hey iim krista and ii like to help other people out when they need me!
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okay .. well recently mee and my boyfriend got into a little fiite.. well he broke up with mee.. and i dnt understand why he does thiis to mee.. every once n a while we get into it over really stupid thiings and then we break up .. and its never mee who breaks up.. its always him.. and i am soo in love with him i dnt kno what to do.. usualy i would call him cryin and wantin him back but im soo tired of that i jst wish he would come back to me for once.. what do you thiink i should do.. another prob i have is that he keeps in touch with his ex grl all the tiime.. granted they was together for about 3 years but its like he still puts her first and it kinda bugs mee.. ive said something about it and he jst says that he isnt gona drop her and that he wil always b friiends with her and stuff.. i jst dnt kno ne more what to do.. im soo in love but its like he dnt feel the same i dnt kno (link)
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hey -
ok ii kno what your talkin bout cause ive seen it happen so many times before its not even funny. i think you should be outgoing about the fact that him and his ex are still friends because they have gone out with each other for 3 years and you gotta admit that is a pretty long god damn time lol. and its not easy maybe he goes to that girl for advice ... however its not right that he puts her over you and everyone else so let him kno that its ok for him to be friends with her but to treat you guys equally cause thats the only fair way.ok but to answer your first question ii think you guys should have like a long talk and open up your heart to him - dont cry just b strong - cause sometimes guys dont like it when girls cry cause it comes off as too much for them to handle so while ur having this talk ask him for the favor in return ask him how he feels about you - and if his feelings are just as strong as yours then you can build somethin off of that - if not ii think its time you move on and find someone knew - ii kno that ur madly in love with him and its gonna be hard - trust me ii was stuck on someone for a long ass time- but then maybe youll find someone thatll care just as much about you and youll actually b happier than you are now - good luck girl
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hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad... (link)
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Yeah if you see a hottie, just go up and talk to him introduce yourself ask where he lives. But i want to warn you something about high school, your middle school guys are always saying want to **** and stuff, well sometimes it gets worse in high school. Take your time finding the right guy dont rush into things, I dont want you to get hurt! The right guy is out there it just takes time to find him
-krista-
hope i helped
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do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs? (link)
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guys are guys. they enjoy things like sexy underwear etc. if you and your boyfriend have already established the emotional part of your relationship and want to establish mor of the phsycial, you should buy some sexy underwear. you can get cute lacy boyshorts at a store like marshalls or kohls. target and walmart also may sell them but they also sell packs of like 5-6 thongs. if you want something very sexy, but slightly pricy, try victora's secret. they have awesome like bra and panties sets and its all sexy. charlotte russe also has very cute thongs.
xoxo
krista
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Okay i have this friend named Jesse and i really really like him and i think im in love but im only 13 so prolly not. But he started talking all sweet like he likes me but i dunno. He sometimes acts like that btu then he doesnt. He sometimes acts like he dont even care! And i dunno if i should still like him or move one..
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ok wOw have ii heard this story over and over again .. lol ii think ii can give yOu better advice on this topic since ive seen it happen over and over again. i think iits important that you sit the guy that you like down or call him and ask him how he truly feels about you and be very forward about your feelings. sometimes guys tend to play mind games with you because theyre unsure of how they feel bout you . and age is just a number trust me gurl you can fall in love at any age cause the feeling will always be the same even if your 25 or 80. Once youve talked to him and like found out how he truly feels you can move on from there. if he gives you a stupid reply to you when you ask odds are hes not in it for the right reasons. if he truly opens up to you and tells you how he feels about you with some genuity then he truly does like you. and you should try to have a relationship then. good luck !
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hey hun jus annoying u again! oka well this tyme i gotta bigger prob. oka i meet this guy online his name is unknown! ha ha oka well i talk to him on tha phone all tha tyme n he tells me he loves me n i tell him i love him but u kno me i wanna be wit a guy n he lives far away n hes 18 i dunno should i tell him its off or jus keep it as it is? i'm 14 (link)
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ok hey gurl..
first off hes 18 and your only 14 your a minor and if you do anything and if anybody finds out he can be in serious trouble..next.. if you tell him you love him make sure you actually mean it because seriously ive learned not to toss those three powerful and destructive words around .. next 75% of the time online relationships dont work nor last. dont use the fact that you want a guy to like this dude. if you truly like him no ones stopping you but if not i think you need to tell him off.. you guys live far away from each other too which is another con - youll hardly see him you wanna be with someone who you can hold in your arms and touch - not someone who you can only hear there voice on the phone and type a message to online..
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Ok well you know me really well and i have a problem i like to meet strangers online and meet up with them and fuck them i lost my viginity at 13 and i go to clubs all the time just to leave with people and screw them i also like to use drugs such as cocaine, marijuana, and heroin i dont know why i just like the thrill of being able to fly plus it calms me down i no a friend whos a docter and she said if i continue down this path ill get aids most likely or within the next 5 years i will most likely die what should i do to stop my addictions??
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hey
ok this really really REALLY scares me because you told me that ii knO yOu really well and seriously ii think yOu should somehow have a one on one conversation with mii cause this topic an get really personal. you never kno what the intentions are of the guys you meet online so youve really gotta be careful...theyll say anything to get into your pants because theyre desperate..not to be mean but its so true and yOuve gotta stOp ii knO that sOme peOple onlii like talkiin ta guys online ta get attention that the people you kno .. and plus ii kno a lOt of peOple whO like ta qet hiqh and seriouslii its not worth it .. because ive seen somebody get really messed up with it and sOme people even got in trOuble with the authorities..i dont really wanna continue on with this cause its gonna get really personal.. andim gettin really worried so if your reading this response im me : HollisterxBabi15 ...please be careful!
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i have a ? .. how do u make out ?
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haha lol .. um here its kinda hard to explain so ima get a websites answer that will explain it better
How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!) LOL
see there ya go lol better advice
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0ok well I've been goin out with this guy (we'll call him Henry), for like a month. i realLly like him and all, but now I'm finding out that my ex-boyfriend (we'll call him Harold), really likes me again. But when I was going out with "Harold" I really liked him like more than any other guy. The problem is though, that "Harold" lives where I used to live before I moved and ever since we broke up in like Feburary, we haven't been as close until about a week or two ago. I reeaallyy like "Henry" though like a whole whole lott.. but his momma i think hates me so I don't really get to see him until school starts back up. I don't wanna dump "Henry" cuz i really like him, but I'm startin to like "Harold" again and I don't know what to do. Too make things worse, "Harold's" cousin, (we'll call him Herman??) likes me too and tells me he loves me. So what should I do???
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wOw youve got a lot of people after you lol ii think you should follow your heart either way your gonna end up breaking someones heart.. but ii think yOu shouldnt use the fact that the guys mom probably doesnt like you for an excuse theres ways you can still see him before skool starts. .ii think u need to go with the person you like a lot more and the person you kno will treat you better outta all 3. good luck!
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Krista,
i need help. ok see me nd my friend (he's a boy) are lyk rele close, nd i can tell him practically everything. well i have had a crush on him for sooo long now, nd i want to tell him i have feelings for him, but i dunno how to tell him, nd i wanna kno if he has feelings for me too. wat do i do?
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hey -
ok ive been thrOugh this like soo many times lol and so have a lot of my friends so ill give you the best advice that ii possibly can..ii think you should confront him and be completely open with how you feel about him thats the only thing you can really do.. and the worst he can tell you is no... and ii kno how bad that sucks .. because a lot of guys like to use the classic excuse.."we're too good of friends.." but sometimes its true. you said you could talk to him about anythin and if u guys end up going out and breaking up theres a high chance he wont wanna b friends with you after that.. and thats the worst feeling in the world next to rejection knowing that the person you were realli close with doesnt wanna talk to you anymore.but honestly dont hold in your feelings anymore .. just completely open up and tell him how you feel and ask him for the same in return. good luck!
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before i ask my question i just wanted to say you have a very cool site and i think its very cool how you help people out.. but moving on..
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i love him to death but i choose to make stupid mistakes.. for one i cheated on him and for two i can be so mean to him cause he makes me mad sometimes but deep down i love this kid. It's like one of those things where you dont expect to fall for the guy but then you do and its amazing. anyways we've been off and on more times then a light switch but we always get back together and the other day i found out that he cheated on me. so i ended the relationship and i told him that i wanted him out of my life. But unfortunatly thats not really what i want and i have no idea whether to try to make things work again or move on.. its so crazy cause i've never been like this wiht a boy.. i've always been the heartbreaker i've never been dumped cheated on or anything bad and now i feel horrible! but i definitly want him back.. it sucks to lose a guy but i feel like i lost my best friend as well... what should i do???
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hey thank you so much about the comment on mii site and im glad somebody appreciates it
but back to your question
ok ii kno you love him to death.. but ii don think you should just dump him cause he cheated on you in any normal situation it wouldve been ok but you cheated on him before too so ii guess you can say karma hit you lol . if you really truly love him and from what you told me i definetly picked that up, then you need to show him how much you truly love him and how much he means to you because ii think after all you guys have been through together he needs to hear that kinda reassurance. and if you happen to get mad at him try to b leniant and kinda open for discussion cause if you just close him off like that your not gonna get any higher in your relationship. ii kno a lot of people cant stand it when they get cheated on but know you probably know how he mustve felt when you did and iim so sorry that you feel like youve lost someone so important to you .. but if you really want him back you need to tell him how you truly feel and be somewhat emotional about it .. and then you need to truly stay commited!and promise him youll be faithful thats the most important thing ever.. cause no one wants to be with someone they cant trust.. no one is perfect its all about seeing beyond the imperfections and embracing them.. so truly tell him how you feel and maybe things will change for you .. good luck gurl!
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Okay i have this friend whos a guy but i started 2 have feelings 4 him n we were really close but then he lied 2 me n did somethin and we got n a big fight n he didnt no how 2 handle it cuz he didnt really say much..i was the only one..n i feel like im steppin into it more then i should cuz its his fault..n we dont call eachother or anything anymore..i wrote him a e-mail but he hasnt got it yet! i need advice..cuz he told me he liked me lil bit but idk now ..i want adive bAD
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well ii think if you cant trust him since he lied to you you dont have a basis for a serious relationship - ii think he should prove to you that he is actually the right person for you somehow..because right now ii don see anything happening for you guys , he needs to truly open upto you about how he feels for you , and ii think you should do the same for him too and maybe you can build something based on that.
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i've had a boyfriend for like a year now and its been rocky.. we've broke up got back together several times and we've hurt eachohter emotionally several times.. but ultimatly we are best friends and we really fell for eachother But we broke up recently and this time he's hanging out with some girl and she is nothing like him as in she smokes pot and cigarretes and he's tall and shes barely five feet.. its so weird and he kissed her the other night and told me bout it but he said he still loved me but hes sorta attracted to her. which crushed me! but i hadnt been the best girl friend so its wierd. well we are still sorta talking and hooking up and what not but i dont know if this is the right way to go or just end it. i love him and i'd do anything to make our relationship work and it's always been me messing up and now its him so i'm lost iono whether i should keeping doing things with him or just let it go ya know?
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hey-
ii kno what your talking about..because you love him, you dont wanna see him with another girl. but hooking up with him randomly isnt gonna make him forqet bout her if hes starting to like her now. you need to be completely honest with him and explain how going out with you would be better than him going for her since you guys have a past and it would be better basically your advertising yourself as the better candidate.. ii think tho if hes already moved on than you should too.. ii mean you guys will always be friends and stuff.. but maybe its time for you guys to find new people .. but also ii think you need him to get away from that girl that smokes pot cause trust me theres a lot of things that can get screwed up by him just hanging out with her. so the answer to your question is instead of wasting your time hooking up with him .. find someone for yourself and if things are truly meant to be with that other guy then you guys will come back to each other cause maybe now isnt the right time yano?
good luck!
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Hey...I'm going out with this guy and he's soO perfect and good 2 me...i've never had sum1 that treat's me soO good...I really love him and i dont lyk telling my feelings that much...i mean we tell eachother that we love eachother n last night he poured his heart and soul out 2 me....he told me how he feels and i wanted 2 cry bcause everything is sOo perfect..and i want 2 tell him but it's hard 4 me and i dont wanna sound gay... :( or stupid or sumthing. I dont know how 2 tell him exactly...and i wanted to know if you could tell me how to say it 2 him...cause my feelings 4 him r soO very strong lyk never b4. thanx _me_ (link)
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hey -
ok my advice to you is to honestly just open up yourself to him ii kno it might not be as easy as im implying it is since you havent ever opened up your heart to anyone you really had true feelings for, but since he took his time to tell you how he felt it would only be right for you to return the favor . just pretend like your talking to one of your friends that your realli close to when you talk to him . i kno youve gotta be feeling something for him in return since your in love with him so from the bottom of your heart find what it is and tell him and truly mean it too. and by telling him your not gonna come off as being gay or stupid lol your gonna come off as being genuine so good luck gurl ii hope you guys last forever and ever and ever lol - Krista
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