Hey y'all. My name is Jennifer and I'm a 14 year old that lives in Alabama. I don't know if it shows, but I just joined Advicenators recently. I really enjoy giving advice to people and I hope I can help!
I love music, especially the oldies, I love the color red, and well that's all that's needed to know about me. (:
E-mail: Jennifervantassel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Madison, Alabama
Age: 14
Member Since: June 7, 2012
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So that guy I met on the interenet over 6 months ago, ( we meet once ) has really really liked me but then he kinda seemed uninterested, (but we were still talking) in last few weeks so I said that I'm ending things with him as I'm tired of feeling like I'm bothering him, and he hasn't replied to me yet. Is it possible that he will miss me,( even if he did lose interest in me) when were talking every single day, and had plans for the future, his friends really liked me and so on? I kinda regret I said that now, but I feel like I've done the right thing. What you guys thing?
Any reason why would he not replay to me :/? (link)
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Hi,
You made a good choice saying you were ending things. The fact that he hasn't replied shows he doesn't even care. He isn't worth your time, but eventually he'll see what he missed out on and will come running back to you. By then, you'll probably be over him. Unless he responds within the week, I'd give up on him.
-JennHenn
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I have had a huge crush on this guy since high school, but we never talked to eachother,he was basically my senior in high school we would see each other but we never said hello... Right Now I am in my 3rd year in the university, his not in my school, and I just got his blackberry contact from a friend and I added him up and he accepted but I don't know how to start a conversation with him, I feel like he may just turn me off, and I have liked him since then this shit won't go away pls what should I do (link)
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Hiya,
I'm assuming y'all have ever talked before, so this could be a little difficult and awkward for you. Why not strike a conversation by simply saying hi. I know it'll seem weird, but you need to start somewhere. Good luck!
-JennHenn
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I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas? (link)
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Hey Hun,
I'm glad you're working the courage up to tell this guy your feelings for him! Kudos to you for that, most people fear telling anyone who they like, let alone telling the person they like that they like them. (If that makes any sense.)
Anyways, I wish I knew how close y'all were. If you're not all that close, then I wouldn't rush into telling the guy that you like him, try to get to actually personally know him. Talk to him, learn about his likes and dislikes, how his life is, and basically all about him. Once you feel like you've learned about him, that would be the time to confess you like/have liked him. Explain that even though y'all have just started talking, you felt a spark or connection between the both of you and you've starte developing feelings for him.
If I'm totally wrong and you've known him for quite some time, then excuse what I just said in the paragraph above and listen to this instead. Confess that you have liked him for quite some time and you really wanted to get that off your chest. If he likes you back, he'll obviously reply that he likes you, if not, then at least you were brave enough to explain how you feel.
Good luck!
-JennHenn
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So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not? (link)
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Personally, I think he's just as shy as you. He wants to steal glances at you because he's curious about you and he's contemplating on talking to you more and what not. Instead of him making the first move, why don't you? He's doing his part by hanging around places you normally hang around, try to step it up a bit.
Good luck Hun!
-JennHenn
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14/f
i have been cutting myself since my mom would not let me see my dad(alittle over 2 years).
i have not told anyone,but am considering telling my bf. we have been going out for 5 months and i knoow he will go beserck saying *why havent you told me before*.
i know he will say this cause he is very protective over me.
please help i dont know what to do, lately i have been useing a very dull and small knife,all it does is leave a red mark on me for about 4 hours.
and i want to use a sharp knife, i have willed myself to stay away from sharp knives so i dont get the temtation.
please? any advise is very thankful!! (link)
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Hi Hun,
I know you've probably heard/seen this before, but cutting should never be the answer. It obviously isn't since you're still pretty upset over the tough situation you're in. If you honestly trust your boyfriend enough to tell him something so personal to you, that he wouldn't tell a soul, then yes, go for it and tell him. Even if he freaks out, it just shows how much he cares about you, so don't stress about that too much, see it as a good sign.
I'm sorry that your mom hasn't let you see your dad for the past two years. Have you actually had a serious, grown up talk with her concerning how not being able to see your dad affects you? You deserve a father in your life. If he has done something drastic and awful, then she should let you know about it. Try talking to her and asking the real reason as to why you cannot see him. Then explain to her you've been inflicting damage upon yourself as a result of not being able to see him, IF she still doesn't allow you to after having a serious talk.
Please girlie, stop cutting yourself. It obviously hasn't gotten you anywhere, you're still obviously strongly affected in a bad way from this. Find something else to do that doesn't involve inflicting damage on yourself. You could go out for a walk when you start feeling tempted to harm yourself in any way, or even get up and do a little stretching. Just please, don't hurt yourself ever.
I hope things change for you, and I hope I helped. Best wishes to you.
-JennHenn
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