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I’m very confused about this guy in my math class. I’m seriously not sure whether he likes me or hates me. My mom
He never talks to me unless I talk to him (which is not very often) and whenever I do talk to him, he never looks at me. I sit next to him in math class, and whenever I’m around him, there is always some kind of awkward tension. Generally, though, he seems to avoid me like the plague. But today, when it was time to start doing classwork, I got out my notebook from my backpack, and he tore me out a sheet of binder paper without me asking him.
Oddly, he’s usually very friendly and open around other kids, except for me. My mom told me that when guys like girls, sometimes they behave the exact opposite. Is this true? Does it sound like this is the case in this situation?
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yeah he definitely likes you, guys are nearly always shy around girls they like.
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Okay so I'm 15 and a girl and I've never had a boyfriend. I mean I don't think I'm very pretty but I'm not hideously ugly or anything. Guys like me and I've gotten asked out every now and then but it's never the guy I want or could potentially like. I guess it's cause I always fall for guys who are out of my league or whatever but how can I get more attention from guys? Especially guys I like? (link)
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I can relate to your situation, as i have never had a girlfriend (or boyfriend). I would suggest patience, as 15 is one of the most hormone driven periods in our lives, and outside pressures don't help it at all.
Your normal, dont worry about it
if you want guys, then just be more open to them, and try to talk them without a group of friends around you, its intimidating to most guy.
thats about all the advice i can give you, i hope it helps some.
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15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?
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Firstly, i have to laugh at myself, because im in the same situation as B, secondly, i would go with A or C, because with B hes going to always like that other girl until someone else comes along that he likes more, and D is probably not as great as you anticipate him to be.
Yeah its wrong to hookup with more than one of them.
(im editing since i wanted to respond to your feedback)
If B is anything like myself, then he may actually be a good choice. Considering he did what he did.
Ha, i wish i could help more but i don't really know the guys, or you so yeah.
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