My name is Jessica and I am just full of great advice! haha. Anyways, I'm still a junior in high school, but I would like to think I am rather wise for my age(17). I am always giving my friends advice on everything...no matter what the topic is. I'm pretty smart and enjoy giving people my opinion on things. Basic stuff about me: I am going to go to the University of Sydney and one day becoming a plastic surgeon, I love AC/DC, the Doors, Led-Zeppelin, and every other classic rock band out there, I like to go tanning, watch good movies, and just always have fun. So any questions...just ask! :]
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My boyfriend is very much in love with me; he makes sure I know it, also. We talk for about half an hour most nights and he sends me one or two "I love you" texts through the day. But he never makes plans to see me. For the first 6-7 months of our relationship, we saw each other strictly once a week-- granted, we were both in the same school and despite having no classes with one another, I made an effort to see him for a decent amount of time in school-- not so much the other way around.
After he left school in May as a senior, we've maintained this once a week thing. About every other week I suggest a second opportunity to chill and he either seems disinterested but obliging from the start and/or makes the hangout as short as possible. I brought this up a few weeks ago and he apologized but he hasn't done much to change. He hasn't made a plan with me in months. If he was a homebody I would understand but he goes out with his friends 4-5 nights a week.
What should I do? I'm unsure as to whether this is worth breaking off the relationship over. I love him for him but I don't think he has the responsibility to uphold this relationship, and I don't know if I want to deal with that.
Thanks. ...and sorry for the multiple postings & wrong catagories - I'm just not getting many answers =/ (link)
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Hmm, this is an odd situation. Most guys that claim that they're "in love" tend to want to spend as much time with their girlfriend as possible. I guess I can't really say whether or not you should breakup over this, cause I don't know how strongly you feel towards him, but I know I most likely would if I was in your situation. I mean getting texts saying he loves you is always cute, but they only mean so much. And like I said, if he reallyyy loved you, he should at least want to see you just as much, if not more, than he sees his friends. I suppose all you can do is decide whether or not you truly love this guy enough to be okay with being his second option. Hope I helped :)
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Im soo confused, i have been going out with this boy for about 4 months now and i really really like him. But lately things have been kind of.. weird. He is best friends with my good friend as well, so they tend to tease each other and tickle each other. I know he loves me but i dont understand why she would prevoke it, or why he would? Also, for some reason i keep thinking about me good friends brother... even though me and my boyfriend are perfect for each other in every way... Help! (link)
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Ok, well first of all, maybe you should confront him about it..or confront her. I was in almost this same situation before, and I made sure that my friend knew that her (what I would consider) flirting was bothering me. But, if you are now having feelings for her brother, maybe your current boyfriend isn't actually all that right for you. I mean, I understand that you guys have been dating for four months, but sometimes length of a relationship isn't all that matters, and even though things seem to be going perfect, well chances are the relationship may become too boring, and so maybe you two should think about taking time apart. I know it's a big change, but it might just be the only long-term solution for this problem.
Hope I helped :]
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ok i just got my first boyfriend the 21st and im 13 years old and everytime we see eachother he brings a condom. but i dont know if i should. and plus im prudeee. help me outt (link)
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You definitely DON'T want to do something that dramatic with your first boyfriend. I mean, I can't speak for you, but chances are you'll end up regretting it one day. And like everyone else said, you're only 13..so don't rush it. :]
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