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15/f & 16/m (both are 16)
***THIS IS LONG!!***
I was dating this one guy named *Dustin* for about 1 year and a half. We both had sex and we were each other's first.
Well that was about 2 years ago. After we broke up, we decided to stay really good friends. But now i've been dating this one guy named *Brandon* for about 8 months. Everything is perfect, but it seems like *Dustin* is jealous. But he hasn't exactly told me. You can just tell though. And he still is ever since I started dating.
*Brandon* invited me to a family trip hes taking. And we were planning on having sex there. Somehow the word got out & *Dustin* found out and was crushed. He got soo mad at me and soo jealous! He was practically calling me a slut and a whore. I was soo sad that he said that. And of course Brandon knew what Dustin said that so he came over the same day and he was just there for me saying how it was okay and how he loved me and stuff. Brandon of course knew about me and Dustin's relationship. And I can just tell that he thought we should belong together(me and Dustin). But i made sure that Brandon knew i loved being with him.
The next day Dustin CAME OVER my house IN THE RAIN riding his retarded little bike and knocked on my door. He was saying how he was soo sorry for saying that and it just made me cry seeing him so hurt! Then *Dustin* grabbed me and started kissing me. Now remember, i was still with *Brandon*. I NEVER TOLD ANYONE WHAT HAPPENED! I didn't want anyone to find out and having it eventually getting to Brandon. So we are still going on the family trip. =\. And still planning on having sex. Dustin thought it was going to change something(the kiss), but it really hasn't. I mean, i just couldn't tell Brandon what happened because i knew it would crush him! They both are really great guys. But when i was dating Dustin, he cheated on me & that really hurted me since i put soo much trust in him. Brandon NEVER did anything to question our relationship. But Dustin just made me feel really better about myself & stuff. He always did cute little things for me.
*Problem*- The family trip is tomorrow & i just need to decide. Should i stay here with Dustin & break it off with Brandon? Or should i go with Brandon to the family trip and end up having sex?...Ah its totally freaking me out! I have the choice if we want to have sex at the trip.Brandon will totally understand since hes caring/nice like that.
I have no idea what to do! Brandon's family really likes me too and it would crush them if i broke up with Brandon. Nobody really accepted Dustin, but he's just so perfect for me. But so is Brandon. What do you guys think? Please help me. I feel soo stuck and confused! =( Thank you so much. (link)
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If you can't decide...FORGET ABOUT IT! You don't want to end up with the wrong guy!
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So there's this guy and I like him alott.. like more than any guy I have ever liked and I've liked him for the past like 2 months. He knows that and he liked me for a little while and we went out but then he dumped me after a week. I try to tell myself to get over him but I just can't. What do I do ? HELLPPPPP ! (link)
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Trying talking to him...not about the break-up, but just about life...as him how his day went. Try to become friends with him. I know it dosent seem like much, but it should work. I hope that helps. Ask more if you need more!
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Ok I have a boyfriend and everything and I am afraid that he will want to kiss me. I don't have a problem with that. Its just my mom. She is VERY protective and if he does kiss me I am afraid that someone will tell her and she will get really mad. So What can I do. I have already talked to her and she said I am too young. :(
13/f No Smartasses either! (link)
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My mom's the same way! I hate it, but what I do when I have the same situation, Talk To him!! Just tell him your story. If he breaks up with you, then he was never worth it!
~Good Luck
~Rachel
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what is the difference between being a couple and just dating? (link)
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A Couple: A relationship thats more than friends, but not Too serious...More like a Cute movie date type thing.
Dating: A relationship that serious...Like a Hot dinner, Then back To there House.
~Some people think its viseversa...but it depends of your perspective
~rach
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okay there is this guy, my friend was like "would you ever go out with her?" (link)
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Talk to him, Become his friend...Help him with homework...Treat him like your favorite brother...Then maybe he'll come around!
~Good Luck
~Rach
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I just moved from New Jersey to New Mexico.
I met a really cool kid named Matthew here, and I think that we are close to dating, because we really like each other. The problem is should I tell my ex boyfriend [we're SO close, and we've been best friends for like 7 years, the reason we broke up is because I moved] that I found someone new? & how should I tell him.
Thanks. =P (link)
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well tell him it is complicated for you to c him anymore since you moved and you found another guy that is well you noright there
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rach
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ok i really like this guy like ....like love. and my friend like loves him too! and i want to ask him out but i am soo shy and i am afraid he'll say no. what should i do?
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Just be youself! Plus the worst thing he can say is no..Right? Trust me...I've been turned down to MANY of guys...But the main thing is...If he says yes, and you start not liking him, Dump Him! One time I went out with my friends brother, and I hadn't really ever liked him...I was just being nice. It ended up lasting a year!
Ask him out, Be yourself! Good Luck!
~Rach
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