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I'm a 34 yr old mother of 2 teens. My daughter is 14, my son is 13. I've been through a lot and seen a lot. I'm very giving and caring. I like to share my advice and experiences with people. I like helping people. Feel free to ask anything I will help answer your questions if I can. If not I will also let you know that I just don't know. I'm very honest, even when the truth hurts.

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there is a guy that i have liked for 2 monthes now and every night he asks me to sneak out with him.....to make out and crap like that and i talk to his friends and i found out that he never liked me but he asked me out 2 weeks ago but the only time he will hang out with me is at night when we sneak out!!!! sometimes i say no but he always says he has a surprise for me which always works but im tired of just talking to him at night i want to hang out with him and talk during the day as well but he wont!!! so i no i should break up with him but i dk!!! please help me!!!

You should go with your gut. If you feel like he's using you and you should break up then do it. If you feel this way now after 2 months it's not going to get better. And if you have to sneak around then you should not be doing it. If you aren't doing anything you shouldn't be then why sneak???

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i have a friend who i really seriously think i love.i've never felt quite this way about any other guy before.he's my best friend and he says he doesnt like me that way but sometimes it seems like he does.we flirt and talk all the time and he's always there for me.i just dont understand.he got hurt really bad because some girl broke his heart.this happened about a year or so ago and he never sees her anymore because she goes to another school.i think he's just afraid of going out with me because he doesnt want us to have something happen and break up and then never be the same friends we were before we started going out.im not sure tho.please help me out with what i should do.thank u.

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I had a few friends I felt that way about. One friend I had been friends with since kindergarten. After graduating we became more than friends. It ruined everything! We haven't spoke in 14 yrs. I had another friend that I'd been best friends with for almost 7 yrs. We dated for 2 months haven't spoke in 10 yrs. If you have a friend that you feel that close to, keep it that way. Good friends like that are hard to find. Boyfriends come and go.. true friends will not go any where. Hope I've been of help
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i told my boyfreind if he is not going to be there for this second child then get out i already have a two year old boy with him and my feeling for him have changed i care for him i am starting ti think i don't love him any more is that a normal thing to go through while you are pregnanat

You have a lot of different feelings when you are pregnant. Is he not treating you right? Is he acting like he isn't going to help? It is really hard to raise kids on your own. I did it, and a lot of women do. I also came from a home where my parents stayed together for 26 years. In the 18 yrs I was at home I don't remember my parents saying I love you or hugging or kissing. It's hard to grow up in a home with no affection. I'm also divorced. I didn't want my kids growing up in a house with no love. My ex and I agreed when we divorced that we would not fight in front of the kids or talk badly about each other in front of them. They have seen that mom is happy and dad is happy, but mom and dad weren't happy together. Does that make sense? Most of all they know they are loved. It's hard to keep a relationship together. It takes giving and patience. Sometimes things that seems like an issue today may blow over and not be such a big deal. Are your issues worth your kids growing up without mom and dad together?? Are your issues something that will not ever be resoved?? If you can't resolve these issues then don't stay together for the sake of the kids. Growing up in a home with fighting and no love is not good. Hope this helps
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i know you might not want to answer this....but i found this website and i want to know something...

have you ever sucked your husbands penis? because he is pressuring me too and i dont know what to do...

its not that i do not like him, cus man is he a sweetie, okay

please, help me answer this question

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That needs to be a personal choice. What are YOUR feelings on this?? (Men basically have the same opinion on the subject)Do you feel this is something you want to do? Do you feel like it is something nasty and you don't want to? You should not do this because he is pressuring you into it. This should be something BOTH of you are willing to do. If you really don't want to DON'T. It could be something you could try and if you don't like it don't do it again. Like I said it's a personal choice for you. I've got friends that do and friends that don't. If he is any kind of a man he WON'T pressure you. Communication is very important. Let him know why you don't want or what your fears and thoughts are. Hope this helps.
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Okay so, my girlfriend has been going through these wierd stages where she is like so in love with me, then randomly not wanting anything to do with me, or being bored with me or something. She is leaving in two months, and I don't know how she feels, and I am afraid to say somethign because I now have no idea what kind of mood she is in, and I love her so much, with all of my heart, she is the world to me, and I could never do anything to hurt her! What should I do or say? I need help!

Communication is a very important part of any relationship. You need to talk to her. If she is back and forth with her feelings, she may not be as into you as you are with her. Maybe you could say to her that you really have strong feelings for her and are not wanting to hurt her in any way. That you are uncertain of her feelings and with her leaving you need to know where you stand. If she is still not giving you straight answers I would feel that she doesn't have the same feelings and you should move on.

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