Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!!
Personally, I'd go with the boyfriends friend.. He seems a lot better in my books. I mean come on all girls like the attention and that special someone caring.. And besides how can you trust your boyfriend now? He cheated on you what a sack of shit! But yeah Hopefully you'll take my advice or just do something about it. Good luck!
Cyaz,
Shann:)
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My Boyfriend who is 16 and going in to 11th grade and me (14 and going to be a freshman) have been dating for about 2 or 3 weeks. a couple days ago he told me that hes used to making out with pretty much all his friends. and since he doesnt see me everyday he misses making out with them. and he asked me if he could make out with them and still date me at the same time. and I said no because I wasnt going to be his piece of ass. so I broke it off. but I miss him terribly, and he asked me to take him back. but I know i shouldnt. but deep down I really want to be with him. what should I do?
I think.. if you don't see what you just said sounds so fricken stupid... You need help! Sorry hun the truth hurts.. Your right you shouldn't be his peice of ass! If he really liked you and really wanted you he wouldn't even ask you if he can *cheat* on you.. That's messed up. Personally, I wouldn't take him back because then if you still say no he can't he will do it anyways and when you hear about it it's going to hurt you.. I'd just get over him and find someone better.. I don't know you that well but I know you deserve better no girl should be treated like that unless shes a tramp! Alright hope I helped.. Sorry if I didn't.
Cyaz,
Shann :)
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Alright me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and we've been spending everyday together for the past 15 days. We never fought but lately we started to have little arguements and lately i've been getting worked up about stuff he says or does when we are together or on the phone after we just got done spending time together. Like i called his house on my work break when he told me too and he wasn't there and somebody picked up and said No he's at my house i'll have him call you later. Of course I started to freak and had to go to the bathroom on my break and cry because I thought damn what if he is cheating on me. Is the reason why I over react and am starting to have little arguements with him because we are spending to much time together?
I wouldn't really know I doubt he's cheating on you maybe it was one of his mom's friends.. But I don't know the whole story< But see my boyfriend and I rarely spend time together but that's because we live like 40 minutes away from each other. But we see each other almost every week ha, ha long story but yeah me and him fight all the time and we barely see each other< But that's just us everybody fights in relationships just sit him down and talk to him.. Ask him questions like do you think we are spending too much time together and if he says yes then try and slow it down.. That's all the advice I can tell you now! But yeah sorry if I didn't help..
Cyaz,
Shann :)
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okay..
there is this guy and ive known him for 2yrs and we've always been close as freinds like i can help him with problems and vice versa but we always flirt and i think he likes me hes been droping signals and i think i like him to. schools out and i dont see him as much but when we talk or hang out we flirt im goin to a party next week i think he'll be there--could u tell em somthings i could do to really send the message
Be all over him.. That's what I do to send messages to a guy that I like. And if another chick is talking to the guy just be there standing right beside him and looking at her like bitch who you think you are. Always works for me hah. Then maybe you should tell him how ya feel and yeah..
Cyaz,
Shann
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This guy I know and I have had a really weird relationship...
When he met me, he told me I was fit and was flirting with me for a few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend and forgot that I existed.
The day that he split up with his girlfriend,he came and was talking to me...but I just got a boyfriend so I didn't exist again.
Then, a while after I became single again, his friend asked me out. I said yes, but during the VERY short "relationship", this guy paid more attention to me than my boyfriend did. Got dumped by said boyfriend...
Then this guy started flirting like hell with me again. I got off with him once (drunk), and now I don't exist again.
What is WITH this guy?
Uh did you ever think he's a loser and not good enough for you? Haha I'm sorry but he sounds like a dumbass.. I'd just leave him alone
Cyaz,
Shann
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What the hell is a break...I am a 16 year old female and my boyfriend(or w/e hes called at the moment is 18) and he said that i hurt him (inside on this is that...we were talking and he said i dont trust him but i really do trust him i just made a joke after he said it saying i didnt), and that he really wants things to work, but we are going to go on a break for this week and then talk and see where we stand as a couple and what we want to do about the realtionship. Im really hurting, i cry all the time, and i want to stop...what should i do to stop the pain? What is a break? and how can i save the realtionship?? GUYS HELP PLEASE
A break is a lame excuse to say I think I can find better that guys always use to get out of a relationship the easy way.. To stop the pain is getting the truth out of him.. if he'll give it to you. But yeah if you actually want to save the relationship then just listen to what *he's* got to say.
Cyaz,
Shann
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ok well my b/f was sapose to come over to my house on fridy and he seemed like he really wanted to come like when i was on the phone with him he was looking up my house on map quest and he was telling my friends that he couldn't wait to come to my house but he also told my best friends thta he was scared..in the hallway i was like when r u comeing over and he go well my parents are goign to my grandpas birthday soo their gonna drop me off then and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party b/c of me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year and ive been waiting all week to come to your house then later he called me and told me that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party so i was like ok and hes liek i really wanted to hang out with you though and was like i promise well do it over break so i was like ok well its his grandpas party...later that night i even drove by his house and there was no lights on but today someone told me that they saw him at a laxcrosse game on the same night..this really doesn't sound like something he would like im soo surprised that he did it b/c we have been going out for a whille and he acts liek he really likes me i dont know what to do please help me!!!1
Personally, I think you are over reacting. Your friend was either probably lying or actually telling the truth. But its up to *You* to believer her. I mean come on if he told almost all his friends or however many he told that he was really excited to come over most likely he wouldn't ditch you like that. Just trust him and if he does this again then yeah maybe you should believe your friend when she says those types of things. Hope I helped you can ask me for more advice if you want. Good Luck :)
Shann
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Ok, me and my boyfriend were dating for 6 months but then he broke up with me for his best friend. And about 2 months ago he broke up with her to go back out with me because he said he missed me and really wanted to be with me. And we were doing great @ the beginning. i was so happy to be back with him but now all we ever do is fight. I mean we argue and fight over the stupidest stuff. Do you think we need a break or what else do you think we should do to overcome all this and get back to being happy like we use to be? Plz help me
well see the same thing happened with me and my ex.. well half ex whatever you wanna call it! but yeah we took a break becuase we kept fighting and fighting no matter what our whole relationship before was based on whos gonna start the fight this time! there was only rarely good times we had talking but yeah just 1 outta 100... of course at first when we started the break we were like what the hell do you want when we IMed each other online or even talked to each other over the fone but then we just grew outta it and we are fine now meaning we are acting like nothing happened.. but honestly i dont know how it will work out for you and your guy. personally i think the break will do ya good but thats just my opinion!
hope i helped
Shann
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OK!! me n this guy went out for 2.5 years n we juss started tlkin 1.5 yrs later now we go to the same skewl... i like him a lot still but im not sure if he likes me alot!! wut should i do plz help me??
i think you should tell him how ya feel.. you will never know if he does or not until you do something about it! but yeah if you show your true feelings towards him and get rejected dont worry theres more guys most likely like him in the world lol and if you fall for that kinda guy then you will possibly fall for one just like him and maybe a guy even better ya know?
well hope i helped! ask me for some more advice if you want :)
Shann
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sry to ask this but... all my friends tlk bout doin shit n wut not with there friends!! i dunt no wut they are tlkin bout!! ... wut is a bolw job hand job rim job and head how do u do it n wut not?
Oh geehs. well my suggestion is if you don't know what it is don't do it.. until you do know so yeah! But anyways gotta answer anyways but ok a hand job is when you jack off a guy for him, a blow job is where you suck on his dick, and head is the same thing as sucking it yeah pretty nasty huh but yeah i dont know what the hell a rim job is lol so yeah you got me on that one.. hopefully i helped out atleast a lil cyaz! Ask me for me if you wanna :)
Shann
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Ok, there is this girl in my school she sits next to me in all my classes except pe and music. i really like her but im not sure if she likes me. I have talked to her before and she is really nice to me. she says hi and stuff somtimes and i say hi back. she thinks im funny, we go to the same orthadontist and i seen her there before and we were talking. sometimes she flirts with me sometimes i flirt with her but the thing is everybody knows she is obsesed with this other guy nate but since nate is already going out with someone i was wonder if i should maybe ask her out? please help!
Hey well yeah I think you should ask her out totally. Say what you feel and mean what you say.. If that didn't make sense sorry haha. But yeah just give it a shot and ask her the question. Hope I Helped! Good Luck :). Cyaz. Ask me for more advice and I will surely give you all the advice I can.
Shann
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ok theres this guy josh and he follows me everywhere, its so annoying, he loves me and wont leave my side for even a second in seems like, but i dont like him at all. it seems like he stalks me, he carrys my book and kisses me on the cheek all the time. he's nice but i dont like him. Help!
Tell him what you have to tell him. Even if you have to be rude just tell him what's the problem with him *Always* being by your side. Tell him how you feel about it all! It will be all ok. Good Luck! With your lil stalker friend lol. Hope I Helped! If you need more advice I'm here.
Shann
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well, there was this girl i was going out with, and we recently broke up and i miss her alot! but now shes going out with another guy, and she just likes me "as a rli rli good friend" wat do i do, please, i miss this girl so bad!!!
You gotta* tell her straight to her face. Not on the fone* and not online. Just straight up and confront her to her face and look her in the eyes and say what you feel for her.. and tell her that you miss her and you want her back. She may just come and think about it later on and sooner or later you will have her again. I mean come on the worst that will happen is if she denies you and later on you find someone you like more than her! Just think about that. Just tell her how ya feel, say what you gotta* say. Good Luck! :) If you need more advice I'm here. Hope I helped!
Shann
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ok this may be long.
theres the boy hes in 12th grade. Im in 10th and i knew him since 9th grade. well this year he found out that i kind of liked him. and he didnt stop talking to me or acting different. untill he knew for sure i liked him. and now that ive had people go up to him and see if he has a girlfriend and stuff, when he sees me he smiles so big. and he used to hide it and now he lets it show. he always talks to me and messes with me and when i dont say hi to him he askes me why and stuff and he thinks sometimes im mad at him and when i tell him im not he goes oh good because i wouldn't want you mad at me. and he talks to me no matter whose around. and it doesnt matter who hes talking to he'll always say hi to me or something. with a smile. and i jus want to know if he likes me or what? and i had my friend that ask if he had a girlfriend and he said no then she asked him "well do u like amanda? would u ever go with her?" she said he just got the biggest smile on his face. he didnt say nothing but just smiled really big. would you people say he likes me? and what should i do?
thanks.
Hell yeah he likes you. *lol* its pretty obvious don't ya think. Becuase he always talk to you. and *messes* with!! I mean come on when you probably bring up your name around him he would smile lol. So yeah I personally do think he likes ya. Just ask him about it and say what you really FEEL for him.. Good Luck! Hope I helped. Ask me for more advice if you want.
Shann
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I like this guy and i thought he liked he but yester day he called me and he said'' I need advice, i like this girl and i think she likes me ... but do you think i should ask her out?'' well i thought he was talking about me, but then i found out it was this other girl. i dont know if he acutually likes her or not because she is not his type at all. Should I just let it go or should i say something?
Well, express your feelings to him.. Also tell him what you feel for him! Make it come straight from the heart. But you never know. The future brings what it brings you can't stop it unless you change something now. So just tell him how you feel and just say something. Just don't but in if he doesn't want you to ok? Hope I Helped. If you need more advice ask me :)! Good Luck! (( Just tell him how ya feel and you will be alright ))
Shann
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What do guys look for in girls? Does it matter what size you are, or if you where glasses. Do guys like freckles at all?
Well, guys around age 10 up to 14 look for good sized boobs (lol), hott, will do anything for them (boyycrazi). But people 15 and up look for kind, pretty, and somewhat looks. But *Some* guys can be into glasses and freckles. And some guys just aren't into those things. All guys like different things about a girl. Just remember this... Don't change for anyone! Good Luck! :) Hope I Helped You Atleast A Lil*. If you need anymore advice just ask me :)! I will surely give you all the advice I can.
Shann
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At the beginning of the year some guy always would be around me, he would give me hugs, talk to me alot, tell me that he loved me, and he would always joke around. I thought he liked me and i would have a boyfriend soon after that. Well we got a new girl in our class, and now he does the same stuff with her, but they always have their heads close together and are whispering to each other. He asked her out and she said no because at this moment she is not allowed to have a boyfriend for certain reasons. Then she was absent for a day and he was over near me again and he asked me out, but i knew he was joking cause i know he would just go back to her when she came back the next day. Do you think he likes me or just uses me for his own amusment?
Well, Personally I think he is using you for his own amusement. Screw him hes a pig. Becuase he is all over you when the girl wasn't there then when the new girl came he was all over her. That *Bullshit* no affense. Just forget about him. Find someone else... he is not worth your time. Still be friends with him by all means. I just wouldn't go out with him becuase that's a kinda* guy you wouldn't be able to trust. *Ya know?* If you need more advice just ask me for more :)! Good Luck!! Hope I Helped!
Shann
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i'm not sure if a guy likes me he stares ,blushes at me.now he knows i like him but now we're starting to avoid being near or looking at each other.can u help me?
Well, sure I can help! But yeah guys are weird (lol) you should know that by now :). But yeah that means he just feels a little weird becuase he is in a weird position you know? Because he was just used to looking at you I guess. But now that he knows he is probably too shy to say what he really feels. Or no affense he just doesn't like you but I doubt that. Just hang in there... He will come around sooner or later.. Also try and start up a converstation with him and just start to talk to him more often too. Hope I Helped! Good Luck! :) Ask me for more advice.
Shann
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Okay, i'm 15 and have NEVER had a boyfriend, or my first kiss. It's depressing to me because i know that no guys will ever want to go out with me. I try to be a good person and i know i don't have many guy friends but that is because most of them are assholes or just don't like me. Could it be because i hang out with all different kinds of people, like people that arn't too popular or what? I really want a boyfriend but nothing seems to work. Thanks.
Well, I have a lot of guy friends. And I'm telling you that becuase you just need to be a lil* more out there. And yes I hang out with all different kinds of people and some of them are geeks, nerds, and popular. Just try and be more outgoing it doesn't matter who you hang out with really. But don't worry don't change the person you are for *Any* guy. Becuase that means they don't like you for you. Just hang in there and sooner or later you should get someone. I mean there's someone out there for everyone :)! Good Luck ! :) You will be fine don't worry. Your turn will soon come. If you need anymore advice just ask me for more :)! Hope I Helped!
Shann
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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it!
Well, me and my friends say.. If a guy is on top of you and you guys are like technically *Humping* its called dry humping. And no its not a bad things actually its pretty much a good thing because your not actually doing anything bad. Let me just say I went further so yeah it's not considered bad in my opinion. Hope I Helped Out! :) And answered some of your questions you had. If you want more advice just ask me and I will be able to give you more. :)
Shann
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