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I'm a typical 14 year old girl!! I'm no different then any others. I love to sing, act and dance. I love hanging out with my friends and helping people. So if you want any advice ask me a question, and I'll do my best to answer it. Enjoy my column. :o)

Jess

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ugh ok..well theres this guy that i have liked forver, and we had or thing at one point or another and now he hates me, like...we dont even talk, and i didnt even do ne thing 2 him..ii guess he just d0sent wanna have anythiiing t0 d0 with me...but iidk...iim jsut siick 0f lo0kin in every's inf0'z and seeing.."bob..ilusm togegether 4evA" idk jsut like seeing all these copples 2 gether...knowing i dont have that, i men i havent jad a bf in fereever n idk it jsut hurts..alot..n ik every1 syas that its worth tha wait but yah it kiils...

The perfect guy will come to you soon. You just have to wait until it happens. Don't be mad, and don't let this issue hurt you. If you need anything else drop something in my inbox.
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okay, i have a question, i like this one guy, and he likes me back, but the problem is that he lives far away like 20 minutes away, and we can hardly see each other, were're not going out or anything, we just like each other a lot, we want to see each other more, well at least i do, i like this guy alot, but i don't know what to do, can u help me??

If you think about it 20 minutes away isn't so far. But it might be worth it for this guy if he is so special. As long as you guys can see each other for certain many times a month I think you guys could make the relationshop work. If you need anything else drop something in my inbox.

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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out?

Just tell the "guy" that you just want to be friends. Tell him you really like him too but you just got out of a relationship and would like to stay single for awhile. If he truely likes you he will understand.

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Hi! She's perfect. She's beautiful, shes smart, she's talented, she's funny. Problem: She's my best friend. I can't tell her how I feel because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't want our friendship to end because of how I feel about her. Now, if I was a guy, this wouldn't be so complicated. But I'm not. I'm a girl. And I want to tell her, but I don't know what would happen. Any suggestions? Let me know!!

Maybe your friend feels the same way. Try telling her how much of a friend she is to you. Try giving her a hint that you are interested in her. Show your emotions. If she is truely your best friend then she would understand.
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dear advicenators,

i like this boy and he doesnt like me...i want to go out with him but i dotn know what to say....what should i say to him?

love,
sammie

This is really tough. I mean you like him and e doensn't like you. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he would ever want to be with you.




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I think i might be Bisexual. i am a 15 year old female girl. When i look at some of my female friends, i look at their breasts. i know this is not normal. when i masturbate, i imagine other girls in ym head. usually they are people with whom i am good friends... i know that this is not normal adn very weird, but is ti wrong? right now i like 2 different guys but at the same time i want to fuck my female friends. do u have any advice for me?

Being bisexual is not wrong. Yet you might not be bisexual. You may just like to experiment, like with girls. This also may be a stage in your life you may grow out of it. Lots of girls feel this way. Your not a criminal. My advice is too do what you want to do and just live your life.

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okay i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I think i'm in love with her:-D. She's so awesome. What could i get for her or do for her to show her that i love her? i wanna do something original but not to weird lol. thanks lol.

You don't have to get her anything. Just your heart. But if you wanted to get her something I would suggest flowers or a charm bracelet. That way you could have memories. But just tell her how you feel and I'm that would be the best gift every.

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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!!

Tell your mom that now that your friend is a BI does not mean that she is any different then she was before. She still likes guys and now girls but that doesn't mean her personality will change. Tell your mom that if one of her best friends were BI would you stop being friends with her? Make her understand.

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Jess

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CaitLynn, I saw you on somebody's picturetrail and when I looked at the advice you gave, you seemed pretty good. So I was just wondering If you could help me out a little here. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, but I don't want to criticize him if he isn't doing anything. But he just has this really good friend named,Courtney and he goes over to her house and when he is over at my house to visit me he would just leave to go visit this courtney girl. I need your help. Hope you can help!!!! THANKS ALOT!!!

The thing is if this boyfriend of yours really likes you he shouldn't be cheating on you. Don't pressure him or anything, sit him down and ask him is there something you should know about or ask him "Maybe next time I can go to Courtney's with you" If he denies ask him what heart wants you to do..


Hopefully he'll understand...

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