I'm InVision. That's what you will know me by, so please refrain from asking my real name.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: PreMedicine Student
Age: 18
Member Since: July 15, 2010
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ok so like this girl and she most likely likes me too and i think we could have a pretty good relationship but anyways we are only 15 and she has a baby do you think this would be a problem in the relationship (link)
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A friend of mine is 15 years old as well and has a child and he has a really successful dating life (well as much as a 15 year old can).
But what you have to realize is that she is on a different level of maturity than you. She has been through something in life at such a young age that you haven't been through and it has made her grow up.
If you think that you are ready to add a child into the mix in a 15 year old relationship, then by all means, pursue it. But think about it first, hun.
You're young, live your life.
If you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask.
InVision
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My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months but we're talking for about 4 or 5 months.. Before turned 18 (just recently) we disscussed moving out together and getting our own place. I turned 18 a month after him and thats when i started really looking around for things we could afford, and now it seems like everytime i bring it up he always says i dont know or maybe.. Does he just not want to move out? I dont know what to do anymore.. (link)
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FIrst off it's a horrible idea to live with someone you've been dating for less than a year ( i know this by my own experience and friends have said the same). You get too much of each other and it can get exhausting emotionally.
Second of all, if he REALLY want's to , he will come to you and take initiative. Guy's tend to say stuff they regret later, and if he is acting like that, then the best thing to do is lay off the issue for a while and bring it up in a few months. Pushing him to do something he doesn't want can put a lot of strain on a relationship.
You're young, live your life. Don't rush into things.
If you have any other questions feel free to ask.
InVision
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I've been in 4 serious relationships since i was 13.. 3 of them have ended & im currently in one...i still think about 2 of my exs.. & i mean a lot. & i dont know if i want to be with my current boyfriend any more..
& since i have feelings for my exs it doesnt help.
i want to stop thinking about my exs.. how do i do that?!
& my current boyfriend is like everything a girl could ask for..but hes just like too sensitive & too needy for my taste, but i LOVE his family.. & i dont want to hurt him at all.. what do i do ? do i just try to make it work for awhile or do i leave now?
thanks for any advice (: (link)
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I have definately been in this EXACT situation. My last serious boyfriend hurt me and broke my heart, but I have never completely gotten over him.
I started dating a very sweet guy, who was well mannered, funny, sweet, affectionate, romantic, etc. I even adored his family and loved spending time with them.
The only problem was I was constantly comparing him to my ex.
Me and him broke up, but for different reasons.
The important thing you have to remember, is why you and your ex's broke up in the first place. It's very easy to remember the good in a relationship, such as how you felt when you first fell in love with them or your first kiss. But sometimes, you have to remember if the bad outweighed the good in the relationship.
I still love my ex, and remember the feelings I had for him all of the time. But I know that me and him would never work good in a relationship again, because, as much as I loved the boy and would do anything in the world for him, I would have to remember that specific part of the relationship was minut compared to our reasons to part.
I hope this helped and if you have any other questions please don't hesitate to ask.
InVision
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