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Q: Laura, I know your good at giving advice but I really don't know if you can help with this one. See I am mature enough to have sex, but I just don't know if I'm mentally ready. I mean what if I'm not good enough. Or she's not pleased with my erection length. Should I take a Muff Dive off the deep end or should I go in slow for the kill. Thanks.
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Hey, ill answer your question after you answer mine...who are you and how old are u, do i know u...
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Q: I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?
15/f
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Hey there.
Before you go giving him a cd with a bunch of mushy songs on it...maybe you should try talking to him. afterall your words are just as strong as any of the artists. The cd might freak him out a bit, but if y'all are friends y'all have to talk all the time, so hey whats the difference...just try having a casual convorsation about the two of you...tell him you want to bring y'alls relationship to the next level...but b4 you say anything make sure you say that what your about to say should not effect y'alls friendship if he feels differently.
good luck & best wishes
always here, lc
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Q: My friend and I are really close. He's my best friend, and I'm really open with him. Sometimes we have really deep conversations, where I tell him anything I feel and he does the same too. We might even have conversations on the phone until 2 in the morning. My problems is that he's really confusing me. He won't make up is mind as to whether he likes me or not. Sometimes he'll hold me or give me those cute hugs from behind, and I really love when he does. We say "I love you" to each other as if it's a greeting. I think he's just leading me on because I asked him out before and he said that he liked me but he didn't want a girlfriend. Now, I don't know if I should ask him out again or what. I like him so much, and I think he likes me too. Should we go out because we're really close or will that mess up our friendship alot?
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Im in the same situation, but i think ive came to a conclusion...if you love being with him and you love most everything about him i think you might be ready to take things to the next level, i mean it truly may ruin your friendship but i doubt it will be a permanent end ...it's a risk you need to take ...who knows what might happen...if he makes you happy as a friend think of how happy he'll make you as even more...
always here, lc
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Q: i'm dating a guy who treats me like a princess, but when we're in the bedroom, he treats me like a prostitute. he spanks me(lightly), pulls my hair, and says things like "your're so, so dirty. someone needs a shower, she's so nasty." what's up with him.
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It's great that he treats you like a princess...you can't find many guys like that...but b4 you rush and break up w/ this guy because he talks dirty to u in bed...talk to him...tell him you dont want him to talk to you like your a whore when y'all are in bed...tell him not to talk at all if thats what he has to do...
always here, lc
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Q: ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE
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You should be straight up with your boyfriend...dont lie...the truth will get out sooner or later, trust me! Just tell Greg that while he was away you found another guy and the two of you just clicked, and you feel like you and this other guy connect on a much higher level than you and him (greg)
Tell Greg that you hate to do this, but you need to end the two of y'alls relationship...and your really sorry it happened this way but u think it was for the best.
You dont have to go into detail...just tell the truth...it easier than you think...
always here, lc
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Q: I really like the kid im going out with. He asked me out a little over a week ago but I had said no because Im so busy over the summer. Now, I regret saying yes this time because I have way too much going on. Im gonna be a freshman next year and Im on the high school cheerleading squad. It takes up a lot of my time and im also playing softball all summer. I go to the cape almost every weekend, and I need some time to myself, plus I have a lot of work to do before I go back to school. I dont know what to do because I wont ever see him and I feel so tied down because im always worried about finding time to be with him. Should I dump him? If so, how should I do it in a way to let him know that we're still going to be great friends like we have been? I'll rate high
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Look, im totally in the same situation and ive tried to handle it in the best way i could... well not the "exact" postion, but you'll get where im coming from...Me and this guy have been friends since b4 pre-k, yes that long! and about 8 months ago he told me he liked me and all this stuff, and i went along with it and i was like ok well we'll "talk" and stuff and see where it leads well he asked me out a few times and always said no because i didn't want to lose our friendship if we were to break up and its true i didn't and still dont...but now its summer and he's asked me out a few times this summer too, and my answer is still no these days, but only because i am WAY to busy not because i dont want to lose our friendship, im willing to take that risk now...but i dont want to have a boyfriend and not be able to see him. But you are a very brave soul for at least taking the risk and trying to see if it would work...i too am a cheerleader and i know how time consuming that is...personally i think you should dump your boyfriend if you dont want to spend your summer being "attached" just tell him how it really is, that you are really busy and you dont have time to see him as much as you would like to and you dont want to make him feel locked down when you two dont even get to see each other...just tell him that y'all will remain really good friends and the only difference will be you two dont have to feel like you HAVE to see each other and if u want to flirt, flirt. And y'all can pick up the relationship when school starts...when y'all can see each other. Or the other option is stay together but make it clear to him that you wont be able to see him as much as you would like and maybe not often ...at all... but the best choice would be to end the relationship until you have more time...
-listen to your heart...it knows best.-
~always here~ LC
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Hey boys and girls, im laura and ive been told im pretty good at giving advice at times although im not very good at taking my own advice, w/e im here to help you so if you have any questions dont hesitate to ask.
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