okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
um.. ok if you asked me i think hes just using you and im not trying to be mean im just say what i think because you liked him so long and all of a sudden he likes you and wants to have sex! i dont think you should do it with him but its up to you.
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last month i went to my boyfriend's house to watch a movie for the very first time,. so when his sisters and brothers went to bed ,. we were on the couch laying together alone. we though his parents went to bed so we started making out* haha we were really into and we didnt even notice his mom come up behind us and turn on a light!! i was so embrassed. i mean i just met her and i already have a bad impression. he asked where hes sons hands were,. haha - i bet that was embrassing for him.. =/ but yea,. and everytime i ask him " where should we get together" hes always like,. um.. how bout u go to (joe's) or one of his friends house that he myte be going that weekend. s0o,. idk becuz i think his mom or dad would ever let me go to his house again,. she was upset n mad after i left as he told me.. what should i do? i mean i dont want to get a bad impression in front of his friends mom! or anywhere else,. i mean i always have to invite him to my house and we have nothing to do here,.=/
please help x0x i'll rate!
wow lol that must of been embrassing for the both of you! well you talk to his mom and say your sory and that you never wanted to make a first bad impression with her and that you hope what happened isnt going to make her not like you and say that your sorry and you just got caught up in the moment and youll make sure it never happends agian! and if that doesnt work then just go to one of his friends house and have them keep a look out and make sure no one comes in the room!
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ok when i get really upset about something or if i just had a big fight with my mom i cut my self and i know this is stupid but to me its the only way to get rid of the thoughs of what happened and i just want to know if you can help me or give me a soultion to my problem...please
well i know what your going threw because i cut myself too when things get too hard or i just cant take it anymore. but i found a way of dealing with my problems without cutting. my solution was reading. when ever i get the urge to cut i read a book. you should pick something that you like to do in case you get into another fight with your mom or something else. and i hope that works for you like it worked for me. if you need anymore advice just write me because ill be more than happy to answer your questions! and i hope my advice works!
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Alright my boyfriend and i went to see a movie at the theaters before he left for flordia. the movies was packed!! and i wanted to sit in the beakc but there was no more seats,. during the movie i could tell he wanted to make out with me because he kept looking and getting closer to me,.. Its really ahrd to turn side ways on these movie seats!! So yea we Finally did make out,. dude we were in teh middle of the theater,. and i really didnt wanna do it,. but yea,. Omg it was soo embrassing becuz when we were done all these hot guys in the eback screamed get a room and stuff,.. o geez i dont kno how to tell my guy taht i ahte doing that in public but really tahts the only time we have to do it becuz we never go over to each houses,. cuz our mom sdont "approve" lol. he did it everywhere with me ,.. PARTIES.. the BAND dance and ME getting in trouble! ,. and he told my friend he wanted to take the next step with me..besides we have eben going out 2 years and all we did was make out~ =/ oo what should i do?
ok um.. let me think, you dont like makin out in public because of what people say? or because your embrassed? well if you like him alot you shouldnt care what people say and you should be embrassed! your boyfriends not embrassed is he? well you could tell him that you rather make out with your alone because you dont like people staring at you and if thats ok with him. thats pretty much all the advice i can give to you... sry i dont know what else to tell you. but i hope things work out! good luck!
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do?
well if i were you i would move on! because if he tells you that he likes you and then all of a sudden he likes your best friend! thats not someone i would wanna be in a realtion ship with. so if your choice but if i were you i would move on and forget about him! there are plenty of other guys out there!
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OK, well me and this guy dated for about 4 months and I broke ^ with him cas I never really liked him. but then the next year I liked him so we went back out and we lasted almost 4 months and we really liked each other and I could always talk to him but he just dumped me out of the blue for some older gerl! I was crushed and I still liked him. Then he liked me again but I couldnt go back out with him because of what he did. Now I get mixed feelings about him every so often. Should I be getting these? Help me! Im so confused!!!
yes it normal to have thoses feelings. you went out with him for a good four mounths almost and i know it hurts to be dumped for another girl and what he did was bad, you have to ask yourself.. is he worth the pain? would you risk getting hurt for one more chance? since you are having feelings for him agian my advice is to talk to him and maybe hes changed, whoo knows. maybe youll have another great four months together and maybe not but thats a chance youll have to take.
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hey..there is this guy who loves me soo much, he asked me out and i said yes..then lata that night my friend IMs me and tells me that he is cheatin on me wit about 5 otha girls. i got so mad (but didnt brake up wit him) me and my friend talked about it for a while. then she says that she isnt really sure if he is! he says that he isnt..but who should i believe? what should i do?
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lovein him =/
hey i think that you should go out with him untill you find some proof that he really is cheating on you, since your friend isnt sure if he is. i really dont know what else to tell you only that if he is cheating on you i would hope he can be a real man and tell you that he is instead of lieing and if he comes clean i think you should stay with him but if he lies and you find out its true then dump him. theres plenty of guys out there that wont cheat on you
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Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx!
ok let me think... your *hanging out* with this guy and you do things with him but your not going out. and your ex boyfriend and you did some things too and since your not going out with the guy you hang out with then its not cheating. if the guy and you were going out then it would be and if you wanna tell him that you did stuff with your ex boyfriend thats your buisness.
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...???????
well im realy not sure what to tell you lol. im kinda confused why you broke up with him and what his best friend had to do with it but i think you should tell him that your sorry and that you want another chance and if he saids no, well your only 14 youll have plenty of time to meet other guys! i know it may seem like the end of the world but things will get better. time heals wounds
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hey! well i`m 13 and i went campin a few weeks ago with my brother and a bunch of other peopl i usually go camping with there all close friends and alot of times we meet alot of kids well this one time we were playin manhunt and we met a kid who just turn 15 and i thought he was cute from the start sorta like love at first site ! well afta that night all i could think about was him we would look at each other alot and talk !! the next night we were suppose to play that game again but we couldn't so we all just went ova to his fire and hung!there were no more chairs for me by the fire so he pulled up a chair for me right next to him and i helped him make a a s`more and then we left and he gave me his s/n the next day we left the campground and i have been talkin to him on line and on the phone alot he said i was hot and we flirt alot but the probablem is age he 15 and i`m 13 and he lives a hour and 15 mins. away what should i do ? can u help ? x0ox
well my advice to you is if you really like him and if he likes you then age and distance shouldnt matter. he could be the love of your life, you cant just not be with him because of a age difference and where you live. and if it doesnt work out then since you dont live near eachother atleast you wont have to see him!
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Friday night me and this kid finally met, he was such a sweetie i instantly fell in love with him. We were hugging eachother holding hands and we even kissed once!...I was so so so SO happy because he treated me like i deserved to be treated...Well we all went home and I couldn't talk to him that night or anything because I was in trouble for being out so late, but the next day I started talking to him, and he was acting so weird!...Like he says "...You know i cant talk to you whenever you want me to!" and I know thats not mean but if felt so painful because of how much i liked him!...So today we talked again and he was being so sweet, balling me baby, but then hes like "its as simple as this...I dont wanna date you" I was crushed and broke out into tears!! and i really cant get my mind off of him..The reason im so crushed is because Friday night he told me he really liked me...but now hes saying all this stuff and now saying he has a girlfriend...my heart is so broken, and i cant stop thinking about him...what should I do?help!!=( xoxo // Lyss (I'm 13 and a girl)
aww lyss im soo sorry! but boys wil be boys. im sorry for you pain and i know how you feel on some level. im a 13 year old girl too so i know what its like being that age. hes a butt head! and i know its hard but you gotta forget him and find someone knew! i know you can do it! good luck!
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i just dumped my bf i totally regret it he is hurt he just doesnt wanna go bak out cuz his friend told him not to and idk i need help
well if your boyfriend cares alot about you still then he shouldnt listen to his friend and go back out with you. tell him you made a mistake and you really like him and if he really likes you then he wont listen to his friend.
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should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ?
i think you should tell the one you love how you feel because maybe they feel the same way about you and if they dont then youll know you have to move on and fall in love with someone else.
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