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Location: New Jersey
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Age: 15
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Member Since: August 1, 2004
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Last Update: August 30, 2004
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Im 13 years old and im very scared. This summer my boyfriend who wasnt my boyfriend then got out of jail for drugs. He said he would change for me and I believe him. We've been goin out now and Last night he called me crying sayin he thinks he is going back to jail. All I know is that his dad and him got into an arguement and that he wants to move in with his grandparents. And He wouldnt answer me why He thought he was going to jail again. Then he said he had to go and that he loved me and he never called back. I dont know if he went to school today or not, but Im really scared and I dont know what to do about it. Should I call him and ask him about it or what? Last night I cried all night long. I tried calling 2 times and nobody answered. I dont want to loose him. What do I do?

He's never going to change. I'm serious. Never.

Guys(or girls) never change. You are who you are.

If I was you I would ditch the guy and find someone better. You don't want to hear this but you're only 13. 13 is too young for this much trouble in your lovelife. And plus, going to jail for drugs is a VERY BIG DEAL. Don't remain invovled with a druggie. You'll only get hurt emotionally, and possibly physically.

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ive never been kissed b4.. is that a good thing?? or noo???

I think it's a good thing. You didn't use your first kiss on someone you didn't love. Which to me is a big deal. So save it as long as you want. Make it special.

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okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?

Well first off. He SAYS he's 15. How do you know? He could be 50.

Internet dating is NOT safe. And since you're 13, you have years left to get boyfriends and all of that. I'm sure there are plenty of guys locally you could dat in New Jersey. Actually I'm VERY sure there are. I'm in New Jersey and I managed.

Plus. As you said. It's a hassle. Dude, you're young. Live and forget the hassles.

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i could get any guy i wanted last year and the year before that...i thought of myself as ugly but they didnt
now i think im finally beautiful and i cant get a guy at all...its not like i think too highly of myself...whats wrong?

I know a girl kind of like you. She's so beautiful that boys are too intimadated to go out with her. She's like runway model beautiful and has a very wonderful personality.

The downfall is that no one thinks theyre good enough or are afraid she won't like them because she's "better".

I'm just guessing that's your problem as well.

I don't have any advice to give you on how to get guys though. The problem is that guys will probably always be too shy to confront you because of your good looks. All I can suggest is you be the persuer instead.

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i reli like this boy. . but 1 of my best freinds likes him. . . . i dont no what to do she said that she thinks he likes me but i dont wana hurt her help!

If one of you BEST friends likes him too, forget it. There will be more guys. She might say it's okay but my bet is that deep down inside, she'll be jealous or just hurt a little. It doesn't sound worth it.

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There is this guy. We are the same age and everything. But we really haden't seen each other all summer. Till the other day. We went out in 7th grade and now we are goin to go into 9th. I dont know if he lyks me or not. I am startin to lyk him again and everything is weird. I talked to him last night on AIM and he had in his profile that he was looking for a gurl that he can see alot and that makes him happy. I could see him alot and make him happy. It all was working ot fine in 7th grade till we broke up cuz he was leaving and stuff. I dont know. But the real ? is. How do I get him to lyk me... he lyks skate boards and stuff lyk that. and I just dont know how to get him to lyk me even tho i lyk that stuff too. sum1 HELP!!!
*thanks*

.:*Erika*:.

You can't make anyone like you. Life doesn't work that way. You could be a total idiot and pretend to like what he likes(which I'm just assuming you don't), and have him either know or find out you don't. He dated you in 7th grade and is looking for a girl(friend?). So the fact you've dated him before kind of helps you out. The only thing you should do is let him know you're interested and that you can be the one to spend time with him and that you want to make him happy.

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