that the other girl showed up and completly left me, and he liked her the whole time he led me on. and now im like dying and its sooo hard. Any ideas to get over it.
you can get over it by hanging out with your friends more often. friends make everything better! dont hang out with him anymore. and keep reminding yourself what an asshole he is. go out with friends-- movies, shopping, hanging out at eachothers houses. they will make you feel more secure. rely on friends =] ♥ ashley
Ok here is the thing I have a boyfriend and he is really sweet and all but i like his best friend 2 and like i think i am loseing interest in my boyfriend right now anyway like once he (my boyfrind ) told me he would regret this one thing in life if he did not do it and that was kiss me but now i don't realy want to kiss him i want to stay frineds with him and we made like pack to always stay friends (fwy i am 14 ) and like i just don't want to brake his hart and like me and his best friend are also best friends so i don't want to mess up our friend ship because one of my best friends whent out with him and now they are X's but they are haveing a hard time makeing the friend ship work.any who like i don't know what to do i do more stuff with my boyfriends best friend then i do with my boyfriend and he doesn't even care like i have been out to lunch with him and his parents after going to the mall and been to the moves with him and friends 2 times and i have not done anything with my boyfriend out side ofschool and it will be 3 months the end of this month that we have been going out . what do i do please give me advice thank you
wow, thats long. i think you should probably break up with your boyfriend at the time, because if you dont like him, its rude to him, thats kinda going out with him when you dont like him. my byfriend did that to me, and i broke up with him right away. i dont think you should go out with his best friend, because that will ruin your friendship with your boyfriend now. he will be mad that you broke up with him, to go out with his bestfriend. go with your gut. i personally wouldnt go out with either of them. hopefully i was to some assistance. ♥ ashley
okay so there is this guy..and i really like him but he flirts with like EVERY GIRL in my grade! like he will put his arm around me but then go and put his arm around some1 else! he is rarley serious.. but a few weeks ago he told me he liked me.. then my friend talked to him and he said that he did like me to her..but then the next day he said he was.."trying to get over me.." okay so now there is this other girl that i have hated for a LONG time because she is like more slutty then anyone in the world..and she always puts her arm around him and he does it back. i` m really confused and i want him to like me..but how do i be more flirty..should i?
PLEASE respond back!!
if he flirts with every girl. maybe he can not be commited to anyone, and maybe he really did like you, but he didnt want a "relationship" but dont change yourself for him, maybe put your arm around him sometimes to show you care. and maybe ilke him. tell me how it goes --ashley
Ok so i really like this guy, i was so excited because his best friend found out and he has a big mouth so i was pretty sure he was gonna tell him and he might ask me out. But now i dont even know if his best friend told him and if he has he hasnt said or dont anything about it. I dont know what else to do, but i still like him alot. what sucks even more if i think he likes my best friend. isnt she lucky, all the guys like her because she is really pretty. i think i am pretty but i dunno. what should i do??
become closer friends with the guy's best friend. then ask him to tell ur crush that you like him and make sure he does it, all guys dont go for pretty girls, and you should have self confidence to know ur pretty, and thats not y guys dont go out with you. once he knows, become closer with him.. then ask him if he likes you. hope i helped. good luck! ♥ ashley
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Okay I asked a question like two days ago about how to get some one make a move. The advice I recived was that I had to make the first move. So I've been thinking about this and how can I do this without looking like an idoit? And is it even okay for girls to make the first move? Do guys perfer when they do it? eh I'm hopless.
boys are expected to make the first move, but if they dont.. its fine for a girl to too. it makes them seem brave and guys like that. it takes the pressure off of them. you wont look like an idiot. if your in the movies, house, dinner etc, just lean over and do whatever your heart tells you to do. it is not a big of a deal- itll probably make your relationship stronger! hope i helped.
♥ ashley
ok well tonight I went to this party type thing not a big one but big enough...well there was this guy there and we started talking and he was helping me play pool and stuff and i dont know i thought we clicked...and i sorta started to like him but the problem is hes 19 and im 14 is that bad? Should I just stop before I get myself into trouble? Thanks
i recommend you stop dating him;; your a minor and hes an adult, if you both get into trouble- hes responsible, and if you like him- youll feel guilty. its your choice..if you really like him, go with your gut, but you guys can get into trouble. and thats bad. stop while your ahead. ♥ ashley
Ok, well I kinda like this kid Anthony at my school..but i don't really know him ..well liek we're not friends..but he's becoming friends with my friends. The other day when I wans't at school he was asking about me...and now my friend is trying to hook us up. She talked to him and he said, "i want to get to know her, before i ask her out." Well alot of ppl have gone up to him telling him I like him..when I told them to stay out of it...so i was thinkin what I would say is: Hey I know you've been hearin that I like you..but i dont really
i think that you should probably get to know eachother better. once you get to know him, become friends with him, and talk to him about what everyone is saying. if you do like him and you feel he likes you too and your ready, then i suggest go for it! but if he wants to become friends with you. then become friends with him if you want to go out with him. hope i helped.
ashley ♥
when is it ok to kiss your girlfriend? like, what times/how long you've been dating/age?
thnx in advance
whenever you two are both ready, if you are not ready, or she is not ready, then i recommend you do not kiss yet. when you are both ready, then it should be okay to kiss your girlfriend. hope i helped.
ashleyy