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Well I Live in Bloomington Illinois. Im a pretty normal dude, I want to go to The University of Illinois and major in either journalism or Psychology. People say I give really good advice and am a great problem solver. Ummmmm well thats really all anybody needs to know I guess, just ask me if you want to know more.
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ok, so I think I like this guy...
and he said one day when I ran into him, that we should hang out sometime, then he gave me his number....so i don't know what he's try'n to tell me....or if he's even interested. But I have had recent dreams about him, and have feeling for him as well. Thing is, i never see him, talk to em, and he's never relly online...but I have his #. So HELP ME, HELP ME, HELP ME, PLEASE....

what do i do....go for it or not, and if so....how the hell??

lol

thanx alot
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Doesnt seem like you have much to loose by giving him a call. The longer you wait the more akward it will be to call him. Call him up n say hey and ask when hes free and if he wants to go hang out at the mall or go to the pool or somthing. Keep it low pressure and go indtending it to be friends hanging out.


alright so i went out with this guy during the school year for 4 months. but then i ended it because i felt like i really didnt like him anymore. then i started liking, this other guy, who, is really sweet but i dont think he would be a good boyfriend to me. aat the end of the year tho, i found out that he was willing to try to make things work with me. but i havent talked to him since! then just recently, the guy who i went out with first af all told me that he still really liked me. i kind of like him too but im not sure who to be with. if i cant make up my mind, does that mean im not supposed to be with either of them? or should i just be friends with both of them? im afraid that if i got out with one, ill hurt the other. please help! (link)
Going back with the first guy probly puts on track to break up with him again because you realize that you still dont like him. kinda liking ppl isnt a good reason to start a relationship, the intrest has to be genuine and strong. With the other dude, I wouldnt rush into anything with him. Start talking to him regularly and hang out with him. You have to get to know people before you can decide if you want to have a deeper relationship with him.


Okay... so i was just going out with this guy for a day. And then all the suddent he dumps me. He said that he needed to think about things and that he is having family problems. Do you think that he really is having family problems? Or do u think that he likes another girl? Do you think i should go back out with him cuz he told me that he cant really have a gf rite now but that he mite like next week. Do you think i should go back out with him there??
I'm 15 a girl and hes 16. (link)
Sounds to me that this guy isnt very mature and isnt intrested in having a serious relationship. You could go out with him again but I would exspect more of the same as far as you never being very sure of what hes going to do next, or feeling secure in a relationship with him. If he is changing on weather he can even have a gf or not on a weekly basis then its not worth it.




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