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Q: okay im 15/f and my boyfriends 14/m.
weve been dateing for awhile now. and we fight all the time. about anything we go to diffrent schools to. so it doesnt help.he has made me cry in public and pretty much every day. but the days i see him wich is only twice a week or so. but he has told me that he thinks its weird when were not together and my frineds really hate him like they truely do. but im in love with him i know im only 15 and i could say it about every guy i date but ive never felt this strongly for someone. he doestn like the fact that i have done alot with other guys we fight about that all the time. and he yells and says he doesnt want to talk to me then he says he loves me and is sorry. im greatly confused on what im supposed to do should i trust my friends when they say hes no good for me or should i go with what my heart says to do? both seem right to me but they both cant be right?
I say you go with your heart. It could be puppy love or it could be real you never know. But There must be some other reason why your friends hate him so much, and if there is then maybe you should you consider that but only if there's a real good reason. Friends are great support but only you two know how deep your feelings are. And for the fight part, i had that same problem with my boyfriend. Its not that he dont love or care about you its just that a guy wants to feel like your his and only his so when he thinks bout you being more than just friends with any guy it kinda hurts! No you cant take it back but all you can do is sit down and talk to him bout it and if you think your serious enough about him; make sure it doesnt happen again. Sooner or later he will see that the past is only the past.
-JABOiNKER.

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Hello People. Im Jaboinker. .Of course thats not my real name lol but thats what i will be going by. Im new to this site but not new at giving advice. Im A Very outgoing person and very outspoken. I love giving advice to people. .my friends kind of made it my hobby! I have a wonderful boyfriend and a great family but i can relate to alot of different people from my own personal life experiences. Please dont be afraid to give the newcomer a try. I Wont bit. =]

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