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i don't care how old you are, but please only answer this question if you feel mature enough to do so. It is not anything bad, but I'd just rather not have an answer that i can't put to use. I'm a 19 yr old woman. I am in love with my ex-boyfriend. I have known him since I was 16 and I still feel for him the same way I did when I first met him. We broke up (his idea, not mine). I thought things were going fine. Time has been able to heal a lot of my wounds, and I understand why the break up happened now. i am not going to write the whole story because I just need an answer. However, you get the idea. I HAVE CHANGED! I'm still the same girl he use to know... BUT, I am not the girl he broke up with. I no longer get upset over little things. I am in college and so is he. We ended up in one of the same classes by pure chance b/c we both took the class before. (he failed it and i dropped it)... so it's pretty crazy we ended up in the same one! But, I know he loves me. He loves me but the guilt of breaking up with me for a bad reason is overwhelming him. He's afraid to go back to my family (for them to be mad at him). I understand. But, they have forgiven him and they love him too. He needs to know it's okay to come back. But, I can't just go up to him and say that. It's kind of weird for me to just say that. But, I know for sure he loves me. We have mutual friends and a lot of his friends are my family members, so I KNOW. But, he is overcome by his guilt to the point where he can't talk to me. I think if I just went up to him and gave him a hug, things would be better. It's a good start, at least. But, how can i do this without making it awkward... how can i just give him a hug after class? what's an opening line i can use to talk to him?! than you and i really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. God bless you.


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I've been through this.... waiting for him to say something to me and stuff... but bottom line, you love him and he loves you, you've known each for so long, are willing to loose what u had with him just because neither of you can speak about it?... just go up to him and talk to him.. SO WHAT if it feels weird cause your going up to him.... just do it, and I promise you it will be worth it!
Hope I helped ☆...


okay, i have been with my boyfriend for like two years.
for a year now we have been having sex...quite frequently too
he has cum in me like every single time, but not once have i gotten pregnant.

why cant i get pregnant. does him smoking a large amount of weed have anything to do with it?
whats wrong with me :/

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Hey I know EXACTLY what your going through... that happens to me my boyfriend and I have sex every single day and he cums inside me all the time but when he stopped doing it for a month, there's a chance I could be pregnant..... the reason why I said that was because your 18 years old and every womens body is different, when your boyfriend cums inside you all the time that there is so much sperm going inside your vagina it can't all go in the egg, that's why your not pregnant... there is nothing wrong with you, just stop letting him cum inside you and start using condoms..... when my boyfriend last came in me its been a month and now I might be pregnant, because we've been trying so much that the doctor told us that we should cool down on the sex and have at least 3 times a week so the egg can recooperate. I know its so much to read but at least you know why... hope I helped...




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