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Hey ! First off I love you so much! Ok now to my question. I want a new screen name because I had this one for like 2 years maybe and it`s getting really, really old. So do you ahev any sugestions?

I ♥ you so much!

- Samra

Hey girl I love you too!! And here are some suggestions:

Sexii x3 Samra < because you are sexi!

Oh yeah and what do you want your screename to be about because that would help a lot.. haha

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i like my bestfriends b.f..also me and my friend have same taste in boys so its hard to to like someone when your friend does to...what do i do?

Well if you have the same taste in boys, there really might not be anything you can do except move on. Respect your best friend and let her be with the guy she's with. What you can do is ask your best friend's boyfriend if he has any friends..because guys are usually friends with other guys that are just like them. So maybe he will have friends that are the same type as him and you might find someone new to like!

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ok thanx 4 ur advice its really great but im not the type of person to tell a guy i like him alot its just hard 4 me and everytime a guy knos i like him things just get awkward and we arent even friends after that and hes a great friend i dont want that to happen to us and he says he doesnt like anyone so should i tell him i like him alot or just try to move on?

Well if he says he doesn't like anyone but he flirts with you..he may just be lying when he tells you he doesn't like anyone, and is just afraid to be the one to say that he likes you. So if he flirts then tell him you like him. But if he doesn't really flirt with you then move on.

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ok im 13 nd um well heres my problem i really like this guy and sumtimes i feel like he likes me 2 but other times i dont think he does ive told him i like him but he didnt really say anything we just kept on talking so im rella confused he flirts alot but then again he sumtimes doesnt even want to talk to me so i dk help!

I had this problem before. Maybe you should just say I like you a lot..& I wanna know if you like me too ? Or just ask one of his friends to talk to him about it! I think he likes you if he does flirt. If he doesn't wanna talk to you sometimes that may just mean that he's busy or talking to someone else.

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000k so i have a problem..wuda shocker! so, i have had quite a few boyfriends/crushes..but it seems like when ever im in a relationship it never lasts long b/c i like get over the guy after a while...n like i had a crush on this one kid for like almost 2 years ((no j0ke)) n he FINALLY asked me out..but then i was rele not that into him n e more (( i was juss startin to get over him like that week SERIOUSLY!)) great timing huh?...but its like, i like the guy till he likes me...i guess its almost like i just like "playin the game"..there still fun to flirt with n everything but i dnt kno its werid n i dnt kno what to do like will i ever find that guy that i wont loose intrest in??

Okay..my best advice is that when you have a crush on someone, tell them right away that you like them. If they like you back, you'll go out right away! Which means, if you go out right away while you're still interested in him, you won't lose interest. I guess that you just waited for the other guys to come to you and it took too long, maybe that's why you lost interest. If you tell them you like them right when you start liking them, then everything will be fine! If they don't like you back, just find other boys!

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everything is changing. my girlfriend and boyfriend broke up with me just recently. all my friends are leaving me out of thir extra curricular activities. all i do all day is sit in this chair by the phone waiting for one of my friends to call me. i just dont know what to say to them and i dont like my life. im just miss the old days when no one cared..all this is just a jumble of things but i just need help!! oh and i also lost 10 punds over all this. i cant sleep and i cant eat. what the heck do i dooo!!!

You should be the one to call your friends up. Let them know that you're feeling left out and want to hang out with them. There are many other people out there to date so all you need to do is meet as many people as you can and be nice to them, get to know them because you could find a potential gf/bf. you also need to start eating because if you don't you may be diagnosed as anorexic and your life will get worse. if you do eat you will feel much better and you will be able to sleep, too.

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ok well this guy and he used to call me his bff and stuff and then he was going out with this girl that he LOVED..but then they broke up and my friend asked would you go out w/ her if you wernt going out w/ the girl he was going out with and he said yes, nd ive always loved this kid..and idk what to do..cuz he hasnt relle been on and like i just need help..

Well call him up and tell you how you really feel about him. If he feels the same way and knows that you feel the same way he'll ask you out. Maybe right now he doesn't want ask you out because he's not sure if you like him! I hope it works out

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are all boys stupid?! like we had it going kinda good and i thought we woulda went out for suure. but. of course. him being a stupid boy just STOPS talking to me.. and idk. ok im going to end this message right ow b.c theres a bug on my screen! bye!!

Ha Yeah I think almost all boys are stupid. They usually stop talking to one girl because they find interest in a new girl. So yeah it's stupid..I hate them.

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okay well theres this girl and i really do like her and i think she might no i do cuz like ill always talk to her but i dont know if she knows and then sometimes she'll be like in a bad mod and she'll be like i dont want to talk to you and then i wont talk to her at all and then the next day she'll come up to me and start talking to me and im like i thought you didnt want to talk to me and shes like no i do i do,but since were such good friends idk if i should tell heri like her because id rather us be good friends than nothing at all cause if i tell her i like her and she doesnt like me then she might always feel weird around me and then we might not be good friends nemore.

Well, I really think that you should tell her you like her. When you tell her that you like her just say " If you don't like me back, it's okay but I still want us to be real good friends." So then, you really have nothing to lose. & Who knows, she might like you back. From what you tell me, I think she does :]

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how can you tell if a guy likes you?

usually when a guy likes you he tries to talk to you and always looks at you. usually if he says hi whenever he sees you, he might like you to. if he tries like to be funny or make you laugh, he's flirting.

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ok well me n my ex(david) have went out b4 n after evry relationship we were always good friends n now he broke ^ with me again n his friend saiod i was gonna cheat on him n now he hates me! n i apologised n he said he doesnt care n then he yells at me wat do i do?

Tell him how much he means to you & how badly you would hate for you guys to be fighting. Then he will realize how badly he doesn't want to be in a fight either. Hope I helped!

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i LiKE THiS GUY AND HES MY EX WELL HE RECENTLY BROKE UP WiTH HiS GF BUT i KNO HES OVER HER BECAUSE YEAH HE TOLD ME THT HE HADNT LiKED HER FOR A WHiLE LiKE RiTE AFTER THEY BROKE UP WELL iVE HEARD SO MANY RUMORS THT HE LiKES ME BUT i CANT BELiEVE THEM. iT DOESNT MAKE NE SENSE TO ME.AND SOMETiMES WEN WER TALKiNG AND THE SUBJECT OF LiKE THE RUMORS AND WHO HE LiKES COMES UP HES LiKE RLE QUiCK TO DENY ALL THE RUMORS AND THT KiNDA MAKES ME WONDER?? i DONT KNO YEAH BTW HES MY NEiGHBOR HAHA SO iT GETS mORE JERRY SPRiNGER BY THE MiNUTE HAHA AND MY BEST FRiEND APAPRENTLY LiKES HiM BUT HE CANT STAND HER SO THT KiNDA MAKES ME FEEL BETTER HAHA WOW UMM YEAH i DONT KNO WHAT TO DOO i LOVE HiM AND i WANNA BE WiTH HiM SO BAD

Haha wow that's very jerry springer. Okay well honestly the only thing I can tell you...is forget about rumors. Just tell you like him. I'm just saying that is what I would do.

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Okay..so me and my friend..have been friends for awhile..except..she`s a grade older then me. and her xxx boyfriend who is in her grade likes me. and me and him went out once..but then we broke up. and we`re going out again and my friend is very jealous. idk wat to do because i really like the guy..and its a lot better between us this time..she gets over it but always comes back to lecturing me about it..and it gets very annoying..idk wat to do..let it go...or let my boyfriend go.

Let it go.

Real friends are supposed to support each other.
If she can't support what you & your boyfriend have, then she's not a real friend. She needs to understand that things just didn't work out between him & her. Your friend needs to get over it & find another guy.

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okay well me and this guy have been off and on for a while and im starting to like him again and i no its a bad thing because he always ends up hurting me and idk but i know for a fatc we are meant to be we have at least went out 20 times and everytime we broke up something bad happen now we r starting to talk and im lik falling for him but its bad and ealier today he reminded me what a bad person i am and then was nice to me i rele dont get this?/ wat do i do im in lov with this boy

He obviously loves you because he's always coming back to you! People make mistakes though, and he should learn from his. Tell him that you want to be with him but you don't want to get hurt. Maybe he will think about how badly he's hurt you & change! Hope I helped!

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so i like a girl and im pretty sure she knows i like her but she hasnt actually said she knows and im scared to tell her cuz we're friends and i'd rather just be friends with her than nuttin at all but i kinda want to be more than just friends and sometimes she'll give me signs that she kind of does like me as more than a friend like i'll smile at her when she not smiling and she'll smile bak but idk if i just think she likes me or if she really does so i have no clue wat to do.

Alright, well if you're not sure if she knows that you like her or not, just get the courage to tell her. If she smiles at you then I think she likes you. So you have nothing to be afraid of really! Just tell her how you feel & she might say she feels the same way!

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yeahh well this guyy ive had a crush on scince he got here and well we flirt alllllllllllllllllll the time! but we went out once but now he has a girlfriend but i realllyyy like him! i have noooo idea what to do like should i keep trying or just move on? ahh...
*confused*

well if he still flir with him A LOT & really like him then ii say keep trying!! if it doesnt work after a while..move on & you will eventually find someone new that you will like!

Hope I helped!

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Okay..so my boyfriend just broke up with me 3 days ago..for who knows why..nobody does but anyways..we have been off and on a lot and i know he still likes me..but i don`t exactly wanna get hurt again..but..i like this other guy..and idk if he likes me too..because i mean he is always askin me who he should go out with..and he told me he liked this one girl..but is always flirting with me..and just..showin some signs i guess. What should i do to show him i like him..or to get him to like me more? or should i just tell him i like him. ahh i need help!! =(
-helpless-

Honestly, I think you should just tell him you like him! He just might admit that he likes you, too! And if he doesn't then it doesn't matter! There's many guys in the world & eventually you will find one that won't hurt you like the guy you've been on & off with.

Hope I helped!

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theres this guy..lets call him..Pete. i really like him but he has a girlfriend. and she goes to another school. he says he likes someone at our school but he won't tell me. we flirt alot and every chance we get we talk. i really like him. any advice?

i rate high for good answers.

Alright well I think that you should tell him you like him. Why? Because you guys flirt a lot and talk a lot so this obviously means that the girl he likes is YOU! If he knows that you like him, then he will probably admit that he likes you back. Then he might break up with his girlfriend to be with you! I've seen it happen before! So just remember, tell him you like him!

Hope I helped!

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Okay..thank you soo much for everything..and im soo sorry for asking so many questions..i just..idk..ur helpin so far..so i was just hopin you could help again..well..me and Kyle are back together now..he asked me out this morning..but..now..how do i get him to stay with me..because we`ve been off and on..and he goes out with other girls and flirts with them..then misses me again and comes back. and i wanna get him to actually stay with me for awhile. ne tips? =/

Alright, don't call him to much, because he might get annoyed, don't question him about other girls because then he might think your over-protective, that will probably get him to stay with you. Also, listen to him, try not to argue with him, & tell him how much he means to you. Once he realizes how much you mean to him then it will be even harder for him to leave you.

Hope I helped!
& I don't mind you asking so many questions it makes me happy to know that I'm helping :]

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Thank you for answering my last question about Kyle..but..today my other x boyfriend Mike who was helping us get back together said that it was all a joke. & he was so mad saying how could i still lyk him..wen really idk..i just do. and im lyk all right thats so immature we`re not in middle school ne more! but i still really like Kyle, n we see each other frequently..ne tips of how i can get him to like me again so that he`ll maybe even to think about asking me out again? =/

-thank you

Tell him how you really feel. You may not be in middle school anymore, but that can't change your feelings for somebody. Explain that to him. I did that to one of my boyfriends and he actually understood. If you really like somebody, then you can't hide it. Let him know that you still like him and hope for a second chance. Chances are he will definitley understand and might reconsider.
Hope I helped!

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