Hey, my name is Kate. I am from New York. I am a totally open and outgoing person. I love to make people laugh, and make people feel better. I am always (well most of the time) in a good mood. I can look at the bright side of things in any situation. ;)
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I met this guy last weekend at a place where everyone in my town hang out. we hit it off really well and started dating a couple days later. everything was going really great but then i found out from a few friends i have in the grade above that he did ectasy oxy cotton ect. i definetley am not into drugs, i called him and told him i never wanted to see him ever again. he started crying and said i havent cried this much since my mom died of coursr i felt awful so i agreed to have him drive over to my house and we could talk i told him that i thought we rushed into going out and that i couldnt be with somebody who does drugs i want to be a dancer in high school and i cant be associated with drugs. he also told people that we were going to have sex on our one month anniversary. which made me furious because im not like that to know a guy for like 5 days and agree to that. i broke up with him and now hes threatning to kill two of my friends that told me that he did drugs. hes physco..he drives past my house twice a day and it freaks me out he says we will be together no matter what and he'll stop at nothing to get me even if he has to hurt people that we are meant to be together im really scared and i dont know what to do. (link)
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I am so sorry, and I understand. That has to be so scary for you. What I would do is tell someone. People say crazy stuff all the time, and there are special kinds of people that specialize in the kind of help you need. You should report him definitely. And you shouldn't go out with someone if you only know them for a couple of days. You should get to know them first. IF you don't then thats when you end up in situations like this. Good luck, and sorry if I couldn't help.
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OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
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If you broke up with him, then u shouldnt b jealous at all. Don't get mad. When you break up with someone, you have no role in their life any more, so get over it. Good luck. ;)
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I feel like drinking BLEACH
So, my best friend got this IM from this random guy, so I added him on my buddylist thinking I would just IM him later to see who he is... and stuff.
And so, I IMed him today, and we started talking and he doesn't go to my high school and everything, and he seemed nice and all. Then my ex boyfriend, my best friend, and my other friend that went to school with him said that he was really weird, and he's just not my type. He always gets turned down, and I feel terrible. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah, because I didn't want to be like NO, I mean, what the heck, I just met this guy and he's asking me out?! I just don't know what to do. I'd feel way too bad just being like NO, and stuff.. I can't do things like that.
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If you've never met this guy, and you're going on a date with him, that could be really dangerous. Any one can lie about there age. You don't know me, and if i told you i was 25, or 52 you'd probably believe me. And if you've seen his picture or whatever, it's just as easy to go online on google or something and get a picture. So i wouldn't trust him. Good luck. ;)
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ok i know this sounds a little weird and its going to be long and i'm sorry about it.
for the longest time, i have been in love with Daniel Radcliffe. now i know that you think that i cant be i love with him because ive never meet him, but im pretty sure that i really love him. well ive thought about it, and i realized that im never going to be able to be with him. hes going to find another woman that he wants to be with, and im going to be alone. i never realized that im not the only woman on earth that likes him, and hes going to choose someone else. now the chances of me meeting him and us becoming friends and falling in love are like 1 to 5 trillion. and i FINALLY realize, that im never going to have him. i know that your going to say " its just a normal teenage obsession, you'll get over it" or " you cant really love him because you've never meet him "thats what everyone says. ive thought about other guys that i know, and i dont feel that way about ANY of them. I'm stuck on Daniel. can you please give me any adivce that you think will help me?
thanks to everyone!
Shelby (link)
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sorry but you answered your own question. just do this make a list of all the things you like about him if you really like him you'll have about 25 things then think about how you'll never meet him and some other lucky girl will get him. now burn the list along with your thoughts your day will come!!!
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If you ask someone out, and they say no, what do you do next?
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If you ask some one out, and you REALLY like them then you just say something like "Ok, well maybe we could be friends" That's what i'd do. And maybe if you start hanging out more, the person may start to like you. And you might be surprised and get asked out by them. Good luck ;)
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years. early in our relationship he cheated on me with one of my friends (it was like a one-time thing) but we got past that and i know hes been faithful since then. well he just got back from vacation and the first thing he tells me is that he had hooked up with this girl he met at the beach. he was like sobbing and saying that he felt so bad about it but he had to tell me cuz he didnt want to keep anything from me, and that it didnt mean anything and that he hates himself for being so stupid, and how much he loves me, and please forgive him.
well i know your gonna say dump the jerk. and maybe i should. but then i think, maybe i should forgive him? i mean, at least he was honest about it. he didnt have to tell me and i never wouldve found out. and we have been going out for so long, im the only girlfriend hes ever had, so maybe its natural that he'd be curious about other girls, even though he really does love me? or am i just making excuses for him because i love him and dont want to lose him? but if i stay with him, is that sending the message that its okay to cheat on me? is he really just a cheater and always will be? or was it really just a mistake? i dont know what to do! (link)
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I'm really sorry to hear that. But I'd forgive him. Yes, he cheated twice, but at least this time he apologized and came right out and said it. He obviously felt terrible about it, and you know guys, there stupid. But I wouldn't dump him. Hey, this is a good time for you. As he tries to apologize,you get candy,flowers, any thing he can to suck up. I'd stay with him. Hey, what do I know. My friend Sahara went through the same thing. He cheated in Chicago on a business trip, came back and apologized. And until this day she still gets whatever she wants. So it works out either way. Good luck. ;)
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