Hey all, my name is kimberly and I'm here to help. I'm just an average teen just like ya'll so feel free to ask ANYTHING and EVERYTHING and I'll try to answer it as best I possibly can... don't be afraid... ask away!!
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Does anyone else think that Anikan Skywalker from starwars (episode 3) is hott? I do and so do a couple of other ppl i kno. But some of my friends think im weird i tell them that if they saw him they would think hes hott too.
Im just curious.
I rate high! (link)
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yes... wow hes really cute! don't worry if your friends dont think hes hot, you guys just have differant taste in guys.... no biggie.
xoxo
~KiKi
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i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this? (link)
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Maybe your just not ready to be in a commited relationship? Yeah I know how it feels... it just seems wrong, but in a good way that your doing something you know you shouldn't be doing. But just know your hurting yourself and your boyfriend when you do it. Maybe you should just stay single for a while and see how that works out. I hope I helped!
~KiKi
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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!
Feelings from the inside out,
Jess P.S- I rate HIGH! (link)
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I would sit down and talk to you're mom one on one about how you feel. Point out how responsible you are (and if you aren't then start doing things around the house that'd be useful i.e.: making your bed, cleaning your room, taking out the trash etc.) explain to her that you need a little more independance and you don't feel that she is giving that to you. I hope i helped in some way!
~KiKi
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ok. theres this boy in my 2nd block class and i have never talked to him before, although i think hes waay hott. sometimes whenever the teacher says something funny or they play some weird music on the bulletin, we always turn around and look at each other and laugh. its like we have known each other for a long time and we're friends...but we have never talked before! The other night I dreamt that he talked to me and the next day he actually did talk to me for the first time! i joined in on the conversation he was having with my friend. he didn't say much to me, because I hadn't said very much, but it was a start. i don't know why though me and him look at each other a lot! and we laugh too! we don't even know each other, hes a complete stranger to me, but when he do that and look n laugh, i feel like i've known him forever! my friends think he likes me...is that even possible? i'm terribly sorry this is soo long! i'll rate VERY good i promise! sorry again!
~ Wondering if there's a "connection" ~ (link)
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Yes, it is possible to have a physical connection with someone before even talking to them! That is what it seems has happened with you and this boy. Now all you have to do is make the mental connection, which might be a little tricky. It's easy to determine if you like someone by their looks, but by their personality, it's always hard. So I'd say just go up to him and start talking to him, and see if you like the way he talks. You can tell a lot by just a small conversation (is he nice, does he curse a lot, is he funny or sarcastic etc.) I hope I helped you!
~KiKi
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okayy, well i mean ive madeout with guys before but i was just wondering if there was a way that you could do it wrong? im always afraid that they talk behind my back ro say stuff about how i like do it wrong. (link)
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Nope... there is no "wrong" way to kiss someone... although some people may like a kiss like more aggressivley or more passivley but that just depends on the person you are kissing... and yeah some guys do talk about that stuff behind your back no matter what... but they could be saying " wow she was amazing!"... maybe its not all negative. Hope I helped!
~KiKi
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wow, a rough month. This month i went to many different partys. All of 'em either had a camp fire or movie on a couch. The problem is....everyone their had sum1 to hold onto and kiss and snuggle with except for me. WEll, right now, i like this one guy...but i don't kno how to show him i care about him. Everyone at school knows me as the girl who always says no, every guy that asks me out i said no bc/ i didn't like 'em at the time. Now, i rele like this guy but i don't kno how to make him want me. So, all boys who are 13-14, wut turns u on in a girl? (link)
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ok im a girl but i thought i could give u my input anyway. with this guy u like... start talking to him and flirting with him, if he gets the hint and likes u too he'll start flirting back, if he doesnt he might also be just slow so dont take that as a bad sign. I'd invite him to like the movies with maybe a friend and her boyfriend so you and ur guy can get comfortable togeather without it being awkward and also ur friend won't feel left out if she has a guy there too~ Hope i helped!
~KiKi
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Ok, i'm a huge flirt. even tho i've never had a bf. But i tend to flirt with guys that my friends like. And sumtimes they start to like me. (omg that sounded so cocky) Anyways... This happens a lot. And i'm sick of my friends calling me a man stealer, and i'm not! I want to stay loyal to my friends, but i can't help flirting. And i want guys to like me. What should i do? (link)
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Yeah i'm a huge flirt too... just be careful who u flirt with... i mean u can help flirting with certain people, its just u may be more interested in those guys cuz u cant have them or something like that. guys will like u no matter if u flirt or not... it usually doesnt have a lot to do with flirting, just ur looks and personality.. i mean flirting is always fun to do with guys but once u have a boyfriend i dunno how much he'll like u being so flirtacious! Hope i helped
~KiKi
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my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???
o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous? (link)
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Wow why are u still with a guy like that. I know I have serious jealousy issues so i envy u for not freaking out over this situation. And also why do u need to tell ur boyfriend u were holding a guys hand? thats not that big of a deal! Hope I helped.
~Kiki
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what kind of dancing is 'frinding' liek how do u do it
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I think u mean grinding... and its when like a guy usually stands behind the girl and they dance like really really close to a fast song and just move to the music.
~KiKi
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hey -
i was just like wondering how you makeout.and wahts the difference between kissing and makingout.im 13 (link)
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OK kissing is w/o tounge... making out is with tounge. and how u do it... theres no set way to make out aka hook up. umm just experiment and try differant things. Since ur 13 thats a great age to start trying!! Hope I helped
~KiKi
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well me and my boo have been together a year now..and all we do is kiss and makeout but i dont have a problem with that (savin myself 4 marriage)..i was juss wondering anyne have any fun kissin ideas..like if ur bf/gf kissed a certain way that was juss beyond a perfect kiss..i juss wanna spice up our relationship withoutleading to gettin into each others pants! (link)
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I completley love that your saving yourself. You can have fun in life without having sex if thats your choice... for example kissing can be amazing! What I like to do is while I'm kissing like suck on the other persons like top lip while he sucks on my bottom lip.. love that. You can also try kissing other places (no im not talking about down there! haha) but like suck on his ear or kiss his neck... i know I love that when someone does that to me! Hope I helped
~KiKi
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theres a girl i like and she says she likes me to but she dosnt wamt 2 go out even though she flirts with me every time where together
P.S. where good friends (link)
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