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Heyy. I'm Kelsey. I'm not here to be judgemental or tell you what to do with your life, but it's just my personal input. Most of my friends come to me when they need something, and always tell me that I really helped them out. I've been through aylottt, and most problems out there I have experienced. I'm good with relationships(love+friendship)sports, and a lot of other things. Mainly all that middle school drama crap. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. Love always, Kelsey.
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ok so whats a country song thats like a love song.. but its like a newer one .. not an old one.
Keith Urban- "You'll Think Of Me"
It's Not THAT country, and its like my favorite song ever.
well everytime i get a haircut and i get it blow dried it's always sooo pretty and soft and shiny!!! how do they do that??? cause everytime i do it it is shiny and soft and pretty but i know it could be better than that so how can i do that??? i have special shampoo and conditinor but that dosnt work that good though..
what should i do??
Haha just chill out. Its their job to do that. If you can't, dont worry about it!! But you could ask your hairdresser for the product she uses in your hair and ask where you can buy it. Most of the time you can buy it right at the salon. There mostly pretty pricey becuase they are such high quality, but hey its worth the great hair!
always, kelsey
hey im the one who asked the question about if i should stop liking that person because of just an attraction. i think i forgot to add that im pretty sure he doesnt know who i am. i cant explain why. but i also noticed that whenever i see him...he looks at me, and immedetly looks at like another girl...hes always with another girl. atcually i never see him with guys...maybe like once a week. hahah. idk what to do.
He deffinetly sounds like a ladies mann. He may not know exactly who you are, but he sounds like hes atleast noticed you before. I think you should take a chance at this guy, but only if you aren't the jealous type. If you are, this might not be the best guy for you. Some people are extremely over protective of their boyfriends and get very mad about them looking at other girls or just hanging out with them. But if you make a move you need to talk to him first. Just make sure that he knows those girls are his friends and only his friends. Let me know if i helped!
for about a year now ive liked this one boy. i cant describe what i like about him at all. its like like, AH ATTRACTION. ive talked to him maybe three times or so. and hes constantly looking at me in the halls, and i have dont really no why because i didnt think he knew who i was... should i basically just stop liking him, because really, its more of lust not love.
if you say that this boy has talked to you before and is constantly looking at you in the halls, then you have no reason at all to stop liking him! thats a reallly good start, and if you work really hard to talk to him more without overdoing it - you two might end up having an amazing relationship
hope this helps youu ; && please let me know what happens! =]
props to amanda
im the one who wanted to break up with my boyfriend .. and dint know what to do .. i just wanted to tell you that i broke up with him and hes pretty upset but we are still friends . thanks for your help kelsey!
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Hey, okay i have this problem. theres this boy at school and he liks me. hes really sweet and treats me really well and is really funny and i think im starting to like him. and he asked me out but i havent answered him yet, i want o say yes. but theres reasons that are keeping me from saying yes. like my mom. she lets me go out with guys but like she ...i dont know its complicated but i want to say yes but im so confused.. and like yeah please help.
signed :: dont know what to fo
i think you should just talk to your mom. explain to her that he is a really sweet guy. maybe have him over one day so she can meet him before she lets you go out with him. talk to your mom about it before you answer him though. becuae if you say yes and then she makes you break up with him, then you have to explain to him that his mom doesnt like him and that make him feel uncomfortable. hope i helped.
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my girlfriend's prude..and i really want to hook up with her. how do i make her unprude!
just becuase she doesn't want to hook up with you doesnt mean shes exactly prude. she may just not feel comfortable with it. but have someone talk toher about it and be like "would you ever hoook up with your boyfriend?" if you really love her you'll respect that she might not be ready or want to.
alwayss.
okay , i waant to break up with my boy friend and i told that to one of my friends and she told him and now hes like .. umm why would you want to break up with me .. and idk what to do!
you need to talk to your boyfriend. just give him the reason(s) that you want to break up with him, and if he really loves you he will try to fix that. and if your reason is you justr don't like him anymore just tell him that. but in a since way, of course. just be like sorry but i really dont have those kinds of feelings towards you anymore. let me know how everything goess.
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heyy. i really like this guy and he's like my friend and w.e but he has a g/f and he's like obsessed w. him. but i also know that he'll never like me back... :/ i mean i guess its good to be just friends right?
being friends with him is definetly better then nothing. just talk to him about it. tell him that you have feelings for him, but you don't want that to change your friendsip (i dont assume you want it to change..) but yes, being friends is DEFINETLY greatt.
alwayss.
you should tell mike who you like
and he didnt just ask you this because he was bored
haha mikey if i liked someone you'd be the first to know =]
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heyy ok i really need help and fast!! ok so i used to be like really good friends with this boy + then we stopped talking and he acts like he absolutey hates me! it totally sux becausee he makes me laugh and i really liked him (as a friend) now like all of a sudden i realized that i like him like a lot but he still totally hates me and NEVER even like looks at me.. i really wanna be good friends with him (and maybe more..) but i have a felling hes a total jerk becausee he wont ever be around me. i know this is hard and confusing but PLEASE HELP!!!!!! 13/f
alrighty im really sorry but you worded this world and first say you like him and then dont. please re-word it or something and send it back. i'd love to help!
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Hi i am confused girl i have a problem i meet this guy this year (2006) that is really sweet and i talked to him once and that's it, i really like him but when i should him to one of my frieds she laughed and said is it him???ugly... i was sad because i wasnt getting support from one of my friends and know i dont like him but he does he always tries to cath my and and makes me smile he is sweet but i dont know How to approche him and i just know he likes me too....
confused girl
don't listen to what your friend says. it really doesnt matter what this kid looks like(althought, it does help). if you love him, go for it. your friends should be there supporting you all of them time 100% all the way. just smile at him in the hall way or wave to him. chances are if he likes you he'll smile or wave back. or you could even pretend to stumble and bump into him and just be like "oh, sorry." and then look him in the eyes. you can tell almost anything from the look in peoples eyes. let me know how everything goes!
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hey kels. well i really like this guy and hes kind of different from other guys for one reason... so people -girls- kinda dont like him. and i guess we talk but i kinda look at him a lot but when he catches me staring he just stares back blankly... not like, "ew why are you looking at me..." but just... stares back. hes done this a lot. do you think i should talk to him more or just leave it as it is and move on when i do? thanks ♥
DEFINETLY talk to him more. do not give up. he sounds like a winner! try to get to know him as best as you can. i always like to remember the saying-- i dont mind if he catches me staring, becuase then i know he was staring back ♥ . just always remember that one. good luuck!!
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im bleeding out my vigina
uhm, did you get your period? use a pad or tampon, that helps =]
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Hi! Im Gaby :) I really need advice from sum1 whoz actually my age so,pleez help! Sorry this maybe kinda long but PLEEZ read it! Okay therez this guy Johny i wuz talking to for a while online(p.s hez in my class) and we really liked eachother and he finally told me online. After he told me he liked me he didnt ever talk to me because he wuz so embarrased. It really broke my heart because i missed laughing at hiz jokez and smiling at him for no reason.It really sucked and sumtimez i cried at night. I know its pretty stupid that i didnt get over him after all those dayz.Then came...Augustin. A cute boy in my class that i was a "little",okay ALOT, attracted to. Hez funny smart CUTE and so much more. Many girls liked him but he just never liked them and he wuld tell them to leave him alone. But when i talked to him he doesnt tell me "your weird" or "leave me alone!" Im not sure if he likes me but one time at P.E we had to play this lame game called the HumanKnot(maybe youve heard of)Well, you have to hold somones hand and eachtime he wuld hold mine.Johny looked really upset because i waz talking to him...ALOT. We were really getting alot and he made me laugh so much. I tried to ignore Johny because he culd of talked to me beforethat and he never did. I kinda felt bad for him though cuz he looked kinda sad,a face i had NEVER seen on hiz face before.I think i REALLY like Augustin and i want to get to know him more, but i know it would hurt Johny and+ i still kinda havent got over him. Wut shuld i do :/ ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!♥
awww omg wow. this is really hard. i think you should try your best to get to know Augustin. if he says all the crap to other girls and not you, its definetly a sign. johnny seems sweet and everything, but its really not good that he doesn't talk to you becuase hes embarssed. he really shouldnt be. and if you go out with johnny, he would probably get even more nervous and not talk to you. you and augustin seem really comfortable around eachother. (and you sonud like a cute couple =] )so yeah i think you should give augustin a chance but still be really close friends with johnny. let me know how things go!
alwayss.
I would like to know how to stop my boyfriend from always grabbing me in the wrong places?
just tell him to stop! its your body, not his. he make think he can control you becuase your his girlfriend, but he seriously has no right to touch you. tell him ou feel uncomfortable and really dont like it. say it in a mad tone, not like your joking it around.
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theres this guy i reaallly like but he had this girlfriend..then they broke up but hes one of my best friends and he tells me everything so he told me that he still likes her which broke my heart because i thought he mightve liked me but i just told him to do what he feels..and everyday at lunch they talk i mean evvveeryday and sometimes even kiss ( i dont know why they do that but theyre not going out ) and i just think sometimes its hopeless and hell never go out with me or like me..so should i just move on or wait until he gets over her ( he really likes her though )
hmm. sounds like what happened to me. try to point out all the negative stuff in him and maybe you will stop liking him. if he's your best friend you can talk to him about it. make sure he knows how you feel. that way when hes over her he will always consider liking you. hope i helped
Hi! well my question is... i like this guy right and i dont know if he likes me but he always smiles at me in the hallway and waits 4 me in lunch but..... we dont reallly talk and i reallly wanna meet him and stuff what do i do?
Reallly LOST
one word. FLIRT. have one of your friends introduce you guys. get his screename and just be like "hey, who is this?"also, when you see him waiting and he smiles, smileback. don't just look away. chances are he likes you too, but he doesn't know if you feel the same, wich you do. just drop him a few hints, without being slutty or anything.
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hi uhmm...i dont really know how to say this but..i cant really talk to boys without being uncomfoitable like when they talk i cant like look into their eyes and stuff..and please dont tell me to like talk to them online or phone because its the same thing for me..k thanks so much =)
aww you dont have to look at them in the eyes. you can use your "periferable" (or w.e) vision. i HATE looking people in the eye too. so when i'm talking to someone i try to focus on something behind them while it looks like im looking them right in the eye. but if you try this, make sure you dont like doze off and stare blankly. talking with guys is just something you have to get used to and be comfrotable with. just try to talk as much as you can. dont worry about saying anything stupid.
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Hi my name is Robyn and i hav a huge problem..ive been going out with a boy named carl for about a month..and he rle luvs me more than i luv him. but the problem is im way to shy to talk to him and he rle wants me to talk to him. luckally he is under standing, sweet, and luvs me alot so he wont dump me. wut shud i do?.. i wana talk to him but every time i try i just cant do it..and i wana talk to him too.. please help me out even tho u dont kno me!
do you have a problem talking to any other guyss? if you don't, do not be worried. alot of people are afraid to talk to the people you love. your probably just afraid you'll mess up what you say, or say something stupid and are afraid he won't like you. if he really loves you, he won't care what you sayd. but dont be afraid to talk to him. hes your boyfriend, and you should be 100% comfortable around him. if talking in person with guys is something you just really cant handle, talk to him online or on the phone. anything is better then not talking to him at all. let me know how it goes!