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Age: 17
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Member Since: June 30, 2005
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Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?
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there is nothing that John -himself- can do in that situation, it's really painful for him to have to sit there and watch stuff like that happen and not be able to do anything, but thats how it goes like that...

All you can do is be there for him, comfort him, and do the best that you can.

Best wishes to you and 'John'
~Kitsune Tokkan


(15/f)
ok i really like this guy. (well call him P) well today we are having a 1rst of july party. i didnt have a clue who my dad was inviting but i was really hoping that he invited his family. but it turns out that its just basically a work party, even though he said its a 'get together'. but i havent seen P in 3 weeks. I really miss him and i think might even love him. what could i do to see him again? besides calling him and feeling like a stalker or IMing him.. any ideas? o and also, my parents dont know i like him. (link)
You want to avoid all the Fuss, Drama, and the like?

ask your dad if you could bring a freind along!

get what I'm sayin'? ^-^

Hope I helpped
~Kitsune Tokkan


14/f -- my friends in I call ourselfs "the crew". Mainly, it's me & my boyfriend, his best friend & his girlfriend [my best friend], and occasionally a few others. We all have open relationships were we tell each other everything. Except we don't tell our b/f&g/fs everything so we kinda share secrets and give advice and such. The other day my bf's best friend [he just happens to be my ex] told me that he still has feelings for me and thinks about me more than his girl. now, he keeps talking to me about this and trying to get me to cheat on my boyfriend with him.. i'm not gonna, but what should i say to him to make him back off?? (link)
Cheating is always... ALWAYS out of the question, and I'm sure you know that already. Honestly, the best way is the straitforward way in this sort of situation, he seems persistant, so anything less would resuly in him pestering you more.

Hope I helpped
~Kitsune Tokkan




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